Taking Control Of Your Dating Life To Find True Love With Matchmaker Abi Blears
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Finding true love is something that many people spend years – sometimes decades - looking for. And that's because finding your match amidst the messy world of online dating, ghosting, bad dates, incompatibility and so much more has made modern dating very difficult. Whether you feel exhausted by dating, are struggling to forget your ex, or simply want to increase your chances of meeting someone incredible, then this episode is for you. Today I am joined by Matchmaker & Dating Coach Abi Blears, who she shares the do’s and don’t’s of a first date, red flags and blind spots in dating, how to channel your true desires, and why you need to listen to your inner when a relationship doesn’t feel quite right. Our discussion is all about taking control of your dating life to help you find your perfect match, so sit back and enjoy the conversation.




“You have to be picky about how a person makes you feel; there is somebody for everyone.” [19:34]


“If they’re not bothered, is that your person?” [31:00]


“Fall in love with somebody who you don’t expect.” [36:00]




  • How Abi began her career [2:27]
  • How Abi coaches her clients [5:18]
  • Advice for finding your match [6:47]
  • They ways dating has changed [8:24]
  • The benefits of engaging a matchmaker [9:51]
  • Who would use a matchmaker [10:57]
  • The difference between matchmaking and coaching [12:56]
  • How to have a successful first date [16:20]
  • Recognising red flags and blind spots of dating [17:37]
  • What drives us to have romance in our lives [26:12]
  • Self-love in dating [28:30]
  • Advice when you get hooked on one person [29:50]
  • Cautions on dating advice through the decades [32:31]
  • Top tips for dating [34:52]
  • What Abi has learned in her love journey [36:34]


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