277: Wired For Love
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The fundamental building blocks of love come from deep inside of us. Love can cause great joy, but also great pain in our lives. The more we understand ourselves and our partner, the better we can love and be loved. Listen to today's show to learn how to navigate love and relationships. 

In this episode, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
  • Learn why and how we are wired for love from an early age
  • Why it can hurt so much if we feel like our partner is not there for us
  • How attachment theory shapes our relationships
  • Learn one of the most important things you can ask yourself when dealing with difficulties in your relationship
  • How to communicate with your partner during conflict or disconnection
  • And much more!

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Relationship Alive!
Relationship Alive!
Neil Sattin
244: A Practical Approach for Big Changes
When you want to shift something in your life, sometimes the scale of the change can seem daunting. So how do you get from point A to point B (or...point Z) in a way that's actually doable - and sustainable? It can be tempting to take drastic actions to make big changes - but you might sabotage your changes by falling into your old habits. Today we'll talk about how you can create positive changes in your relationship, or something else in your life, in a way that's practical, and relatively easy - no matter how big the change. As always, I’m looking forward to your thoughts on this episode and what revelations and questions it creates for you. Please join us in the Relationship Alive Community on Facebook to chat about it! Sponsors: Find a quality therapist, online, to support you and work on the places where you’re stuck. For 10% off your first month, visit Betterhelp.com/ALIVE to fill out the quick questionnaire and get paired with a therapist who’s right for you. Resources: Check out my Secrets of Relationship Communication COURSE for a masterclass in how to improve the communication and connection in your relationship. I want to know you better! Take the quick, anonymous, Relationship Alive survey FREE Guide to Neil’s Top 3 Relationship Communication Secrets Guide to Understanding Your Needs (and Your Partner’s Needs) in Relationship (ALSO FREE) Support the podcast (or text “SUPPORT” to 33444) Amazing intro and outro music provided courtesy of The Railsplitters Transcript: Neil Sattin: Hello and welcome to another episode of Relationship Alive. This is your host, Neil Sattin. Today's topic is going to be how we can create big changes in our lives, but in ways that are sustainable. Because if you do something big to change your life but then you just fall back into old patterns, well, you're going to get the same results you've always gotten. Do the same thing, get the same results. So how can you create a big change in a way that you're going to be able to keep going, that you're going to be able to follow through on, so that it doesn't become just some other big resolution or a promise that you make to yourself that you can't keep? That is what we are going to talk about in today's episode, and I'm going to use an example from my personal life that I've experienced over the past few months so that you can get a sense of what I'm talking about. Neil Sattin: First, I just want to say thank you for being here with me. This wouldn't be a show without you being here with me to talk about relationship issues, and all these different facets of how to show up more fully in our lives, in our relationship with ourselves and in our relationship with the people who are most important to us. So thank you for being here with me. Neil Sattin: Okay, I think that's it. Let's get on with the show, shall we? So when it comes to making big changes in your life, a lot of people talk about the need to take massive action. If you want radically different results, you have to do things radically differently. And on some level, that's true. And often, taking massive action can sometimes be necessary, because sometimes the changes that you want to make, if you want to, for instance, leave a relationship, those kinds of decisions and choices and actions can feel huge, and you have to do this big thing in order to create some momentum in a new direction. But it can be common for people to take a huge action, to feel all this energy and momentum, maybe you've even gone to some personal development seminar and you come back all pumped for the big things that are going to change in your life, and then day after day, week after week, you find that it's hard to maintain the big change. Neil Sattin: And this sometimes happens. I mentioned the ending of a relationship as an example. It's a good example because sometimes, I'm sure if you haven't experienced this, you've known people who have experienced it, where they take a big action, they decide they're going to leave their relationship, they even announce it to their partner, and then it never quite happens. Or it does happen, but then somehow they end up back together again, and back in the same old patterns that they were always in, and the same old misery, and the same old reasons for not being together in the first place. So it's not all doom and gloom, fortunately, but there has to be something else to back up whatever big changes you are trying to make in your life. Neil Sattin: And those could be big changes like ending a relationship, or it could be big changes like making your relationship better, because maybe you simply want to improve the way things are in your relationship. And this is another thing where it can be like, "Alright, we're