Share the Load
Mia Schachter
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Share the Load explores all things consent, including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, and a writer and educator in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
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Oct 3, 2023
Brooke Herr on the Death of Dreams
Brookes Herr (they/them) is a practitioner & educator of emotional-spiritual care work. You can find them on Instagram @veils.veils.veils. You can register for their class here. Starts 11/8.
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Soft stuff.
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Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
Ways to work with me:
1:1 private sessions
Group classes and long-form programs
Train with me to be a Consent Educator
Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project
Consulting for you or your company/organization or script
I offer customized workshops and speeches
You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.
Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt
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Aug 17, 2023
5 Patterns in Early Consent Learning
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Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
Ways to work with me:
1:1 private sessions
Group classes and long-form programs
Train with me to be a
Consent Educator
Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project
Consulting for you or your company/organization or script
I offer customized workshops and speeches
You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.
Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt
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Jul 10, 2023
CJ Interviews Mia about How It All Started
CJ Miller is a white, intersex, non-binary, trans femme artist and educator. Working in film & television, with LGBTIA+ advocacy groups, and with community organizations, her education and consultant work is aimed at creating safer spaces for trans, non-binary, and gender expansive identities. She is the co-creator of So You've Think You Met Your First Trans Person? - a transgender education pamphlet that exists as a free online & distributable resource.
Check out upcoming classes and recorded classes from Consent Wizardry.
Get your luxurious goodies at Foria Wellness. Use the code MIAS20 for 20% off.
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Please consider supporting the show financially at Patreon.com/sharetheload.
Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
Ways to work with me:
1:1 private sessions
Group classes and long-form programs
Train with me to be a
Consent Educator
Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project
Consulting for you or your company/organization or script
I offer customized workshops and speeches
You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.
Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt
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Jun 27, 2023
Ari Simon on Grief and Masculinity
Ari Simon (they/them) leads workshops, trainings, coaching, and consulting around grief, resilience, values-driven outcomes, and wellbeing. Through a practice that’s uniquely Ari, they equip people to best thrive in the face of loss, increasing wellbeing, psychological safety, and sense of fulfillment in identity-honoring ways.
🌳 Wellbeing for Teams, Productions, & Communities
🌲 Grief at Work and other Grief, Loss & Resilience programs
🌴 Coaching at Life's Edges
Learn more at their website
Follow @ari.fyi on IG
Check out upcoming classes and recorded classes from Consent Wizardry.
Get your luxurious goodies at Foria Wellness. Use the code MIAS20 for 20% off.
Advertise on the pod.
Please consider supporting the show financially at Patreon.com/sharetheload.
Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
Ways to work with me:
1:1 private sessions
Group classes and long-form programs
Train with me to be a
Consent Educator
Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project
Consulting for you or your company/organization or script
I offer customized workshops and speeches
You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.
Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt
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Jun 22, 2023
Kitty Stryker on Consent with Self and Others
Kitty Stryker is one of the people who pushed the term "consent culture" into mainstream conversations, as well as being an anarchist activist, queer femme, and leftist doomsday prepper located in the San Francisco Bay Area. She is the author of "Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook," a board member of Friends of Berkeley Animal Care Services, and enjoys playing TTRPGs in her free time! kittystryker.com
Check out upcoming classes and recorded classes from Consent Wizardry.
Get your luxurious goodies at Foria Wellness. Use the code MIAS20 for 20% off.
Advertise on the pod.
Please consider supporting the show financially at Patreon.com/sharetheload.
Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
Ways to work with me:
1:1 private sessions
Group classes and long-form programs
Train with me to be a
Consent Educator
Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project
Consulting for you or your company/organization or script
I offer customized workshops and speeches
You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.
Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt
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May 22, 2023
Embodied Boundaries and Mindfulness
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KUAN LUO (she/her)
Mindfulness and Buddhist Meditation Teacher; Outdoor Educator
Kuan is a Chinese-French-American mindfulness and meditation teacher and outdoor educator. She believes spiritual awakening and psychological maturity need each other to fully support healing and transformation in this time of unprecedented change. She guides and facilitates the development of awareness and interpersonal skills in groups and with individuals. These days, she regularly leads meditation practices and shares reflections online. A few times a year, she guides practices in wild nature.
