Brett Ray believed that it was his role as a Christian parent to save his children. If they did not become followers of Jesus, that was his fault. He carried this burden for years. Now he realizes that his job was to teach his children the Bible and train them to understand God's heart as best he could. It is and always has been God's job to save people from their sins and redeem them. It is a Christian parents job to train their children up in the way of the Lord and leave the saving to God. Nobody can make children of God, only God can do that. Visit BrettRay.com for more Tips.