going to have a date night every week. We're going to make sure that we take three vacations. We're going to show up every day in ways that are loving and caring." And on and on. "We're going to explore new realms of sexual ecstasy together." But then in the end comes... What is it? After the something, the laundry. Like, there's the day-to-day quality of life and how challenging it can be to sustain anything like that, even if you have the best intentions and the best desires and the most brilliant vision for how you want a thing to be. Neil Sattin: Because the big things are inherently not sustainable, they take lots of energy, they take lots of time, they can take lots of thought and planning. Even though initially they're somewhat abrupt, if you want to keep those things going, then it requires a lot from you, and that's why it's not sustainable. And then you have this other problem, which is... Interested in reading the transcript for the rest of this episode? 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The Adult Chair
The Adult Chair
Michelle Chalfant
246: Transform Your Life Experience Using The Adult Chair with Anita
Each week on this show, I aim to bring you ideas, expertise and tools to make psychology simple and to introduce you to new healing possibilities. But my goal has never been just to share knowledge. My goal is transformation...to make it easy for you to do your work and become who you were meant to be using this model! I love bringing you stories of others who have been able to take what they’ve learned here and put it into practice to see REAL change in their lives. As others model the model for us, we see how easy it is to use, get ideas for how to apply it and are motivated to keep doing the work because we see how it truly can transform! When I heard Anita share her story in The Adult Chair Membership group, I knew this was one I had to share with you. Anita grew up in a dysfunctional family and has been working to heal her internal programming using The Adult Chair over the last year. The holidays in particular are difficult for Anita because her family didn’t celebrate Christmas, even though she always wanted to as a child. She felt a lot of loss, shame and disappointment around the end of the year. But this year, she completely transformed her holiday experience by working with her inner child and creating a magical Christmas for her and her husband. In doing so, she was also able to work through some triggers and view her relationship with her parents in a healthier way. I’m truly blown away by the work she has done, and I know you will be so inspired by her story. Listen to discover: * Exactly how Anita used The Adult Chair to transform a negative experience * How to work with the inner child to reclaim joy * How to stayed grounded and in fact and truth in conversations with family * Anita’s “gratitude, guidance and grace” daily practice “We get programmed with what our ‘norm’ is, and until we bring consciousness and awareness, we can’t change it.” - Michelle Chalfant “Because I’ve been working so intently with The Adult Chair model this year, that’s why I think this holiday experience was totally different.” - Anita “When you can bust your stories, or the stories that happen in the Adolescent Chair from our ego, we stay in the present moment, it takes you out of the trigger and it’s over.” - Michelle Chalfant “Gratitude brings you to presence.” - Anita Resources The Adult Chair Membership Use promo code ‘Anita’ to try your first month for $1 https://theadultchair.com/membership/ More Adult Chair The Adult Chair Website https://theadultchair.com The Adult Chair Membership https://theadultchair.com/membership/ The Adult Chair Workshop https://theadultchair.com/events/ The Adult Chair Coaching Certification https://theadultchair.com/certification-program/ TAC Gatherings https://theadultchair.com/tacgatherings/ Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michelle.chalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MichelleChalfantFanPage/ The Adult Chair Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant **** EPISODE CREDITS: If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Danny Ozment. He helps thought leaders, influencers, executives, HR professionals, recruiters, lawyers, realtors, bloggers, coaches, and authors create, launch, and produce podcasts that grow their business and impact the world. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com
42 min
Affirmation Pod
Affirmation Pod
Josie Ong Media
324 Grown Up So Much
Have You Celebrated How Far You've Come? It can be easy to keep pressing forward and forget to take some time to reflect on the journey so far. This one is designed for taking time to reflect on how you have "Grown Up So Much" Episode 299 Making Time for Self-Reflection Looking for ad free versions? Go to AffirmationPod.com/Join SPONSOR SPOTLIGHT Hello Fresh is America's #1 meal kit delivery service. Get easy, seasonal recipes and pre-measured ingredients delivered right to your door. HelloFresh is not only the first carbon-neutral meal kit, but they help you reduce your food waste with their pre-portioned ingredients! Use Hello Fresh Promo Code 10AFFIRMATION to get 10 free meals, including free shipping! HelloFresh.com/10Affirmation WANT MORE EPISODES LIKE THIS ONE? Episode 107 Guided Reflection - Evening Reflection Episode 90 Guided Reflection - Permission, Priority and Persistence for Self Care Episode 72 Morning Reflection Episode 71 Reflection - One Minute Reflection LISTENER LOVE ❤️ “Josie changed my life! Love these affirmations so much. They made me more positive and less reactive." - Ferra Rossa, Ferra Rossa Beauty “I listen to these while I'm