You can learn more about Kuan on her website: https://www.kuanluo.com/
REBEKAH ROSE (they/she)
Illustrator, Muralist, Trauma-Informed Yoga Teacher + Non-Profit Program Manager
Rebekah Rose has their BFA in illustration from California State University Long Beach and over eight years experience facilitating groups and practicing public art. Rebekah approaches their work with a lighthearted sense of humor and play. Using a combination of creative practices and mindfulness based approaches, Rebekah creates space for people to get to know themselves without judgment. They believe that healing and liberation exists in small everyday moments, when we are able to slow down and hear the needs of our bodies without judgment or mistrust.
www.rebekahroseart.com
Check out upcoming classes and recorded classes from Consent Wizardry.
Get your luxurious goodies at Foria Wellness. Use the code MIAS20 for 20% off.
Advertise on the pod.
Please consider supporting the show financially at Patreon.com/sharetheload.
Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
Ways to work with me:
1:1 private sessions
Group classes and long-form programs
Train with me to be a
Consent Educator
Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project
Consulting for you or your company/organization or script
I offer customized workshops and speeches
You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.
Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt
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Apr 25, 2023
Cancer Season: The Musical
I played under the pseudonym Max Silver for a backyard show in LA. The set list includes 3 songs from the musical I’m writing, two originals, and one cover. If you can help support the musical in any way, it would be greatly appreciated. Financially or in kind or space.
Check out upcoming classes and recorded classes from Consent Wizardry.
Get your luxurious goodies at Foria Wellness. Use the code MIAS20 for 20% off.
Advertise on the pod.
Please consider supporting the show financially at Patreon.com/sharetheload.
Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
Ways to work with me:
1:1 private sessions
Group classes and long-form programs
Train with me to be a Somatic Consent Educator
Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project
Consulting for you or your company/organization or script
I offer customized workshops and speeches
You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.
Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt
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Mar 2, 2023
What is consent? Part I
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Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
Ways to work with me:
1:1 private sessions
Group classes and long-form programs
Train with me to be a Somatic Consent Educator
Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project
Consulting for you or your company/organization or script
I offer customized workshops and speeches
You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.
We don’t have a video version of this episode :(
Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt
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Feb 6, 2023
MI Leggett on Creative Constraints
MI Leggett (he/they), upcycle designer, artist, and founder of Official Rebrand talk about seeing the vibrancy of gender, the benefits of limitations in art, and genderless fashion.
You can find MI on Instagram @official_rebrand.
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Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater in residence at the Geffen Playhouse, and a writer and educator in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
Ways to work with me:
1:1 private sessions
Group classes and long-form programs
Train with me to be a Somatic Consent Educator
Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project
Consulting for you or your company/organization or script
I offer customized workshops and speeches
You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.
Video version with subtitles on youtube!
Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt
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Jan 19, 2023
Maisha on Finding Your Purpose
Maisha Aza MSW, CMT (she/they), founder of Black Girl Tantra, LLC is a fat, black, queer Tantric Shaman, and Intuitive. Maisha holds the door open and the mirror up for black indigenous and people of color (BIPOC) who have been marginalized and unaccepted within their own communities, families, and society. They help people access their sexual power for healing psycho-sexual and spiritual wounds as a result of interpersonal, cultural, religious and ancestral trauma. Centering women, queer, trans and non-binary folx in her work, Maisha helps people grow their self-intimacy, self-trust, and body autonomy through erotic consent practices. Maisha's unique, sensual blending of shamanic medicine, tantric medicine, and erotic embodiment practices are key tools that they use to help transform pain, blame and shame into healing. Their tantric shaman practices are concrete tools for consciously thriving above and beyond social stigmas, taboos and gender binaries. Black Girl Tantra is a prominent leader in the movement to create a culture of consent by healing through the power of pleasure!
http://www.blackgirltantra.com
IG @ Blackgirltantra
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Check out upcoming classes and recorded classes from Consent Wizardry.
Get your luxurious goodies at Foria Wellness. Use the code MIAS20 for 20% off.
Advertise on the pod.
Please consider supporting the show financially at Patreon.com/sharetheload.
Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater in residence at the Geffen Playhouse, and a writer and educator in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
Ways to work with me:
1:1 private sessions
Group classes and long-form programs
Train with me to be a Somatic Consent Educator
Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project
Consulting for you or your company/organization or script
I offer customized workshops and speeches
You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.
Video version with subtitles on youtube!
Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt
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Jan 9, 2023
Meenadchi on Doritos
Meenadchi (she | her) and I talk about their journey with consent, kink, and Doritos.
You can find her on IG @with.meenadchi and through her website.
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Check out upcoming classes and recorded classes from Consent Wizardry.
Get your luxurious goodies at Foria Wellness. Use the code MIAS20 for 20% off.
Advertise on the pod.
Please consider supporting the show financially at Patreon.com/sharetheload.
Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater in residence at the Geffen Playhouse, and a writer and educator in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
Ways to work with me:
1:1 private sessions
Group classes and long-form programs
Train with me to be a Somatic Consent Educator
Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your proje…
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Nov 22, 2022
Rebekah Rose on Self-Expression
Rebekah Rose they | she
Boundaries + Consent for Teens!! January 2-6.
Illustrator, Muralist, Trauma-Informed Yoga Teacher + Non-Profit Program Manager
Rebekah Rose has their BFA in illustration from California State University Long Beach and over eight years experience facilitating groups and practicing public art. Rebekah approaches their work with a lighthearted sense of humor and play. Using a combination of creative practices and mindfulness based approaches, Rebekah creates space for people to get to know themselves without judgment. They believe that healing and liberation exists in small everyday moments, when we are able to slow down and hear the needs of our bodies without judgment or mistrust.
Rebekah can be contacted here and on IG: @rebekahrose_art/
Here’s the poem they mentioned.
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Nov 1, 2022
Serena Caffrey on Endurance and Creativity
Serena Caffrey (she | they) and I talk about endurance and creativity, and working through those sticky times when you want to want to create, but don’t actually want to create.
You can find Serena on Instagram @essyre__ or on their site serenacaffrey.com.
Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater in residence at the Geffen Playhouse, and a writer and educator in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
Check out upcoming classes and recorded classes from Consent Wizardry.
Ways to work with me:
1:1 private sessions
Group classes and long-form programs
Train with me to be a Somatic Consent Educator
Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project
Consulting for you or your company/organization or script
I offer customized works…
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Oct 4, 2022
Laila Makled on Knowing Yourself
Laila Makled (they | he)
Consent, Communication + Care Educator
Founder of push2exist, Laila Makled’s years of experience as a corporate trouble maker led them to become a Consent, Communication & Care Educator.
Through push2exist, Laila provides operations consulting & life coaching via somatic and anti-oppression techniques for radical & progressive campaigns, organizations, schools and companies; as well as individuals who exist in those spaces. Their focus is on equity, direct communication, and collective care.
Laila specializes in decision-making + communication, and the day-to-day and long-term operations of those things.
Learn more about Laila here.
IG: @push2exist
Tik Tock: @push2exist
Linkedin: Laila Makled
Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, and a writer and educator in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach…
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Sep 12, 2022
Sharon on Consent with Dogs!
Sharon Vincuilla (she/her) is a Human Animal Bond Facilitator and Human Canine Interaction Strategist, and Licensed Occupational Therapist. She specializes in rescue-rehabilitation with anxious and traumatized dogs.
You can follow her on IG @holisticdogexpert and read more about her work at HC-collab.com.
Share the Load explores all things consent beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, and a writer and educator in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com
You can find the video of this episode on Youtube with subtitles.
Please consider supporting the show financially at Patreon.com/sharetheload.
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May 2, 2022
Special Episode: CJ + Mia on Dating Preferences
We talk about how our preferences in dating are shaped by the media and our environment and what we can do to challenge them in order to try not to perpetuate harmful systems of oppression to the best of our ability. To support the show please consider joining the Patreon at Patreon.com/sharetheload. You can find CJ on Instagram @cjkittenmiller.
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Mar 27, 2022
Special Episode: Judy + Mia on Consent and Capitalism
In case you missed it: Judy of @hearmefinance and I talk about whether or not consent is possible within a Capitalist system on this special episode of Share the Load. We originally had this conversation on IG Live on 3/24/22.
Apologies for the garbled audio. It gets much better in the second half.
