ADOSSIER
Shida Osman
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ADOSSIER is your imaginary adult friend that curates you through minutes of sanity. Hosted by Shida Osman that hails from the sunny island of Singapore, get ready to feel again with delectable infotainment & her personal rambles on OFFSIDE.
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Jun 25, 2021
FRI-K: Billie Eilish - Bellyache Cover ;
Have always loved this song from Billie. Looking forward to how much she will bloom =)
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Jun 23, 2021
Bo Burnham "Inside" Breakdown: Part 2
It's all the things that you don't want to admit, in Part 2. Downhill, baby.
42:19 - YouTube, "Like & Subscribe" with a knife Scene
47:34 - Problematic
52:30 - Turning 30 (amazing lightworks. i'm jealous)
56:20 - Suicide Pep Talk Scene
01:00:58 - Shit
01:00:02 - Welcome To The Internet (FAVE!)
01:00:06 - That Funny Feeling
01:11:00 - All Eyes On Me
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Jun 23, 2021
Bo Burnham "Inside" Breakdown: Part 1
I love Bo Burnham but if you half understand him (or me), I'll make your life easier with these timestamps.
13:05 - Beginning
13:19 - Comedy
13:55 - Facetime With My Mum
17:00 - How The World Works
21:33 - Woke Ad Brand Consultant Scene
27:00 - White Woman Instagram
33:37 - Unpaid Intern
33:43 - Reaction Video Scene
36:56 - Jeff Bezos Pt. 1
37:15 - Sexting
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Jun 20, 2021
OFFSIDE: Racism Looks Stupid & My Experience Joining Sugarbook
I didn't record OFFSIDE for the past week because, whatever I want to say Racism has been said. It does exist. But, dear racists, you really look dumb.
So, to distract, I speak about my experience, being a member of Sugarbook and my reasons for it.
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Jun 6, 2021
OFFSIDE: "INSIDE" & MY EMOTIONAL BURNOUT
Bo is just sick and tired of how he had the ability to make people laugh and also how the masses can also be brilliant, but, just lazy lah. Myself included. But he is right, who can make him laugh like how he can make us laugh? Praises can only do so much. It's like giving a broken record of advises and not applying. Also, I explained why I didn't record in the past week, it's in the title. Have a good week!
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Jun 3, 2021
FRI-K: Lykke Li, A Little Bit
One of my favorite "lazy" songs. Of course, she does it better. Sorry, if I butchered it.
HAVE A GREAT WEEK!
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May 23, 2021
OFFSIDE: Bella Poarch, Bo Burnham, Israel Ethnic Cleansing of Palestine & Skillsfuture Credit ;
You can make donations to Gaza or Palestine via these organizations:
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Sofee Initiative: https://www.instagram.com/sofeeinitiative/
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So, do you miss me?
Listen in as I discuss Bella Poarch's latest single, Bo Burnham's Upcoming special, the unethical Israel ethnic cleansing of Palestine and how I am making use of my Skillsfuture credit.
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May 6, 2021
FRI-K HARI RAYA/EID 2021 SPECIAL: Bersabarlah Sayang, Sanisah Huri Cover
It is the second year that we are celebrating Hari Raya/Eid during this pandemic. There is a certain sombre feeling to it all.
I dedicate this cover to all the foreign workers and Malaysians who are celebrating while stuck here in Singapore, families who are separated during this time and to all our loved ones who had left this world.
May you find solace some way or another. Let's continue sending our prayers to all the people we love.
SELAMAT HARI RAYA AND MAAF ZAHIR DAN BATIN TO ALL ADOSSIER LISTENERS! I hope you enjoy this.
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May 2, 2021
OFFSIDE: To Salam Or Not To? Beow Tan & MRT Entertainment
I had trouble gauging whether the lady in sight was my age or older. So, I was in conflict on whether I should do the normal salam or cium tangan (kiss the hands). Have you ever faced this before? The awkwardness?
And of course, I will babble about Beow Tan and also how, I feel MRTs should have live entertainment for economic growth.
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Apr 25, 2021
OFFSIDE: Migrant Workers Deserves MORE & Oculus Quest
There must be a time where a law was implemented for Malay families to stop riding at the back of lorries during Eid. But, why can't the same be done for Migrant Workers? Who helped us built our houses and buildings? Why am I still watching them still being transported like cargo at the back of a lorry? Why Can't they be transported from one place to another in a bus?
I get a little lonely this episode as I talk about my emotional issues during Ramadan, about the tragic migrant worker accident and how I realize that I have motion sickness while playing Oculus Quest with my fiancee.
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Apr 23, 2021
FRI-K: Bic Runga - Sway
Missing someone far away like I do? Need to say how you feel but shy this Hari Raya? Nah, my favorite love song from the kiwi songstress, Bic Runga.
Let's get dreamy and sing along, okay? Enjoy your weekends!
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Apr 21, 2021
Indian Matchmaking In Singapore: The High Expectations, Dating Evolution & Looks VS. Personality
In this week's episode, I spoke to an Indian Matchmaker, Meenachi from Singapore Indians Matrimonial.
We chatted about the process of Indian Matchmaking, the sometimes, troubling influence that parents project onto their children in choosing a partner and how it can be better, the importance of a conversation and her brilliant future projects.
