Our call as Christian leaders and disciple makers should be to stand out from those who do not follow Christ. Unfortunately, most Christians today blend in some much into the world that it is impossible to see where any line between their church / Christ following life and life outside of the church.
"Church of Cowards: A Wake-Up Call to Complacent Christians" by Matt Walsh -
"Indeed, the average American believer shares many similarities with the average American unbeliever. If you were to follow him around, track his movements, listen to his conversations, observe how he spends his free time (much like our iPhones already do), you would find no hard evidence that he believes anything at all lies beyond the veil of physical existence. He speaks just like the non-Christians, dresses just like them, carries himself as they do, watches all of the same television shows, consumes the same kind of media, indulges in the same vices, and feels the same lack of guilt for those indulgences. Everything is the same."
19 If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.
**If you or someone you love is in crisis, reach out for help** NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness. NAMI.org Text 741741 for free crisis counseling 800-950-6264 Call 211 Suicide Help Line: 800-233-8255 Domestic Violence Help Line: 800-799-7233