We’ll be back with our regularly scheduled programming next time!
You can watch the video version on Youtube with subtitles.
You can apply for the Share the Load Somatic Consent Educator Training until April 11.
www.sharetheloadinc.com IG: @consent.wizardry
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Mar 4, 2022
#3.1 Scarcity and Specificity
Welcome back! This is the first episode of the show in its new structure as a call-in advice show. We talk about dating as a genderqueer person, boundaries in work, and creating that feeling of fear in a safe way in bed.
People I mention on this episode: Lina Dune of @askasub, Oumou Sylla @connectwithoumou, Meenadchi, and Rachel Flesher @rayro22.
You can see classes, the educator training, and more at sharetheloadinc.com.
If you’d like to have your call answered on the show, call (213) 290-0610 or email a voice note or written question to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com.
To support the show, join the Patreon which is a self-paced learning space with journal prompts, exercises, discount codes and more. You can write a review and rate it wherever you’re listening, or share it with friends.
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Jan 8, 2022
#2.13 Oumou Sylla on Burnout and Consent
Oumou Sylla (@connectwithoumou) and I discuss decolonizing therapy, reimagining labor, and self energy.
Their influences are:
1. bell hooks and Assata Shakur
2. James Baldwin
3. The death of Black children at police hands.
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon. The Share the Load Patreon is now a place for DIY, self-paced learning about consent and boundaries and starts at $5 a month. Other ways to support the show are to write a review on whatever platform you listen on, share on social media, and share directly with friends.
Produced and edited by Stella Gutierrez. Logo by Candice Ploy Goodman. Beginning and ending music by me, and mid-episode music by Tyler Fjeld.
Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter @sharetheloadpod, and me on IG and Twitter @consentwizard. You can also find the unedited video recording of this interview with subtitles on my YouTube channel.
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Dec 18, 2021
#2.12 Cory Bush on Becoming a Doula and Consent with Pain
Cory Bush (@thecorybush) is a full spectrum doula, sex educator, and childbirth educator-in-training. They support birthing people and beyond in finding empowerment at the intersection of evidence based information and personal intuition.
Their influences:
1. Father’s traumatic brain injury
2. Lito, the musician
3. Their mother
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon. The Share the Load Patreon is now a place for DIY, self-paced learning about consent and boundaries and starts at $5 a month. Other ways to support the show are to write a review on whatever platform you listen on, share on social media, and share directly with friends.
Produced and edited by Stella Gutierrez. Logo by Candice Ploy Goodman. Beginning and ending music by me, and mid-episode music by Tyler Fjeld.
Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter @sharetheloadpod, and me on IG and Twitter @consentwizard. You can also find the unedited video recording of this interview with subtitles…
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Nov 30, 2021
#2.11 Mona Eshaiker on Burnout
CW: suicidal ideation, animal abuse
Mona Eshaiker (@monalmft) and I discuss the honeymoon phase, learned helplessness, and asking for help.
Her influences:
1. Spirituality
2. Louis Hay
3. Asking for help
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon. The Share the Load Patreon is now a place for DIY, self-paced learning about consent and boundaries and starts at $5 a month. Other ways to support the show are to write a review on whatever platform you listen on, share on social media, and share directly with friends.
Produced and edited by Stella Gutierrez. Logo by Candice Ploy Goodman. Beginning and ending music by me, and mid-episode music by Tyler Fjeld.
Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter @sharetheloadpod, and me on IG and Twitter @consentwizard. You can also find the unedited video recording of this interview with subtitles on my YouTube channel.
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Oct 28, 2021
#2.10 MI Leggett on Creating Your Own Identity Through Fashion
MI Leggett (@official_rebrand) and I discuss finding his identity though fashion, greenwashing, and the importance of play.
Their Influences:
1. Reading Testo Junkie while starting Testosterone.
2. Playing dodgeball with Ariana Gil of Brujas
3. Painting penises on clothes
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon. The Share the Load Patreon is now a place for DIY, self-paced learning about consent and boundaries and starts at $3 a month. Other ways to support the show are to write a review on whatever platform you listen on, share on social media, and share directly with friends.
Produced and edited by Stella Hartmann. Logo by Candice Ploy Goodman. Beginning and ending music by me, and mid-episode music by Tyler Fjeld.
Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter @sharetheloadpod, and me on IG and Twitter @consentwizard. You can also find the unedited video recording of this interview with subtitles on my YouTube channel.
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Aug 23, 2021
#2.9 Dr. Jon P. Higgins on Flipping Tables and Starting Fires
Dr. Jon P. Higgins (@doctorjonpaul) and I discuss how they cope with society by laughing, finding radical joy, and becoming their authentic self.
Their influences:
1. Bayard Rustin
2. Audre Lorde
3. Tre’vell Anderson
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon. The Share the Load Patreon is now a place for DIY, self-paced learning about consent and boundaries and starts at $5 a month. Other ways to support the show are to write a review on whatever platform you listen on, share on social media, and share directly with friends.
Produced and edited by Stella Hartmann. Logo by Candice Ploy Goodman. Beginning and ending music by me, and mid-episode music by Tyler Fjeld.
Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter @sharetheloadpod, and me on IG and Twitter @consentwizard. You can also find the unedited video recording of this interview with subtitles on my YouTube channel.
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Jul 7, 2021
#2.8 Xenon Universe on Being a Bird of Paradise
Xenon Universe (@xenonopaluniverse) and I discuss him committing to his identity and authenticity as a performer, being a choosy bird of paradise about who he works with, and holding and nurturing the little person inside of him.
His influences:
1. His relationships with other trans people
2. Kali Uchis, Emma Ruth Rundle, Junglepussy
3. Self care
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon. The Share the Load Patreon is now a place for DIY, self-paced learning about consent and boundaries and starts at $5 a month. Other ways to support the show are to write a review on whatever platform you listen on, share on social media, and share directly with friends.
Produced and edited by Stella Hartmann. Logo by Candice Ploy Goodman. Beginning and ending music by me, and mid-episode music by Tyler Fjeld.
Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter @sharetheloadpod, and me on IG and Twitter @consentwizard. You can also find the unedited video recording of this inte…
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May 10, 2021
#2.7 Sydney Rae Chin on Still Being Owed for Her Emotional Labor
CW: sexual assault, rape, self-harm, and a mention of blood
Sydney Rae Chin (@sydneyraechin) and I discuss putting a price on sharing her healing journey, Title IX, and transformative justice.
You can find Sydney on her website, SydneyRaeChin.com, her Patreon, on IG @sydneyraechin & @intuitivesurvivorguide, Twitter at @sraechin, and you can email her sydneyraechin@gmail.com.
Her influences:
1. Audre Lorde
2. HATIWG Philly (Healing and Trauma-Informed Working Group)
3. Her ancestors and grandparents
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon. The Share the Load Patreon is now a place for DIY, self-paced learning about consent and boundaries and starts at $5 a month. Other ways to support the show are to write a review on whatever platform you listen on, share on social media, and share directly with friends.
Photo of Sydney Rae Chin by Sheila Joy. Produced and edited by Stella Hartmann. Logo by Candice Ploy Goodman. Beginning and ending music by me…
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Mar 19, 2021
#2.6 Lina Dune on Pitching a Tent
Lina Dune (@askasub) and I discuss BDSM, camping, and more.
Her influences:
1. Anais Nin
2. Sex workers
3. Her current relationship
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Jan 28, 2021
#2.5 1/2 Mini Episode of Mia's Salty Articles
CW: Suicidal Ideation, Sexual Assault, Stealthing, Medical Gaslighting
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Jan 18, 2021
#2.5 Mia Schachter on Sharing the Load
In this week’s episode, Laurel Atwell interviewed me!
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Produced and edited by Stella Hartmann. Logo by Candice Ploy Goodman. Beginning and ending music by me, and mid-episode music by Tyler Fjeld.
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Dec 30, 2020
#2.4 Laurel Atwell Says, "Today Is Day"
Laurel Atwell, Qi Gong teacher and performer, and I discuss feeling depleted and feeling resourced and how to access the circumstances that create the environment to feel nourished.
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Nov 13, 2020
#2.3 Jimanekia Eborn on Looking Outside of Yourself
Jimanekia, the one and only Trauma Queen, and I talk about self care plans, putting together care pods, and running a business. Jimanekia is a co-founding member of Centaury Co., our Intimacy Coordination training program.
