S2E16 - How To Shake Up Your Sex Life
Play • 36 min
When new year rolls around many people make bids to improve their lives for the coming year. While most focus on losing weight or getting fit, we often neglect our sex lives.

Having a happy healthy sex life is important, not just for your relationships with other people, but with yourself too. That's why this year our new year resolution is to shake up your sex life.

In this episode, Anna and Violet discuss some ways you and your partner can revitalise your passion and discover brand new ways to make each other feel fantastic.

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Good Girls Talk About Sex
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Leah Carey
I think I had a crush on a woman - Coaching Caitlin
Leah shares a coaching session with client Caitlin to give us an in-depth experience of what coaching looks and feels like. Caitlin is divorced and currently in a friends-with-benefits heterosexual relationship. She and Leah had discussed fantasies and BDSM in previous private sessions; here they focus on Caitlin’s new (or perhaps not new?) sexual attraction to women, and how she might begin to explore that in real life. Bookmark moments: * 2:15 - Leah explains what coaching does—and doesn’t—involve. She introduces Caitlin, the coach-ee! * 4:44 - Caitlin catches Leah up on a big realization she’s had since their last coaching sessions: she’s sexually curious about women too. * 10:21 - Leah helps Caitlin hone in on whether her attraction to women is a leftover effect of our hyper-sexualized-female-form-loving culture, or a deeper sexual attraction. * 14:40 - The conversation turns to fantasies; they’re a great way to safely explore new thoughts and desires. Erotica is another. * 16:51 - What “pansexual” means. * 19:31 - Dating women can feel new to women. Leah assures Caitlin that the rules are basically the same: “Don’t be an asshole.” Also, exploring sex with a new-to-you gender can feel like a second puberty. * 23:34 - When navigating COVID risks with dating apps, be clear up front about your risk tolerance and boundaries. * 26:55 - There are some sensitivities to know about for women who are new to dating women. Leah talks about bi vs lesbian. Also, there’s a difference between sexual attraction and romantic attraction. * 33:40 - Threesomes can be a fun way to try sex with a woman, if approached with sensitivity. Leah recommends more resources. * 36:39 - They talk about how to find someone who wants to explore with you on the dating apps. * 40:30 - Leah talks more about what coaching looks and feels like, in solo and group options. Resources mentioned: * Erotica collections – I recommend the collections edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel * Literotica – A site featuring erotica submitted by primarily amateur writers. I love it because no matter what your interest or fetish is, someone is writing about it here. Because it’s all amateur, though, you may have to wade through a bunch of stories that are terribly written before you hit on one that tickles your fancy! Start by searching the tags for topics that interest you - https://tags.literotica.com (be aware that this site does show ads from porn sites so it is NSFW, but the pictures are generally not X-rated) Join me on Patreon: As of July 2020, all Good Girls Talk About Sex audio extras are now FREE! They can be accessed at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex. I've done this because not everyone has the means to pay for access, and I know this additional material can be deeply important for some listeners. But creating this show isn't free, so if you’d like to support the work I do, I am grateful for your contributions at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex. BE PART OF THE SHOW: Rate this pod: Leave a rating and review at www.ratethispodcast.com/goodgirls Have a questions or comment - Leave a voicemail for Leah at 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739) - this is a voicemail-only line, so I promise you won't have to talk to someone in person! Be a guest on the show - I'd love to talk with you! Fill out the form at www.leahcarey.com/guest FOLLOW LEAH: Instagram - www.instagram.com/goodgirlstalk Private Facebook Group - www.facebook.com/groups/goodgirlstalk YouTube - www.youtube.com/goodgirlstalk Leah's website - www.leahcarey.com Podcast website - www.goodgirlstalk.com WORK WITH LEAH: Learn about coaching with Leah - www.leahcarey.com/coaching Join a PJ Party for Grown Ups - www.leahcarey.com/pjparty EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak
45 min
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
Emma Austin
Five Finger Death Punch (Going Deep Into Fisting)
You'd honestly be surprised how much you can fit in there. This week on Pillow Talk, we go wrist deep into the world of fisting! Jake reveals his fist-fucking misconceptions and my less than ideal experiences being on the receiving end of it. We bust loose pussy myths, what it would take for me to fall in love with getting fisted, and we also bring up teabagging and tentacle dildos because why not? And we share a story about us having remote control sex (but not the fun Lovense kind). If you want to get some girth in your life, try out King Cock Dildos. They look and feel highly realistic and come in some very massive sizes. Get them from Betty's Toy Box and use the code LOVEEMMA to save 10% on your entire order! And if you want to watch some lesbian fisting in action, check out Fister Twister on Adult Time! LOVEEMMA saves you 20% on a 30 day membership! *Relevant links: * * Proxy Paige & Lexi Donna (Fister Twister Trailer) * My massive King Cock Dildo (15 inches long, 9 inches in girth!) * Insatiable Emily Willis Wants Dick AND Balls in Her Teen Ass (PervCity trailer) *** *Want to become one of our Friends With Benefits? *Check out the Pillow Talk Patreon for bonus episodes and exclusive updates! *** *If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links*. These are sites and services that I've used and personally recommend.  