128: Feel like you're walking on eggshells? Recognizing Borderline Personality Disorder (ft. Violet Lange)
Play • 1 hr 6 min

Ever been in a relationship where little things set your partner off? Ever gotten the silent treatment (or had sex withheld from you) because you did something "wrong", even though it was hard to figure out what the "rules" were from day to day? Ever spent a lot of energy trying to please your partner and apologizing just to keep the peace ... even though it wasn't really logical that you'd have to apologize for what happened? You might have been relating with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder. This is a must-listen episode for anyone who can relate.

Sex and Psychology Podcast
Sex and Psychology Podcast
Dr. Justin Lehmiller
Episode 18: Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Anal Sex, But Were Afraid To Ask
As a sex educator, one of the topics I get asked about most often is anal sex. This isn’t surprising, given that this subject usually isn’t discussed at all in most people’s sex education courses—and, if it is, it’s usually just described as a very high-risk activity. So what do you need to know? What do people tend to get wrong about anal sex, and how can you have safer and more pleasurable encounters? For this episode of the podcast, I interviewed Dr. Evan Goldstein, who is the Founder and CEO of Bespoke Surgical, a leading private practice specializing in an elite standard of sexual health and wellness care for the modern gay man. He is also the founder of Future Method, a sexual wellness company bringing science into anal sexual health. We had a wide-ranging discussion about all things anal, and this episode is for anyone—regardless of gender or sexuality—who has explored or is interested in exploring this activity. Topics covered in this episode include: How many people are having anal sex? Why do so many people find anal stimulation to be pleasurable? Also, what do we know about prostate-induced orgasms? Does anal sex really cause long-term damage to the body? What’s the difference between the anal sex you see in porn compared to what it’s like in real life? Is it normal for anal sex to be painful? How can you make anal sex a safer and more pleasurable experience? What do people need to know about anal douching? Learn more about Dr. Goldstein’s practice at: https://www.bespokesurgical.com Learn more about Future Method at: https://futuremethod.com?aff=5
57 min
Sexology
Sexology
Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D, Psychology of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education
EP213 - Awakening Deep Intimacy with Maci Daye
Welcome to episode 213 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Maci Daye to the podcast. In this episode, Maci speaks to me about ways to make sex more exciting in a long-term relationship, re-engaging with your partner to have more passionate sex and the importance of healing in a relationship to improve sexuality. Maci Daye is a licensed professional counselor, certified Hakomi therapist, and certified sex therapist. In addition to clinical practice, she is on the faculty of the Hakomi Institute and teaches in the United States and Europe. She is the creator of Passion and Presence® couples’ retreats and a frequent conference presenter. She regularly leads courses in the USA, Australia, New Zealand, and Europe. She holds graduate degrees from Harvard and Georgia State Universities. In this episode, you will hear: * Looking at the various stages couples go through with their sex life * Ways to make sex more exciting in a long-term relationship * Understanding the issue of “Left-over sex” * Re-engaging with your partner to have more passionate and meaningful sex * How mindfulness can help to improve your sex life * Ways in which previous emotional wounds can play out in sexuality * How being in a relationship is about being comfortable to be seen * Cultivating your erotic sexuality after years of left-over sex * The need sometimes to stop and start a clean slate from scratch * The importance of healing in a relationship to improve sexuality Find Maci Daye online https://macidaye.com Find Dr. Moali online http://www.sexologypodcast.com Find me on social media https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care Promescent Giveaway! https://www.promescent.com Win a Promescent bundle box which includes a bottle of Delay Spray, Female Arousal Gel, Organic Based Lube, Vitaflux, Before & After Wipes worth $154.00! There’s also two Amazon Gift Cards up for grabs! Simply write a review in iTunes take a screenshot of the review and send it to drmoali@oasis2care.com or send via a DM on Instagram. If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio
38 min
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Leah Carey
He was a god and I was a kid - Debbie
