Demisexuality Is Weird (Sexual Attraction, Dating, and My OnlyFans Addiction)
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How do you feel sexual attraction?

For us, it's rare. When it does happen, it's all about the emotional connection.

This week, we talk about what it's like being demisexual, why it makes dating weird, and how it influences our porn choices.

We also talk about why we can't be swingers (even though we have the perfect living room mattress for it), why group hangs are better than dating, and having sex without an emotional connection.

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