You can find her on Instagram @jimanekia and you can find her podcast Trauma Queen wherever you get your podcasts.
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Sep 9, 2020
#2.2 Lola Jean on All Kinds of Accountability
Lola Jean and I talk about confidence, consent, and accountability.
You can find Lola Jean on IG @lolajeandotcom and via her website. You can hear her podcast Is Our Love ___? on all podcast platforms including PornHub.
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon. Other ways to support the show are to write a review on Apple Podcasts, share on social media, and to share with friends.
Produced and edited by Stella Hartmann. Logo by Candice Ploy Goodman. Beginning and ending music by me, and mid-episode music by Tyler Fjeld.
Unedited video version with subtitles on YouTube.
Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sharetheloadpod, and me on IG @miaschachter.
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Aug 21, 2020
#2.1 Meenadchi on Redefining Labor
In this week’s episode, Meenadchi (IG: @whostoleserendib) and I discuss the difference between labor and purpose, and invisible labor vs unacknowledged labor.
You can support the show at Patreon.com/sharetheload. Hats and shirts are available at sharetheloadinc.com. Writing a review and sharing about the show on social media are other wonderful ways to support us.
Produced and edited by Stella Hartmann. Logo by Candice Ploy Goodman. Beginning and ending music by me, and mid-episode music by Tyler Fjeld.
Unedited video version with subtitles on YouTube.
Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sharetheloadpod, and me on IG @miaschachter.
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Jul 17, 2020
#15 Kamra on How the Work Has Changed
Kamra is back to talk with me about how the work has changed since our first episode.
Kamra Sadia Hakim (they/them) is a 27 year-old Brooklyn-based futurity artist using the mediums of dance, music, writing, and movement building to create worlds and possibilities beyond the status quo.
You can find them @blackqueerbaby and @activationresidency on Instagram. You can invest in Farming Futurity by Venmo’ing @activation or at Paypal.me/activationretreat.
If you're considering becoming a member on Patreon, I ask instead that you direct your funds to organizations that support Black lives, or directly to Black individuals in need of financial support. @therevolutionwillbefunded and @activationresidency (on IG) are two places that I recommend and continually invest in myself.
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Recorded, edited, and produced by Pete Szijarto @directorpete. Music by Tyler Fjeld. Cover…
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Jul 8, 2020
#14 Augustus Prew on Being Wrong
Augustus Prew is an actor and a friend known for various shows such as The Morning Show, Pure Genius, Prison Break and Special.
Auggie's Influences:
his husband Jeffrey Self for always being his authentic self and helping Auggie to do the same.
a conversation that he had with a stranger, Jamie, in Thailand who said, "This is really inappropriate, but I'm pretty sure you're gay."
his mom's advice: "Whenever something is really scary, just take a deep breath and go for it."
IG and Twitter: @augustusprew
You can send listener questions about boundaries and consent to be answered on the show to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com.
If you're considering becoming a member on Patreon, I ask instead that you direct your funds to organizations that support Black lives, or directly to Black individuals in need of financial support. @therevolutionwillbefunded and @activationresidency (on IG) are two places that I recommend and continually invest in myself.
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Jul 3, 2020
#13 Adrianne McCurrach on Telling More Stories
As a longtime mentor and supporter of diversity in the industry, Adrianne McCurrach has spent her career collaborating with brands to communicate their message while also helping young women creatives tell their stories in film. She is a passionate advocate for the arts, teaching media literacy programs and founding women's organizations while bringing a singular focus to her work with a range of entertainment, film and production companies. As Executive Producer and Managing Director at creative collective Unicorns & Unicorns, McCurrach continues to be a trailblazer, marrying content's impactful strengths with her desire to inspire social change. This includes making sure more diverse voices get a seat at the table, fostering the next generation of visual storytellers.
Unicorns and Unicorns
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Jun 25, 2020
#12 marlee grace on Burnout
marlee grace is a writer and dancer living in New Mexico.
marlee’s influences:
Rachel Cargle @rachel.cargle
Glennon Doyle Melton and Elizabeth Gilbert
Lukaza Branfman-Verissimo and Ellen Rutt
You can find marlee on KMRD radio, on IG @marleegrace and @personalpractice.