Debbie was formed by experiences of both pleasure and pain. She was blessed with good early relationships, but also is a survivor of the epidemic of sexual abuse in elite women’s sport. Her faith in herself helped her choose to heal. Debbie is a 52-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as white, heterosexual, monogamous, married, and post-menopausal. She describes her body as average. Bookmark moments: 3:40 - Debbie’s first memory of sexual pleasure is at age 16 with her first boyfriend, who had learned a fabulous trick with ice. 9:13 - She shares about growing up in church, conservative but with a touch-generous loving youth group. 11:18 - Debbie then opens up about a deeply traumatic experience: she was molested by her gymnastics coach. She talks about him being charged and acquitted, and about subsequently being groomed in his tutelage. 20:44 - Getting her parents to admit what happened was difficult. The lack of public condemnation was even more harmful. 25:52 - Debbie discusses two other painful sexual traumas. 35:17 - She speaks to the fact that despite the trauma, she is not broken, and she wants to assure other victims that a healthy sex life with pleasure is still possible. 42:20 - After they separate, Debbie’s husband buys a self-help workbook and actually does the work. Things become peaceful, and then they turn around in a big way. 47:16 - Debbie still deals with chronic tendonitis in her hips, which impacts sex, and she talks about being post-menopausal. The Lowdown (50:32) What’s the approximate number of sex partners you’ve had? What’s your favorite sex toy? Have you ever felt a sexual urge that confused you? The Patreon extras for this episode are: Debbie tells a story about the gorgeous Australian man she met while traveling on a train around Europe. And also – why do men feel entitled to be dating more than one woman, but get upset when a woman is dating more than one man? We also have an extended conversation about the way she talks to her four sons about sex, and that interaction has been colored by her own abuse history. PLUS, the extended Lowdown Q&A! As of July 2020, all Good Girls Talk About Sex audio extras are now FREE! They can be accessed at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex. I've done this because not everyone has the means to pay for access, and I know this additional material can be deeply important for some listeners. But creating this show isn't free, so if you’d like to support the work I do, I am grateful for your contributions at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex. BE PART OF THE SHOW: Rate this pod: Leave a rating and review at www.ratethispodcast.com/goodgirls Have questions or comment - Leave a voicemail for Leah at 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739) - this is a voicemail-only line, so I promise you won't have to talk to someone in person! Be a guest on the show - I'd love to talk with you! Fill out the form at www.leahcarey.com/guest FOLLOW LEAH: Instagram - www.instagram.com/goodgirlstalk Private Facebook Group - www.facebook.com/groups/goodgirlstalk YouTube - www.youtube.com/goodgirlstalk Leah's website - www.leahcarey.com Podcast website - www.goodgirlstalk.com WORK WITH LEAH: Learn about coaching with Leah - www.leahcarey.com/coaching Join a PJ Party for Grown Ups - www.leahcarey.com/pjparty EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak
55 min
My Orgasmic Life
My Orgasmic Life
Gaia Morrissette
Are you kinky? EP.150 live from Gaia Dungeon
Are You Kinky? on My Orgasmic Life Podcast with Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette on EP. 150 aka Empress Gaia is talking about are you kinky? From her dungeon! Content Warning : Swearing, Laughter, BDSM, Kink, Gaia Covers on today show: *What is a kink? *What is BDSM? *What is vanilla sex? *You are not a freak or alone *What is a sexual sadist? *What is a masochist ? *Kinky is a huge label that covers light sexual exploration to extreme pain, pleasure,sensory and power exchange? *Are you kinky? *How to figure out what your kinks are and start to embrace them? ****Don’t forget to Tip your Host! Gaia is asking for support to help her pay for the overhead costs of running this show. For as little as $5 come support, play and interact with her in a deeper way. Become a Patron and receive all sorts of special privileges and bonus content https://www.patreon.com/myorgasmiclife… P.S. “How to get started in kink” is available only as exclusive content on Patreon *******To keep exploring and expanding your learning with online courses visit https://succulent-living.teachable.com/ *****BDSM 101- Self Study Course - https://succulent-living.teachable.com/p/bdsm-kink-101-guided-7-week-online-course *****Exclusive and Private BDSM Membership Program monthly blended learning and watching and interaction of BDSM education- https://gaiamorrissette.com/empressgaia/empress-gaia-exclusive-bdsm-membership-program/ *** Finding True Love(s) Online Group Program- https://succulent-living.teachable.com/p/manifest-your-dream-relationship-s *** Call all coaches,healers, therapists and anyone who works with people that might have trauma come check out this Professional Trauma Recovery Training. https://succulent-living.teachable.com/p/trauma-recovery-professional-training-level-1 Join “My Orgasmic Life“ Podcast on Spreaker or Spotify or Apple podcast or Google Podcast or iHeartRadio or on your favourite podcast platform. You can also listen on my website https://gaiamorrissette.com/category/my-orgasmic-life-podcast/ or download my new My Orgasmic Life App from google play store Gaia Morrissette offers so many awesome ways to help you have an amazing pleasure filled orgasmic life. Gaia many expertise in the areas of sex, relationships, love, BDSM, trauma healing come visit www.gaiamorrissette.com to find