brushing my teeth or getting a facial. She always drops some nuggets.” – Gabrielle Union, Flawless by Gabrielle Union “Josie talks to you and sets a really positive tone for the day.” - Maria Hatzistefanis, Rodial Beauty WANT THE AD FREE EXPERIENCE? Ready to combat negative thinking? Listen to ad free versions on the Affirmation Pod App! Available on the Apple and Google Play app stores. The app is where you can easily make your own favorites playlist, download to listen offline and a whole lot more! When you sign up for premium access, you also get over 50 bonus ad free episodes you won’t hear on the podcast. FAVORITE BONUS EPISODES INCLUDE Resilience Playlist Self-Love Bonus Playlist Changing the Stories You Make Up in Your Head I Can Handle This Slowing Down for Stillness Keeping the Past in the Past DOWNLOAD THE APP📱 Amazon App: AffirmationPod.com/AmazonApp Google Play App: AffirmationPod.com/GooglePlay iOS App: AffirmationPod.com/iOSApp FOLLOW👇🏻 Facebook Group: AffirmationPod.com/FacebookGroup Facebook Page: AffirmationPod.com/FacebookPage Instagram: AffirmationPod.com/Instagram Pinterest: AffirmationPod.com/Pinterest TikTok: AffirmationPod.com/TikTok Twitter: AffirmationPod.com/Twitter YouTube: AffirmationPod.com/YouTube PREMIUM 💖 Affirmation Pod App: AffirmationPodPremium.com Patreon: AffirmationPod.com/Patreon Supercast AffirmationPod.com/Supercast AND MORE 💗 App: AffirmationPodAccess.com App FAQs: AffirmationPod.com/FAQs Contact: AffirmationPod.com/Contact Kids Version: AffirmationPod.com/Kids Portuguese Version: AffirmationPod.com/Portuguese Request an Episode: AffirmationPod.com/Requests Self-Care Worksheet: AffirmationPod.com/SelfCare Shop: ShopAffirmationPod.com Sponsors: AffirmationPod.com/Sponsors Spotify Playlists: AffirmationPod.com/Playlists Stress Management Worksheet: AffirmationPod.com/Stress Tip Jar: AffirmationPod.com/TipJar Web Version of App: AffirmationPod.Libsyn.com Website: AffirmationPod.com Thanks for listening to Affirmation Pod today! 🙏🏻 How can I improve Affirmation Pod for you? Let me know at AffirmationPod.com/Better Now go be you, know you and love you! Sending love and strength ❤️💪🏻✨ Josie Find the App on Apple and Google Play
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Dating Tips, Relationships & Dating Advice For Single Women Podcast | Magnetize Your Man
Dating Tips, Relationships & Dating Advice For Single Women Podcast | Magnetize Your Man
Antia Boyd - Dating Tips, Relationships & Dating Advice For Single Women
7 Subtle Phrases That Grab His Attention & Keep Him Intrigued
7 SUBTLE PHRASES THAT GRAB HIS ATTENTION & KEEP HIM INTRIGUED ♥ Get Your FREE "Magnetize Your Man" QUIZ & Personalized Strategy To Make Him Chase You Here! ▶ https://MagnetizeYourMan.com Subscribe For More FREE Training Videos Coming Soon Here! http://bit.ly/2WSL6wO Join Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Dating Support Group For Incredible Support, Accountability & More Bonus Trainings Using The Special Link Here! http://bit.ly/2KVyN0C Subscribe To Our Podcast On iTunes Here: https://apple.co/2MYHM3T On Spotify Here: https://spoti.fi/2QC3x8Y Or On Google Podcasts Here! https://bit.ly/2SEC3QP Get A Copy Of Our New "Magnetize Your Man" BOOK On Amazon Here! https://amzn.to/2UZcmve Get Our "Magnetize Your Man" AUDIOBOOK On Audible Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoF Follow Antia On Facebook For More FREE Updates & Behind The Scenes Bonuses Here! http://bit.ly/31Kvyz9 Follow Antia On Instagram As Well Here! http://bit.ly/2WR4MX2  💗 About Antia Boyd 💗 I was born in eastern Germany before the wall came down, and was single my ENTIRE LIFE before I finally had an epiphany, a total breakthrough and developed my signature system called the "Magnetize Your Man Method". It's the exact method that I used to attract my handsome, strong & supportive hubby Brody! I’ve now been helping thousands of elite single women all over the world for over a decade to attract the right man for them to share their life with & have a loving relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust issues or wasting time attracting EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN! I studied Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, am NLP and Dream Coaching certified and have spoken on hundreds of stages and radio shows all over the world including Harvard University, Google and Good Morning San Diego. I’ve also been featured on ABC Radio, America Trends TV, The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING that I could get my hands on in the areas of love, dating and creating an amazing, happy family of your own the easy way without fear, unhealthy relationships or endless dating I now live in the beautiful San Diego area of California with my loving, stable & committed husband of 6 years, and I look forward to helping YOU to feel safe to be open & vulnerable, have fun & travel the world with the ideal guy for you without feeling insecure or choosing the wrong men! 💗 💗 Amazing Client Love Stories & Reviews! 💗 “Hi Antia, my man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A.G. “Hi Antia, One year since the day my fiancee and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don’t want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L.W. "Hello Antia, I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjoying really good communication. I just wanted to thank you for the help and suggestions that you gave me. I am optimistic!!" -D.K. #Phrases #UnderstandMen #Dating #DatingTips #DatingAdvice #DatingTipsForWomen #DatingAdviceForWomen #Relationships https://youtu.be/s61KMMQrpoA Support the show (https://MagnetizeYourMan.com)
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