Sep 29, 2022
#61 My Body My Story 45 Over 45 - Kirsty
In this episode, you will learn 10 FACTS about Kirsty and what she thinks about perfect body image, positive changes and challenges of 45+ women, what is it for her to feel good and look beautiful, and what advice she would give younger women and 30-year-old self!
10 Facts About Kirsty
(at the time of the project)
* 45 years old.
* Kirsty is from the country in South Australia. She’s lived in Sydney for over 25 years now.
* Kirsty has two brothers and a sister, mum, and dad. All of them are in South Australia, except the sister, who is in Melbourne.
* Kirsty has two boys - 16 and 11 y.o. and they are her whole world
* Kirsty left her marriage three years ago now. That walking away was her biggest act of self-love. They were together for 22 years.
* Kirsty has two cats at home who rule her family life, but they certainly make life great.
* Kirsty is an accountant. Kirsty actually wanted to be an astronomer growing up. So hey, they both start with A's.
* Kirsty is a Virgo
* The biggest challenge at this age – “Definitely grey hair is coming out, like there is no tomorrow. But the biggest challenge I think, for me, right now is dating. Everything is online, we just don't meet people like we used to.”
* Positive change with age – “I care less now about what other people feel like. I've recognised that what I think and what I feel matters, and that needs to come first.”
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INTERVIEW TRANSCRIPT
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Hi, everyone and welcome to my body My Story project and today with us Kirstie in the studio. Hi, Christy. Hi, how are you? Good. Good. Thank you. Happy to see you here. And while you're sitting in the makeup chair, and Nicole is doing makeup for you. I'll ask you a few questions. So tell us a bit about yourself.
So I'm a Virgo. I'm 45. And I'm actually from country, South Australia. I have two boys 16 and 11. And they are my whole world. We have two cats at home which you know, rule our lives and, but they certainly make life great as well. I'm an accountant. I never thought I'd be an accountant. I actually wanted to be an astronomer growing up. So hey, they both start with A's. So let's go with that. And I've lived in Sydney for over 25 years now. So it's just home. And I have two brothers and a sister, mum and dad. And just loving life. I've you know, booked myself in for a triathlon in November, which I'm pretty excited about.
Oh, wow.
So yeah, I know that it'll be fantastic. So yeah, looking forward to it all of all of the above.
So your family is all in Sydney or they still in South Australia.
So my family, my brothers are in the country in South Australia. My mum is with them as well. My dad is in the country, but just a different country, South Australia, but just a different area of town. And my sister is in Melbourne.
Okay, so you do you travel a lot to see your family or they come to you?
Not so much anymore. Like since COVID. Like obviously everything shut down. But yeah, no, I definitely travelled a lot. A few years ago, and I are planning a trip back to the country in November, because I have high school reunion.
Oh, that's nice.
Yeah, that'd be great.
Okay, so what are you most passionate about?
I am most passionate about self care, self love. Just being 100% authentic. I growing up had a very traumatic, you know, childhood. And so there was lots of parts of me that just didn't feel worthy. So I didn't feel lovable or that I was worth anything. And so I've really worked on just loving myself 100% And I'm trying to instil that in my, in my boys as well that no matter what anyone says, you know, so long as you love yourself and what's inside. Everything else is going to be okay. Like you are your greatest, your greatest love. So that is definitely what I'm passionate about. And I want to share and, you know, just encourage and inspire all other people who have that self doubt that they don't need to doubt themselves. Like it's, it's all within them, like the love that they're looking for the acceptance the that everything is all within within them. So, yes, that's, that's my passion.
So what do you do, like, do meditate or you do some development classes? Or look, how did you come to that philosophy?
So, look, I'm definitely a work in progress. It's not something that I've always believed. Since I left my marriage three, three years ago now, that was my biggest act of self love. Walking away, we were together for 22 years. So it was it was a big thing. There was a lot of guilt. There was a lot of a lot of emotion and I tried for a long time but yes, so podcasts are definitely my go to and just, you know, the people that I surround myself with and Do what I, you know, what I listened to what I ingest in my body, just just everything. Like, it's not just, you know, one part and gratitude is a massive, massive part of that as well. Because, yeah, like, you just got to be grateful for everything that we have, because there are lots of people out there who don't, don't even have a fraction of what we have. So, ya know, definitely gratitude all the way. So,
and we have to keep reminding ourselves that, you know, stop and think that you have it, and it's a blessing, and you know, just appreciate it. Sometimes we just forget. And for us, it's a norm, as you said, for but for some other people, it could be a blessing, you know? So yeah, I completely agree with you.
Absolutely. We always think that we need to have that one more thing to make ourselves you know, when we have that one more thing I'll be whole or I'll be happy. And it's like, no, no, actually look around and look at what you've got, take stock of what you've got, and just be grateful for that, you know, so? Yeah, absolutely. I'm with you.
So do you think it's connected with the age changes? Or like I'm leading to the question that we change with age, and obviously, the way we see ourselves, and the way we live our life also change? What do you think is the positive change you have experienced so far? Hitting 45? What do you think?
So, I definitely think that I care less now about what other people feel like, I really think that it is about putting yourself first and how is it going to lift you up energetically like, or is it going to drain you like? So I think that has definitely come with come with age. Because with when I look at the younger me, I would have not I would have been the last the last on the list, it wouldn't have mattered whether it was going against how I felt so long as everybody else was happy. And that would be enough to make me happy. You know, so I really think that with age, I've recognised that what I think and what I feel matters, and that needs to be that needs to come first. Because then I'm really, really honouring myself.
I know it's not in the order, but I will ask this question now. So if you could meet your 30 year old self, that what advice would you give her? What would you say?
I would say back yourself 100%. Trust your intuition. Because what you feel is the honest truth. And just be true to yourself. Just, it's all going to be okay, you are going to be okay. And you are just so much stronger. So much stronger than what you believe. So just take that leap of faith…