Red Flags: How to Stop Missing Them
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Red flags. UGH!!! I KNEW I knew better... We've all been there. We've all seen them, missed them, and dismissed them. Today, let's figure out why we do this, and how to actually heed their warnings from now on.

[0:00] Why we miss red flags and how not to

[1:15] Lack of pleasure and its correlation to missing red flags

[2:18] Reason 1 of 3 for missing red flags: We're not looking for them (here's why)

[5:11] Reason 2 of 3 for missing red flags: Sex hormones (I mean "attraction" hormones)

[9:45] What Red Flags actually are!

[11:10] Reason 3 of 3 for missing red flags: Cognitive Dissonance

[13:17] Why pleasure is SO IMPORTANT when it comes to heeding red flags

[15:36] This weeks challenges:

  • Write/review your "list"
  • Listen to Dr. Tari's episode: - and download her dealbreaker list
  • Forgive yourself for ignoring, missing, or dismissing red flags in the past
  • Give yourself grace and act like you're insanely in love with yourself
  • Share your past (and present) red flags with someone
  • Join the Inner Circle Sisterhood and/or tell someone you'd like to receive it as a gift and/or gift it! 

Connect for 1:1 Coaching: - women's pleasure coaching (non-sexual) I am here to guide you back into your ever-expanding joy. I am a truth-teller and I was raised a good girl, so I do it with kindness, compassion, and love -- as tough as you need. 

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