Jul 25, 2022
The Secret Fears That Keep Us Sick & Struggling – And How to Heal
“You’re going to grow up, go to college, and not depend on a man!”
This was the message my mom started programming me with from a young age… 6, 7, 8 years old… born out of her trauma of struggling in a marriage where there was never enough money to cover our family expenses, married to a man who thought it was “women’s work” to help out at home with the kids, housekeeping and shopping.
Growing up, my mom was a strong woman … SUPER woman, who did it all raising 4 kids: worked full time, managed our finances, kept up the house, handled all the shopping, helped us with our homework, took us to church.
She carried a heavy load, and as the firstborn, I was mom’s little helper, taking care of my siblings, making sure everyone did their chores and lightening mom’s load wherever I could.
My mom’s grandmother (my great-grandmother) was married to an entrepreneur. He owned a furrier in downtown Columbus, Ohio, and they were a very affluent family of six children.
In…