6 Tips For Building A Strong Marriage
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[Jennifer] Welcome to the Marriage After God Podcast.
[Aaron] We're your hosts, I'm Aaron.
[Jennifer] And I'm Jennifer.
[Aaron] We've been married for 14 years.
[Jennifer] And we have five young children.
[Aaron] We started blogging over 10 years ago, sharing our marriage story in hopes of encouraging other husbands and wives to draw closer to God and closer to each other.
[Jennifer] We have authored over 10 books together, including our newest book, "Marriage After God," the book that inspired us to start this podcast.
[Aaron] "Marriage After God" has a message to remind all of us that God designed marriage with a purpose.
[Jennifer] To reflect his love.
[Aaron] To be a light in this world
[Jennifer] To work together as a team.
[Aaron] Using what He has given us.
[Jennifer] To build His kingdom.
[Aaron] Our hope is to encourage you along your marriage journey.
[Jennifer] As you boldly chase after God together.
[Aaron] This is Marriage After God. Hey everyone, welcome back to the Marriage After God podcast. We're Aaron and Jennifer Smith.
[Jennifer] Your hosts, hi.
[Aaron] And we're glad to have you, yeah, hi. Jennifer, what's going on in our world right now? Not the world, our world.
[Jennifer] We don't have enough time to cover all of that.
[Aaron] Exactly, very true.
[Jennifer] But our world, meaning you and I.
[Jennifer] What is going on? It's good to be recording again with you.
[Aaron] Yes, it is actually. What are you drinking? What did I make you?
[Aaron] You made me chai, thank you.
[Aaron] It's like the world's best chai.
[Jennifer] It's really good.
[Aaron] It's Metolius chai.
[Jennifer] But when you asked me if I wanted, when I was saying yes, 'cause I thought you were making yourself one and you didn't.
[Aaron] No, I made myself a coffee. The chais are good, but the milk messes with my stomach. I can't do it, it's like too much. But I sprinkled some cardamom on the top of there. A little bit of vanilla bean sugar.
[Jennifer] It's fancy.
[Jennifer] Thank you.
[Aaron] You're welcome. So I just got a quick question for you before we move on, as usual. What's something that has brought you joy this week?
[Jennifer] Something that's brought me joy. Well, okay, this was actually really funny. So much joy, I was like, I was laughing about it. I was in the score room with the kids and you know that song ♪ Come thou fount of every blessing ♪ Okay? You know which one I'm talking about?
[Aaron] "Come Thou Fount." Is that what it is?
[Jennifer] I was just letting you know what song it was, 'cause usually, I'll say a name of a song and you don't know unless I'm singing, you know?
[Aaron] Yeah, I know, and you sung it really well.
[Jennifer] Thank you. Poor everybody else right now. Anyways, Olive loves to sing and hum and do all of that and so she was, I think she was trying to sing this song, and I could hear her as she's like playing with math tiles and she was saying& ♪ Come old faithful ♪ And I think, 'cause I don't know.
[Aaron] That's a good version.
[Jennifer] This is so cute. And it made me think of our trip to Yellowstone and seeing Old Faithful, which the kids still bring up that story of being able to see it, you know, shoot out and everything, but she thinks he lyrics are come old faithful.
[Aaron] Does she let you correct her? And that like with the character
[Jennifer] I didn't, it was too cute. I was just laughing about it.
[Aaron] Yeah, she loves to sing and she makes up her own songs. She's like more interested in making up her own songs than she is learning real songs which is great because she's probably been a songwriter.
[Jennifer] Yeah. It was really cute. I tried recording it and then I got caught and she didn't like that very much. She said I had to ask her if I was gonna record her.
[Aaron] You know, it's funny speaking about that. Our kids are like that from like day one, like Edith, all of our kids.
[Jennifer] Are we trying to record something?
[Aaron] They're like saying their first words and I'm sneaking the phone up so she doesn't see it. And then she like looks right over at me at the phone and she knows I'm recording and she just won't do it. She just sits there and then like strides to smack the phone out of my hands. It's like our kids now we don't wanna be on social media. Even though we don't ever post these things.
[Jennifer] Yeah, it wasn't even for social media. I was just doing it because it was so cute. I thought one day I'll show her show, you know her future husband or someone this, but it's all right, I'll get it one day.
[Aaron] You know what? Jesus is our Old Faithful, anyway.
[Jennifer] That's true. I should tell her that.
[Aaron] It's an accurate portrayal of the son.
[Jennifer] When I do correct her I will be sure to add that in.
[Aaron] Hey, we just, we love that you're all here. We're excited to be talking about this topic today. Before we move on to the topic I'd like to invite you, if you haven't yet to leave us a review today or a star rating, you could choose whatever amount of stars you want to give us. I often prefer five stars, but that's okay. If you want to do something less, that's fine. But we would love to invite you to give us a star rating and a review. Those are awesome. It helps people find the podcast. It also helps people know what people think of the podcast. And so with that being said, I'd love to read one of the reviews that someone left us and it goes like this. Oh, so I read before I read this, remember how when we first launched this season we talked about the new podcasts the new song we have the interest on. What's funny is this person mentions it. We talked about how catchy it is. He says this podcast has been amazing and highly influential in both my wife and my walk in honoring God with our marriage. Each episode is brought food for thought and encouragement to surrender our pride and give glory to God with our words, actions and thought life. There is humor as well as which is a plus, because some topics can be challenging and a laugh here and there helps lighten hearts while not taking away from the lessons learned or to be learned. Okay, if you're read this much, please help me out. I've been looking for this song "Can't Be Bothered" And only Miranda Lambert song "I Can't Be Bothered" It's coming up. I'm on the edge of going crazy. Who is the artist of this song? He keeps whistling inside of his head, it won't stop. So it worked and that's M Matthew's 51317 that wrote that review. And what's funny is it's not actually a song that's on any like album I think. It's from this like stock music site.
[Jennifer] So how does he find it?
[Aaron] They can go to artlist.com and look for "Can't Be Bothered"
[Jennifer] Okay, hopefully he finds it.
[Aaron] Yeah, but it's funny 'cause the song is really catchy,
[Jennifer] I didn't know you're going to share this this review that someone left. And I was just thinking, I'm really encouraged to hear that. He says that we, you know spread in a laugh here and there and that it lightens the topic that we're talking about which is good because the topics can be challenging. And I always wondered how people viewed that because I get really insecure or like, I think are they gonna think that I'm taking this too lightly? If I laugh right here.
[Aaron] They are not taking this serious enough.
[Jennifer] No, but like, I never want to offend anyone that I'm not taking it more seriously than I should especially depending on what we're talking about. So this is encouraging. Thanks for sharing it.
[Aaron] All right, so today we'll talk... All right, so today we're--
[Jennifer] I was gonna say, I think you just need a drum roll, hold on.
[Aaron] Okay. So today we're talking about six things to build a strong marriage. We hav…