This Is Actually Happening
134: What if your singular dream fell to pieces?
Jun 11, 2019 · 40 min
Play episode

“How could I allow myself to mourn what I had lost? Because if I mourned it, then it was like a death, and I couldn’t accept that the me that I knew had died.”

Producer: Whit Missildine

Editor: Whit Missildine

Today’s episode featured Stefan Weiner. As a musician, he goes by Stefan Alexander and you can hear more about his music on his website at, on Instagram @stefanalxndr, or look for Stefan Alexander on any music platform.

You can now find new and archival episodes of This Is Actually Happening completely ad-free, on Stitcher Premium. For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go to and use promo code WONDERY.

Instagram: @actuallyhappening

Episode Sponsors:


Daily Harvest: Promo code: HAPPENING

FabFitFun: Promo code: HAPPENING

Intro Music: "Illabye" - Tipper

Music Bed: “Cylinder Four” “Cylinder Five” – Chris Zabriskie

Outro Music: "The Moon is Down" - El Diablo & Adam Schraft (Rojo y Negro) @eldiablosf @rojo-y-negro

Clear search
Close search
Google apps
Main menu