Conquering anxiety and depression after 300k of film school debt, with Stephanie Bousley
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Stephanie Bousley talks about how to get rid of student loan debt to live your best life in her new book Buy the Avocado Toast. This week, I talk with Stephanie about how she accumulated $300k of student loan debt while going to film school in one of the most expensive cities in the world, and how she’s paying it off while living a comfortable life.

In today’s episode, you'll find out:

  • Why you can’t work your way out of student loan debt
  • How having six-figures of debt doesn’t make you irresponsible
  • Stephanie’s struggle with shame and secrecy about her debt
  • Why Stephanie has refinanced her student loans 5+ times
  • What I would have advised Stephanie if she were my client
  • Stephanie’s advice about rewarding yourself even when you have debt

Full show notes at:

Retirement Answer Man
Retirement Answer Man
Roger Whitney, CFP®, CIMA®, RMA, CPWA®, AIF®
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Retirement Starts Today Radio
Retirement Starts Today Radio
Benjamin Brandt CFP®, RICP®
Medicare Basics: What to Expect as You Approach Age 65 with Danielle Roberts, Ep # 163
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