Marleegrace.space.
You can send listener questions about boundaries and consent to be answered on the show to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com.
If you’re considering becoming a member on Patreon this month, I ask that you instead send your funds to support organizations that support Black lives or directly to Black people. Other ways to support the show are to write a review on Apple Podcasts, share on social media, and to share with friends.
Recorded, edited, and produced by Pete Szijarto @directorpete. Music by Tyler Fjeld. Cover art by Candice Ploy Goodman @candiceployg.
Share the Load is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, and YouTube (with subtitles).
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Jun 11, 2020
#11 Cameron Glover on the Energetics of Money
Cameron is a certified sex educator and business coach for sexuality professionals. Through Successful Sex Ed, she helps sexuality professionals to monetize their expertise and build online businesses. In addition, she also hosts the Sex Ed in Color podcast, centering the experiences of sexuality professionals of color.
I recently took her selling masterclass and I cannot recommend it enough!
Cameron’s influences:
Her Mom
Sailor Moon
Toni Morrison’s Sula
Cameron’s IG: @thecameronglover
Her podcast’s IG: @sexedincolor
Her business IG: @successfulsexed
You can send listener questions about boundaries and consent to be answered on the show to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com.
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon ❤️ Other ways to support the show are to write a review on Apple Podcasts, share on social media, and to share with friends.
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May 28, 2020
#10 Kamra on Activation and Imagination
Kamra Sadia Hakim (they/them) is a 27 year-old Brooklyn-based futurity artist using the mediums of dance, music, writing, and movement building to create worlds and possibilities beyond the status quo.
Kamra’s influences:
adrienne maree brown
Form at Arcosanti
Growing up poor
babyking.me
activationresidency.com
IG: @blackqueerbaby
IG: @activationresidency
You can send listener questions about boundaries and consent to be answered on the show to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com.
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon ❤️ Other ways to support the show are to write a review on Apple Podcasts, share on social media, and to share with friends.
Recorded, edited, and produced by Pete Szijarto @directorpete. Music by Tyler Fjeld. Cover art by Candice Ploy Goodman @candiceployg.
You can watch the video version of this podcast (subtitles available) on YouTube.
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May 26, 2020
#8 Jenette Goldstein on Changing Your Underwear and Changing Your Life
Jenette Goldstein is a well-known character actress (Aliens, T2, Titanic, Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas) and also the co-founder and CEO of Jenette Bras, a small chain of bra fitting boutiques where 'the alphabet starts at D'. She's a mother of four children and is presently hunkered down in Atlanta with her husband.
You can email listener questions to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com, and follow me on Instagram.
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon ❤️ Other ways to support the show are to write a review on Apple Podcasts, share on social media, and to share with friends.
Recorded, edited, and produced by Pete Szijarto @directorpete. Music by Tyler Fjeld. Cover art by Candice Ploy Goodman @candiceployg.
You can watch the video version of this podcast (subtitles available) on YouTube.
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May 26, 2020
#7 Michael Ian Black on Masculinity
CW: School shootings and gun violence
Michael's influences:
Alan Alda on MASH
Wade Davis's work on masculinity
bells hooks
You can email listener questions to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com, and follow me on Instagram.
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon ❤️ Other ways to support the show are to write a review on Apple Podcasts, share on social media, and to share with friends.
Recorded, edited, and produced by Pete Szijarto @directorpete. Music by Tyler Fjeld. Cover art by Candice Ploy Goodman @candiceployg.
You can watch the video version of this podcast (subtitles available) on YouTube.
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May 26, 2020
#6 Brooke Herr on Magic and Ritual
Today I talk to Brooke Herr, a practicing witch and tattooer whose work centers the power and the potential of ritual. They are genderqueer, a gemini (sun), and live with their cat Luce. Brooke is on Instagram @behsticks. They can be reached at www.brookeherr.com as well.
Brooke’s influences:
Good Night Moon
Beverly Glenn-Copeland (song: La Vita)
Jane Martin (author)
From Brooke:
Lou Elda, the practitioner who helped me realize I needed to go to Sicily, can be found at www.louelda.com ~ they offer a number of services and art there, including the spiritual practice that I mention in the podcast.
