When you talk about yourself, do the things around you, the things you have purchased, the things you value, do they all reflect your words or just your hidden ego?
Of course, you want everyone to like you. You want everyone to think your sweet, considerate, a really nice person. Look around you. Do the things you own reflect that image? Look at the things you do for you. Did you consider other people first or you and then everyone else?
Look around you. If you walked into someone's house or apartment with all your stuff, what kind of person would you think lives here?