Nov 23, 2022
Turning 40 and the Powerful Magic of Personal Development
Angie Simmons remembers being happiest around when she was 30. She met and fell in love with someone. They bought a house, got married and had a baby girl they named Summer. Then, on the day after Summer’s second birthday, her life imploded when her brother was killed riding his motorcycle to her house. That led to a bunch of dark years where Angie felt stuck in an endless loop of things not going well. A chance Facebook message from an old school friend, and a single audio CD changed her life so much that, 10 years later, when her mom died she was able to process her grief and sadness in a much healthier way. Guest Bio
Angie Simmons is a single mum and pet owner who lives in an old mining town called Mansfield in the UK. She is a qualified coach, personal development and mental wellness mentor, author, Inspirational public speaker, and the founder of the Growth Development Foundation.
Growth Development Foundation was born after five years of intense inner work, therapy, and study. By turning her mental mess into her message, Angie inspires, empowers, and supports open-minded mission-driven Individuals, who are looking for change but are not sure how. Angie helps them create a life of fulfillment, find their unique power within, improve their mindset and gain more clarity by helping them untangle their internal world so they can expand their external.The Best of Times, The Worst of Times
Angie Simmons looks back at the time she was around 30 as the happiest time in her life. She met and fell in love with her brother’s best friend. They bought a house, got married and had a baby girl they named Summer. Then, on the day after Summer’s second birthday, her life imploded when her brother, who was her best friend, was killed on his motorcycle while he was on his way to her house.
She felt guilty because she was the one who introduced him to motorcycles. She started drinking to deal with her grief and, on top of some anti anxiety medication, it numbed her out. For the next two years, Angie tried to stay busy but she never really dealt with her grief - she didn’t know how. Then, on Boxing Day in 2009 her husband left and Angie says she hit the self-destruct button.
She found herself in significant credit card debt, which made her feel like she had to work all the time to pay the bills. She even started a dog grooming business on the side. But that meant that her daughter was with other people most of the time, either in an after-school program, with one of her grandmothers, an aunt or her dad. And Summer wasn’t doing well, either. She was being picked on at school, unhappy, angry, at the bottom of her class.
Angie says this went on for what felt like forever. She says it was like a bottomless pit. Every time she clawed her way up a little, she slid back down again. She felt like a failure. The Day Life Changed
Angie received a Facebook message from a school friend she hadn’t seen in 20 years. They went to get coffee and, when Angie learned she was a therapist, she unloaded. After hearing her whole story, her friend said she might be able to help, but that “help” came in the form of another business - network marketing. Angie was not amused, seeing as she was already on a hamster wheel. The friend gave her a CD and asked her to listen to it on the way home. It was a personal development CD.
Angie listened to the CD anytime her hands were busy and her mind started to walk. She listened to it nonstop for six weeks and realized it was starting to make her think differently.
Meanwhile, she was exceptionally stressed and struggling with her emotions so she asked her boss for two days off each month. In response, her boss asked how her dog grooming was going. Angie told her it was earning her a couple hundred pounds each month, which was helpful for paying her credit card. The boss said, "Well, you need to...