the right fit for you. Come frolic with Gaia on Social Media under Gaia Morrissette Looking to buy some toys visit “Come As You Are” my favourite high quality sex toy online store. https://www.comeasyouare.com?aff=succulentliving Learn more about Gaia Morrissette: Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist, Gaia Morrissette believes the keys to a happy, healthy, wealthy, magical and EPIC orgasmic life is ; Sexual Wellness, Embracing the human experience and releasing fear, shame , guilt and self-loathing. Gaia supports people living with pleasure through Holistic Sexual Wellness, Trauma Recovery. She is also a BDSM Wellness expert, High Priestess and Pro-Dominatrix. For over 12 years she has been a renowned international speaker, trainer, facilitator, podcaster and coach who makes the world a happier, safer and sexier place for us all. Gaia is the founder of SucculentLiving.com, Empressgaia.com & Succulent living Online Education. Her education and training consist of, sexology, trauma recovery, life coaching, tantra training, sex coaching, and lots of practice in the areas of play, healing, and exploring Sponsored by Tickle.Life Tickle.Life is An inclusive content led market space for people and professionals to discover, connect and learn everything around sexual well being https://tickle.life/ Don't forget to come check out Tickle.Life Podcast that Gaia is the fabulous host of https://tickle.life/podcasts/tickle-life-podcast/
27 min
Eat. Play. Sex.
Eat. Play. Sex.
Dr. Cat Meyer
Episode 92: Body Inflammation + Disease, Orgasmic Birthing for Better Health, and Building Up Your Immune System for COVID-19 with Aimee-Jean Greenacre
Chronic Pain, Disease, + Auto-immune disorders of the body. What might be contributing to these ailments + is there anything we can do other than solely relying on medications? Certified Nutritionist, Aimee-Jean Greenacre shares with us her best tips on living a holistic lifestyle + consuming whole foods to reduce inflammation + precursors to disease. We also dive in about your questions surrounding body cleanses + fasts. In this episode you’ll hear: * The holistic approach to nutrition + lifestyle * How suppression of emotions + life can lead to disease + chronic pain * The history of preservatives in America + why it’s impacting our physical health today * Considerations of YOUR body when starting a cleanse * What foods cause the most inflammation + are the first to consider in eliminating when healing the body from disease * Foods that reduce inflammation in the body * Which foods to buy organic + which to save your money on * Tips for learning to listen to the voice of the body * Best strategies for helping boost the immune system against COVID-19 She even answers listener’s questions from instagram @sexloveyoga: * Is fasting good for you? * What foods actually work as aphrodisiacs? * I have fibromyalgia, and I’ve heard that changing my food could help. Is there anything in particular that I should stay away from or that I should add? * Can the grapefruit diet help you actually lose weight? ***References from the show: Clean Fifteen: _https://www.ewg.org/foodnews/clean-fifteen.php_ Dirty Dozen: _https://www.ewg.org/foodnews/dirty-dozen.php_ Environmental working group: _https://www.ewg.org/consumer-guides_ THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST Aimee-Jean Greenacre is an energetic and passionate holistic health and wellness coach, natural foods chef and conscious lifestyle teacher. She uses real food as the foundation to help her clients, heal, nourish and intuitively connect with their true self, so they can learn to cultivate the correct energy from within, and ultimately help find their path to living a healthy and purposeful life. “Once people shift the way they eat, this changes the way they think, and in result this leads to people changing the way they live their life - full of clarity, vibrant energy, purpose and passion” Aimee is best known for her work as an international wellness chef, and specialises in working with clients 1:1 to design holistic nutrition programs. Her eclectic style of cooking has been influenced by her wide culinary experience living around the world from Sydney, London, Singapore and now LA. Aimee has a BA in Psychology, a Certified Holistic Nutrition Coach, Natural foods chef, and a conscious lifestyle consultant. Follow her on Instagram: @greenshaker Connect with her at https://www.aimeegreenacre.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/eatplaysex/message
56 min
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
Pillow Talk with Emma Austin
Emma Austin
Bang Me in the Dryer (Stuck Porn, Cat Condos, and Baby Oil Mishaps)