If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission (at no additional cost to you) and you will be supporting the podcast: * Lovense (for the right kind of remote control sex!) * Fleshlight (for top-notch strokers that will take jerking off to the next level) * Nubiles Porn (for tons of high-quality playful, cheeky, silly porn) *** * I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writer * And on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/  * Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832  * Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/ * Subscribe to my newsletter for updates and free access to my Medium posts: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletter * Follow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1 * Business or other inquiries: mister.j.austin@gmail.com ***  Music from https://filmmusic.io "Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com) License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Support the show (https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/support-my-work)
46 min
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice
Sean Jameson
#47 How To Have Sex Every Day with Caitlin & Michael Doemner
Today on the podcast we welcome Caitlin and Michael Doemner, authors of Sex Every Day, who are sharing with us some hands-on tips for enjoying sexual intimacy on a daily basis, regardless of busy schedules, kids and periods.   They talk about their three-step strategy for practicing frequent intimacy, including how you can communicate your sexual desires in a fun way and what you can do to ensure that both you and your partner are always satisfied. Before you think all of this is unattainable for you as a parent of young kids, hang on a minute! They have four kids of their own and advise you on overcoming the logistics of having regular sex with a house full of small children.   Key Points From This Episode   * The interesting story of how Caitlin and Michael got together. * Why sleeping naked is such a natural and effective way to restore intimacy in a relationship. * How the menu metaphor can be used to communicate and express sexual needs. * The importance of being open to both give and receive. * What you can do to maintain intimacy with your partner throughout the day. * A quick review of the five love languages and what they each entail. * Why it is important for couples to prioritize a woman’s pleasure. * What couples with kids can practically do to preserve their intimacy and privacy. * Why a period should not be stopping you from giving and receiving uninterrupted pleasure. * And much more!   Tweetables   “It's really hard to be angry with somebody when you're laying full body contact naked with them and in bed.” [0:04:49]   “The intimacy and the passion, it doesn’t have to be intercourse …there's a lot of different ways that we can please our partners.” [0:19:45]   Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode   Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter Sex Every Day: How to Prioritize Pleasure in your Marriage — http://www.lulu.com/shop/michael-and-caitlin-doemner/sex-every-day-how-to-prioritize-pleasure-in-your-marriage/hardcover/product-23974387.html The Five Love Languages on Amazon — https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts/dp/080241270X Pussy: A Reclamation on Amazon — https://www.amazon.com/Pussy-Reclamation-Regena-Thomashauer/dp/1401950264/ref=sr_1_fkmrnull_1?keywords=pussy%3A+a+reclamation&qid=1555401985&s=books&sr=1-1-fkmrnull Sex Every Day Website — https://www.sexeverydaybook.com/homepage25989259 Sex Every Day on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/QuotidianCoitus/
25 min
Future of Sex
Future of Sex
Future of Sex
Orgasms and the Stigma of Male Sex Toys Feat. Zachary Zane, Cam Fraser, Tobias Zegenhagen
Since we started Future of Sex podcast we’ve seen so many developments in the world of sextech. We’ve seen advances in robotics and sex dolls, apps for mindfulness, education tools providing the sex education we’ve always deserved, not to mention more and more vulva owning celebrities getting behind companies and products in the space. But what about sextech for men and penis owners? Whilst sextech for women and vulva owners has advanced we’re still seeing a stigma around men and penis owners with sextech. Today, we’re excited to cover We-Vibe’s release of the Arcwave ION, a new class of toy for men which claims to mimic a clitoral orgasm. We interview CTO of We-Vibe Tobias Zegenhagen who takes us through the development of how they came up with it, Tom who has what some would think the best job in the world - a sex toy tester for We-Vibe. Tom chats about the new sensations and what his job entails. We also talk with two leading sexperts, writer Zachary Zane and sex coach Cam Fraser. Both share perspectives on the stigma around male sex toys, what an orgasm feels like and what they feel the future will hold for male sextech. Guests * _Zachary Zane _ * _Cam Fraser _ * Tobias Zeganhagen Sponsors - We-Vibe http://www.we-vibe.com - Lover http://www.lover.io Find Us Online - Website: http://www.futureofsex.org - Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/futureofsex - Twitter: http://twitter.com/futureofsexshow - Merch: http://www.futureofsex.org/store Credits - Host: Bryony Cole. Twitter: @bryonycole, Website: http://www.bryonycole.co - Producers: Bryony Cole/David Lamb Instagram: @davylamb - Editor: Chad Michael Snavely Twitter: @chadmichael Website: http://www.chadmichael.com
30 min
Eat. Play. Sex.
