In this episode the podcast crew examines the classic responses like: she isn’t my look, he’s not up my alley, I just don’t see it and all of the politically correct responses you’ll need when talking to the shadchan.
Remarks to the Shadchan:
1) She’s not up my alley / He’s not “my type”
2) Why can’t they just have a normal profile pic!! OR they don’t do profile pictures...do they want to get married?
3) Physical Aspects and Resume Info:
4) He’s too short / she’s not my figure type
5) Their just not my look 😏 // I just don’t find them attractive!
6) Too loud/quiet
7) Hashkafically different / Different backgrounds
8) I don’t date from that area (ex: 5T, Monsey, Queens)
9) SPECIFIC ISSUES WITH SHADCHAN: Yes your my mother’s friend but you don’t know me so stop sending me outrageous ideas!!!
10) Enough with your sons sloppy seconds!!
11) Remarks from the Shadchan: I’m sorry you don’t approve of my resume. I’ll be sure to not answer your calls anymore.
12) YESSS a coffee date won't kill me but honestly my time is money and its really just gonna be a big FAT no from me
13) Im doing this for 10 years...just trust me!
14) So should I just not say anything to the shadchan 😡 like they don’t even give a hoot at what I have to say!
15) I just got a few No’s back..so yes I will be sounding brash...if they can be picky why can’t I??
16) The parents are divorced, I have a problem with that 😕
17) AS YOU DATE THEM: Can you just tell him to stop planning our dates around Starbucks!!!
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