I'd also love to credit Kamryn Wolf, who is does a form of gender counseling and is currently working with me. They can be found at www.genderdoula.com
As well as my clients, friends, community, and family members - who I have to thank for everything I come to know, relocate, or uncover. Learning is relational. Your insight, care, and willingness to share yourselves, is what makes meaning…
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May 26, 2020
#5 Tracie Thoms on Choosing Plan A
Tracie Thoms is an actor and singer. She can be seen currently on 9-1-1 and Station 19 and she played Joanne in the movie RENT.
Tracie’s influences:
RENT
Marion McClinton
Her parents
IG: @Traciethoms
You can email listener questions to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com, and follow me on Instagram.
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon ❤️ Other ways to support the show are to write a review on Apple Podcasts, share on social media, and to share with friends.
Recorded, edited, and produced by Pete Szijarto @directorpete. Music by Tyler Fjeld. Cover art by Candice Ploy Goodman @candiceployg.
You can watch the video version of this podcast (subtitles available) on YouTube.
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May 26, 2020
#4 Stella Hartmann on the In-Between
Stella Hartmann is a writer who focuses on self love and finding peace in a quarantined world. We talk about roommates in quarantine, emotional space, and the sacred in between all of us.
Stella is on Instagram @the_last_hartmann. Stellahartmann.com.
You can email listener questions to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com, and follow me on Instagram.
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon ❤️ Other ways to support the show are to write a review on Apple Podcasts, share on social media, and to share with friends.
Recorded, edited, and produced by Pete Szijarto @directorpete. Music by Tyler Fjeld. Cover art by Candice Ploy Goodman @candiceployg.
You can watch the video version of this podcast (subtitles available) on YouTube.
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May 26, 2020
#3 Yehuda Duenyas on Intimacy Coordination
Today I talk to Yehuda Duenyas, an intimacy coordinator and experiential director.
Wheel of Consent video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auokDp_EA80
Yehuda's Website https://xxxyehuda.com/
Intimacy Coordination https://laintimacycoordination.com/
Love Has No Labels https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PnDgZuGIhHs&feature=youtu.be
The Ascent https://xxxyehuda.com/theascent
Airflow https://xxxyehuda.com/airflow
Yehuda can be found on Instagram at @xxxy_1
You can email listener questions to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com, and follow me on Instagram.
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon ❤️ Other ways to support the show are to write a review on Apple Podcasts, share on social media, and to share with friends.
Recorded, edited, and produced by Pete Szijarto @directorpete. Music by Tyler Fjeld. Cover art by Candice Ploy Goodman @candiceployg.
You can watch the video version of this podcast (subtitles available) on YouTube.
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May 26, 2020
#2 Inka Winter on Erotica for Women
CW: Abortion.
I talk to Inka Winter, founder of ForPlay Films, her production company which produces erotic films for women by women. She also created Sexucation on YouTube, a sex education channel for adults.
www.forplayfilms.com
@forplayfilms on Instagram
This episode is dedicated to my Uncle David, who is recovering from surgery.
You can email listener questions to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com, and follow me on Instagram.
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon ❤️ Other ways to support the show are to write a review on Apple Podcasts, share on social media, and to share with friends.
Recorded, edited, and produced by Pete Szijarto @directorpete. Music by Tyler Fjeld. Cover art by Candice Ploy Goodman @candiceployg.
You can watch the video version of this podcast (subtitles available) on YouTube.
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May 26, 2020
#1 The Naked Lawyer on Law and Domination
The first episode of Share the Load! I talk to Kate @therealnakedlawyer, a lawyer and dominatrix, about her upbringing, power dynamics, autism, and selling sapiosexual content as a form of self expression.
You can email listener questions to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com, and follow me on Instagram.
You can email listener questions to podcast@sharetheloadinc.com, and follow me on Instagram.
Please consider becoming a member to keep this show going on Patreon ❤️ Other ways to support the show are to write a review on Apple Podcasts, share on social media, and to share with friends.
Recorded, edited, and produced by Pete Szijarto @directorpete. Music by Tyler Fjeld. Cover art by Candice Ploy Goodman @candiceployg.
You can watch the video version of this podcast (subtitles available) on YouTube.
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