KickAss Couples Podcast
Sep 28, 2021
Episode 18 RECAP w/Vinnie & Trish Biondoletti
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RECAP
In today’s episode, Matthew and Kim recap Trish and Vinnie Biondoletti’s interview. This couple truly defines a couple that ‘stands the test of time.’ After being together for over 30 years, they’ve mastered handling conflict, making time for each other, and maintaining intimacy.
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“She felt like the reason their commitment was so strong is because he was that calm, consistent influence always being there and present, always giving her what she needed in the moment.” 7:13 - 7:22
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