Big Sister Hotline: Episode 35, Feat. PANDORA SYKES
59 min

How do we know we're doing it right?


This is the question that plagues so many of us, particularly with the excessive influence of social media, the wellness industry, fashion and how we navigate interpersonal relationships in an increasingly plugged in world. These topics and more are all explored in great detail in PANDORA SYKES' debut book, "How Do We Know We're It Right? Essays on Modern Life".


Pandora joined me for a very special in-conversation for this week's episode to discuss her book and some of the many themes covered within: fast fashion, moral judgement, choice feminism, motherhood and what she calls the 'flattening of women'. I loved this conversation and I hope you enjoy listening to it!


You can buy Pandora's new book at your local bookstore, and I'll also be giving away TWO COPIES on my instagram to coincide with the release of this episode, so make sure to check that out!


For feedback or to submit your own questions, you can email me on bigsisterhotline@gmail.com


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