Eat. Play. Sex.
Dr. Cat Meyer
Episode 94: Radical Authenticity in Dating, Lessons in Play, + Online Dating Profiles as Self-Marketing with Connell Barrett
Could your dating profile be the reason you aren’t scoring dates? Or maybe you’re under the impression that you have to present as “alpha” or “extraverted” in order to be desirable. Connell Barrett breaks our social programming with why radical authenticity is more attractive + successful in creating the love life you want. He gives us tips on how we can step into a more playful attitude + improve our confidence, even if there’s fear. In this episode you will hear: * Why your online dating profile sucks + how to step it up through a marketing perspective * How authenticity can be a powerful tool for “scoring the date” (and why we believe it won’t) * Strategies for getting out of the “not enough” trap + rebuilding your self-confidence * Overcoming the fear of rejection + how changing your relationship to rejection can make you more invincible * Stepping into “playfulness” for greater attraction + changing the game of dating * Mental hacks to keep you SANE in the dating world * The myth of the “alpha male” + how this belief is hurting our outcome in dating * What Dr Cat believes is the HOTTEST statement one could make * Connell’s personal experiences around dating + why taking a risk to be bold + “just going for what you want” is the sexiest Connell Barrett even answers some of our audience questions: * Tips on upgrading your experience on the dating apps + even meeting people outside of them * Get out of the FRIENDZONE THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST Dating coach Connell Barrett has one mission: help men defeat loneliness and attract their soulmates, as their most authentic, confident selves. The founder of Dating Transformation and a coach with The League dating app, Connell spent years training with the world’s best relationship and self-development experts. Connell’s next project? Showing men a new way to date with his forthcoming book, _Dating Sucks But You Don’t_, the complete dating guide for men in the #MeToo era, to be published in May by Simon & Schuster. Find out more about him here: _https://datingtransformation.com_ Follow Connell on instagram @datingtransformation or join his facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/howtobeyourbestself/ Links from the show: Uberlube: Use code EPS10 for 10% off my favorite silky lube. Get a free sampler pack of LMNT electrolyte drink packets: _drinklmnt.com/DRCAT_ Join us February 21st 2021 for my workshop with Adam Roa: Creating Chemistry Get your ticket here: _https://thecreatecommunity.com/collections/event-tickets/products/creating-chemistry_ Want more? Connect with your body + access your inner sex kitten: _https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/skf_ Check out SexLoveYoga.com and EatPlaySex.com for more juicy articles, guides, erotic audio stories, + more! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/eatplaysex/message
57 min
Sexology
Sexology
Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D, Psychology of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education
EP218 - Why is Sex Important in a Relationship? with August McLaughlin
Welcome to episode 218 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome August McLaughlin to the podcast. In this episode August speaks with me about sexual connections in long term relationships, accessing your sexual power and ways in which we can discover our sexual values. August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized journalist, media personality, author of Girl Boner and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which has been compared to “Sex in the City” meets NPR’s “Fresh Air.” Her articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, DAME Magazine, O: The Oprah Magazine, Forbes, Shape and Bustle. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills as a journalist and podcaster to encourage others to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves, making way for fuller, more authentic lives. In this episode, you will hear: * How important is sexual connection a long-term relationship? * Understanding the good sex can take effort & planning * Ways in which we can discover our sexual values * Overcoming issues of resentment * Looking at issues of rejection * Learning to access your sexual power * How we can deal with things like negative body image * Sex frequency – Quality over quantity! * Exploring masturbation * How honest and open communication with your partner will improve your sex life * Why lube can be a great way to improve your sex life * Developing a mutual sexual plan that works for you and your partner Find August McLaughlin https://girlboner.org Be part of our sexual health research survey Take this survey so we can find out what topics you’d like us to cover in the future: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/L993Z2M Find Dr. Moali online http://www.sexologypodcast.com Find me on social media https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care 25 Ways to Increase Desire https://oasis2care.com/opt-in If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio
37 min
Shameless Sex
Shameless Sex
Amy Baldwin and April Lampert| Pleasure Podcasts
#212 Penis Shame: Size, Look and Performance - With Soleiman Bolour
Why do so many people feel shame about the size or look of their cock? What is the truth when it comes to penis size and pleasure during penetrative sex? And what are some important tools for overcoming shame and embarrassment about penis size? We also answer a sex question about herpes. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Soleiman Bolour is a Men’s Neo Tantra and Mindset coach. Soleiman weaves his studies of sacred sexuality, psychology, and NLP to bring transformation to the men he coaches. He help’s men bring back purpose and possibility into their lives so that they can live the life of their dreams. To learn more visit ecstaticfreedom.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shameless Get 15% off of some of our favorite sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast
55 min
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