Have you ever been stuck and fucked? Me neither. But man, does stuck porn ever make it look fun! This week, Jake and I talk about the wonderful and silly world of stuck porn. We go over the different types, ponder whether we could fuck in our pantry, and celebrate one year of podcasting! Wanna try a pussy pump? What if I told you it could also lick your clit? If you haven't heard of the Fantasy For Her - Her Ultimate Pleasure, you seriously have to check it out. It's so much fun! And if you're really intrigued, you can get one from Betty's Toy Box  -  and use the discount code LOVEEMMA to save 10% on your entire order! *Relevant links: * * What Stuck Porn Taught Me About Dubious Consent * Stuck With Bad Luck! (Girlsway) * Mom's Helping Hand (Pure Taboo) * Mom His Dick Is Stuck in a Vacuum Cleaner (Moms Teach Sex) * Don't Tell My Brother I'm Stuck on Purpose (Pornhub) *** *Want to become one of our Friends With Benefits? *Check out the Pillow Talk Patreon for bonus episodes and exclusive updates! *** *If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links*. These are sites and services that I've used and personally recommend.  If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission (at no additional cost to you) and you will be supporting the podcast: * Fleshlight (for top-notch strokers) * Nubiles Porn (for super playful, upbeat, mostly taboo porn) * Adult Time (for lots of incredible, high-quality porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership) *** * I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writer * And on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/ * Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832 * Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/ * Subscribe to my newsletter for updates and free access to my Medium posts: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletter * Follow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1 * Business or other inquiries: mister.j.austin@gmail.com ***  Music from https://filmmusic.io "Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com) License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Support the show (https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/support-my-work)
37 min
Shameless Sex
Shameless Sex
Amy Baldwin and April Lampert| Pleasure Podcasts
#207 How to Find Love Again After Heartbreak, Grief, and Betrayal - With Lisa Nicks-Balthasar
Beloved friend and repeat guest, Lisa Nicks-Balthasar, returns to tell us her story about finding and losing her soulmate, resulting in a profound journey of deep heartbreak, grief and betrayal, as well as the lessons and tools she used to heal, keep her heart open, and find profound love (and another soulmate!) once more. Her dear partner, Chris, also shares his experience supporting Lisa's journey as she grieves her past husband while simultaneously opening up her heart again. Be prepared to feel some feels :) Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 18. About our guest: Lisa Nicks-Balthasar is an inspirational speaker, author and teacher. Her memoir, Believe! which follows her amazing odyssey through deep loss, grief, love and life, has attracted the support of award-nominated screenplay writer Scott Marshall Smith ("Men of Honor”). Scott describes her “Tragic meets Magic” story as “A gossamer web of small, yet profound miracles that add up to something much more wondrous than their sum." He adds that, “Lisa’s powerful story is filled with magical movie moments!" Lisa’s passion for writing began over a decade ago when she began writing after losing her high-school sweetheart, husband, and soul mate of 27 years to brain cancer. A survivor at heart, she processed her pain by putting pen to paper. Lisa has inspired people from all over the world to "Believe!" in love and the power of positive affirmations while manifesting the life of their dreams. Her miraculous story has inspired students to tap into the power that lies within. The methodologies she teaches tie together with a lifetime of lived wisdom and what she has learned from working with people through individual coaching, group coaching, and multiple retreats. Her work teaches the proven power of positive affirmations and manifesting through the heart, the body’s greatest neurotransmitter. Through her coaching, Lisa has helped people find love and deeper intimacy in their lives, and throughout her coaching it has become clear that so many of us feel like the human experience is wrought with hardship and loss. “There is so much in life we cannot control – but we CAN control the way we channel our suffering into our growth.” Lisa’s inspirational memoir, Believe! supports this idea through its powerful story. Lisa is the President and founder of Believe! International, Inc., a non-profit organization that helps promote the powerful messages and methodologies behind “Believe!” Lisa created Believe! International’s flagship project, the Heart of Manifestation workshop and retreats, with her partner, author Cher Slatter-Barlevi (Dog of God) to feed her passion for teaching positive principles of loving awareness. The retreats are designed to help individuals open their minds and hearts to a higher consciousness and manifest their desires. She is also the founder of Sacred Soulmates, heart-centered coaching and exotic vacation retreats for couples and singles calling for a deeper, more intimate and passionate soul connection. Lisa has a second book conceived, based on the highly successful, life-changing Heart of Manifestation retreats, workshops, and inspirational teachings. Her inspirational story is being developed as a 2021 TEDx talk called, “Are you really Open to Love.” Lisa has been featured on various podcasts, YoniVerse Monologues and at conferences as an expert in love, intimacy, and rebirth. Lisa is also an entrepreneur, designer, large-scale event producer, and co-owner of Turn Around Interiors, a design and home staging company. In addition to her designing talents, she is an avid athlete and has been a personal fitness trainer for over three decades. She has competed in the Big Sur Marathon and Triathlons. Finding an amazing love once again, in a serendipitous and magical way, Lisa makes her home with her husband, Chris, in the sunny beach town of Santa Cruz, California. She loves every free moment she can spend with her family, friends, two wonderful daughters, two step-children, and two adorable granddaughters! Her passion and purpose in life is to educate and inspire humanity through sharing her magical story of love, hope, and miracles. To learn more or to buy her book visit sacredsoulmates.