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Feb 17, 2021
94: Radical Authenticity in Dating, Lessons in Play, + Online Dating Profiles as Self-Marketing with Connell Barrett
Play • 57 min

Could your dating profile be the reason you aren’t scoring dates? Or maybe you’re under the impression that you have to present as “alpha” or “extraverted” in order to be desirable. Connell Barrett breaks our social programming with why radical authenticity is more attractive + successful in creating the love life you want. He gives us tips on how we can step into a more playful attitude + improve our confidence, even if there’s fear.

In this episode you will hear:

  • Why your online dating profile sucks + how to step it up through a marketing perspective
  • How authenticity can be a powerful tool for “scoring the date” (and why we believe it won’t)
  • Strategies for getting out of the “not enough” trap + rebuilding your self-confidence
  • Overcoming the fear of rejection + how changing your relationship to rejection can make you more invincible
  • Stepping into “playfulness” for greater attraction + changing the game of dating
  • Mental hacks to keep you SANE in the dating world
  • The myth of the “alpha male” + how this belief is hurting our outcome in dating
  • What Dr Cat believes is the HOTTEST statement one could make
  • Connell’s personal experiences around dating + why taking a risk to be bold + “just going for what you want” is the sexiest

Connell Barrett even answers some of our audience questions:

  • Tips on upgrading your experience on the dating apps + even meeting people outside of them
  • Get out of the FRIENDZONE


Dating coach Connell Barrett has one mission: help men defeat loneliness and attract their soulmates, as their most authentic, confident selves. The founder of Dating Transformation and a coach with The League dating app, Connell spent years training with the world’s best relationship and self-development experts. Connell’s next project? Showing men a new way to date with his forthcoming book, Dating Sucks But You Don’t, the complete dating guide for men in the #MeToo era, to be published in May by Simon & Schuster.

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