Brian Janes had a wife of 30 years, two teenage kids, and a successful career. At face value, everything looked good. The problem was that Brian didn't have a clue who he really was. He shares a story of being in the 7th grade and being so numb from repressing feelings that he didn't understand, that he would cut himself with a razor blade, just so he could feel something. Everything unraveled at age 47 when he was driving to work one morning and, in the car, he said out loud, I'm gay! Brian's demonstration of vulnerability is truly inspiring. If you ever feel lost like you don't really know who you are, this episode is for you.