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get $25 off some of the best feeling sex sheets with code Shameless at brooklinen.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast
1 hr 22 min
Future of Sex
Future of Sex
Future of Sex
Orgasms and the Stigma of Male Sex Toys Feat. Zachary Zane, Cam Fraser, Tobias Zegenhagen
Since we started Future of Sex podcast we’ve seen so many developments in the world of sextech. We’ve seen advances in robotics and sex dolls, apps for mindfulness, education tools providing the sex education we’ve always deserved, not to mention more and more vulva owning celebrities getting behind companies and products in the space. But what about sextech for men and penis owners? Whilst sextech for women and vulva owners has advanced we’re still seeing a stigma around men and penis owners with sextech. Today, we’re excited to cover We-Vibe’s release of the Arcwave ION, a new class of toy for men which claims to mimic a clitoral orgasm. We interview CTO of We-Vibe Tobias Zegenhagen who takes us through the development of how they came up with it, Tom who has what some would think the best job in the world - a sex toy tester for We-Vibe. Tom chats about the new sensations and what his job entails. We also talk with two leading sexperts, writer Zachary Zane and sex coach Cam Fraser. Both share perspectives on the stigma around male sex toys, what an orgasm feels like and what they feel the future will hold for male sextech. Guests * _Zachary Zane _ * _Cam Fraser _ * Tobias Zeganhagen Sponsors - We-Vibe http://www.we-vibe.com - Lover http://www.lover.io Find Us Online - Website: http://www.futureofsex.org - Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/futureofsex - Twitter: http://twitter.com/futureofsexshow - Merch: http://www.futureofsex.org/store Credits - Host: Bryony Cole. Twitter: @bryonycole, Website: http://www.bryonycole.co - Producers: Bryony Cole/David Lamb Instagram: @davylamb - Editor: Chad Michael Snavely Twitter: @chadmichael Website: http://www.chadmichael.com
30 min
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice
Sean Jameson
#47 How To Have Sex Every Day with Caitlin & Michael Doemner
Today on the podcast we welcome Caitlin and Michael Doemner, authors of Sex Every Day, who are sharing with us some hands-on tips for enjoying sexual intimacy on a daily basis, regardless of busy schedules, kids and periods.   They talk about their three-step strategy for practicing frequent intimacy, including how you can communicate your sexual desires in a fun way and what you can do to ensure that both you and your partner are always satisfied. Before you think all of this is unattainable for you as a parent of young kids, hang on a minute! They have four kids of their own and advise you on overcoming the logistics of having regular sex with a house full of small children.   Key Points From This Episode   * The interesting story of how Caitlin and Michael got together. * Why sleeping naked is such a natural and effective way to restore intimacy in a relationship. * How the menu metaphor can be used to communicate and express sexual needs. * The importance of being open to both give and receive. * What you can do to maintain intimacy with your partner throughout the day. * A quick review of the five love languages and what they each entail. * Why it is important for couples to prioritize a woman’s pleasure. * What couples with kids can practically do to preserve their intimacy and privacy. * Why a period should not be stopping you from giving and receiving uninterrupted pleasure. * And much more!   Tweetables   “It's really hard to be angry with somebody when you're laying full body contact naked with them and in bed.” [0:04:49]   “The intimacy and the passion, it doesn’t have to be intercourse …there's a lot of different ways that we can please our partners.” [0:19:45]   Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode   Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter Sex Every Day: How to Prioritize Pleasure in your Marriage — http://www.lulu.com/shop/michael-and-caitlin-doemner/sex-every-day-how-to-prioritize-pleasure-in-your-marriage/hardcover/product-23974387.html The Five Love Languages on Amazon — https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts/dp/080241270X Pussy: A Reclamation on Amazon — https://www.amazon.com/Pussy-Reclamation-Regena-Thomashauer/dp/1401950264/ref=sr_1_fkmrnull_1?keywords=pussy%3A+a+reclamation&qid=1555401985&s=books&sr=1-1-fkmrnull Sex Every Day Website — https://www.sexeverydaybook.com/homepage25989259 Sex Every Day on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/QuotidianCoitus/
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