Gender Reveal
Gender Reveal
Feb 20, 2023
Episode 145: Live at the Bell House!
Play • 58 min

Tuck chats live in Brooklyn with AC Dumlao (they/he), Mattie Lubchansky (they/them) and Io (they/them). Topics include: 

  • Changing your legal name to facilitate your Wendy’s order
  • Why gaslighting your family is the transmasc experience 
  • Reading the dictionary to find out if your boyfriend is queer 
  • Putting a basketball in your Irreversible Damage hole 
  • Plus: Gaylor thoughts, community theater gender journeys, swiping on Grimblr, and establishing a parliament of gender failures. 

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