To contact Meenachi for her matchmaking services: FACEBOOK PAGE
Indian Matchmaking on Netflix, ain't got shit.
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Apr 11, 2021
OFFSIDE: RAMADAN IS COMING & About Thirst Trapping; Men Can Get Away With It & Women Are Called Whores?
Let's all try to be better people this Ramadhan. And yes, we don't consume anything while fasting. WE SHOULD BE SUPERHEROES! Riak (boastful) HAHA!
I was thinking it's about time that I address using the term "bitch" loosely, especially between women just because she displays her ass and boobs on social media. Men get away with thirst trapping. Women? Gets called a whore not only in society (we all know the line to draw, Karen. Not all of them should be allowed), but by other women too. It sickens me.
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Apr 8, 2021
FRI-K: James Arthur - Train Wreck ;
Always loved James Arthur as an artist and have always loved him as a person too. I'm sorry if I murdered this song, but this song is a heartbreaker.
SORRY FOR THE SAPPY FRIDAY!
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Apr 8, 2021
THIS.CONNECT: Difficult Emotions & Dealing With Them
ADOSSIER X THIS.CONNECT
How do we tell our hearts that life will take some time after a death? Is handing a tissue to someone sad or griefing really helpful?
In this episode, MK & me addressed the daily difficult emotions such as, anger, grief, sadness, contempt etc. and how to handle them with care and mindfulness.
Check out THIS.CONNECT:
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IG: @thisconnect.today
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Apr 3, 2021
OFFSIDE: Haters, Read Choi & Calling Out Season
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Had someone who misconstrued the whole meaning of my previous episode of the Hijab issue and called me out in public.
And from, Armie Hammer, David Dobrik and now, Read Choi. It's about time that men, as I have said before, that are regarded as the champion gender, learn to love and respect women. Let's not let these few men project our fear and insecurity towards good men.
There is no such thing as being too much of a woman. They should know their limits.
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Apr 2, 2021
FRI-K: Dua Lipa - Don't Start Now Cover ;
I love Dua Lipa. People can love Harry Styles, but I love Dua Lipa.
Come, let's sing along. I wonder if I ever hold an IG live for a karaoke session, you guys will join me.
Happy Weekends! =)
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Mar 31, 2021
Part 2: Graphology; Red Flags, Best Moments & I Get My Handwriting Analyzed
In Part 2, I ask Sulianah some hot questions - since Graphology is used in Criminology, I asked her whether there has been any red flags before and some of the best moments she had as a Graphologist. Also, of course I wouldn't miss out having my handwriting analysed!
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Mar 31, 2021
Part 1: Graphology, Why Sulianah Chose Graphology & Hacks To Improve Your Handwriting
I have never been more nervous to pass my handwriting to Siti Sulianah, Founder of Grapholistic International and a Singapore-based Graphologist of 18 years now. I bet you didn't even know what Graphology was about or what Graphologists do before this episode.
In Part 1, we speak about what motivated her to choose a life career in Graphology, the importance of writing with your hands especially now and short hacks to improve your handwriting to propel in life.
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Mar 27, 2021
OFFSIDE: HIJAB ISSUE IN SG; Art Holier Than Thou, Ustaz Bangsat & The Fear Of Foreign Influences
How can we be assured that within our SG Muslim community, this present "Art Holier Than Thou" attitude is not gonna be taken to extremes and actually cause a discourse, if there is clearance for Hijabs?
How can I be reassured that my precious Muslim sisters aren't gonna be a target for idiots, such as the teen that wanted to attack the Yusof Ishak mosque? Are we then gonna blame ourselves?
Equality means for all. Are you gonna be alright and not be immature, when all the religions in Singapore can don their religious outfits?
These are the talking points of the current Hijab issue in SG, that I will cover in this episode. Pretty serious for a subsidiary, relaxed show.
Fuck, I am growing serious and old.
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Mar 25, 2021
THIS.CONNECT: Integrity, Resilience & Discipline
ADOSSIER X THIS.CONNECT
What is the call-to-action to succeed in life? All it really takes is, the simple concoction of: Resilience, Integrity & Discipline. The only true enemy is ourselves.
In Episode 3 of our collaboration, MK and I delved into how empowering it can be to have mental strength and we discuss the real-time trouble of why, discipline is difficult for so many people. We even came out with exercises to assist you, 😊.
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Mar 20, 2021
OFFSIDE: Royals, Even They Do Stupid Shit For Love, "Toxic Mums" & How Responsibility of Kids, Shouldn't Just Fall On Mothers
There are genocides in the world happening and of course, one has to be on Oprah, speaking of how unfair her life is. WAIT.. racism & bullying are not at all okay, but can't you be more privileged? How many beings have dies due to the injustice of racism or bullying? What are your plans to lessen the injustice for yourself and every one after telling your story? Call to action?
Also, in one of the questionnaires I have in my IG, I talked about heartaches. And one of the inputs were "Having a Toxic Mum", which is heartbreaking. Talked about it with a friend and here I am, unpacking it from my own experience. But, isn't it a bit unfair to blame it on only Mothers?
At the end of the day, it hurts and we have to do something about it (case to case), but when either one of the party passes away, none of the arguments or material things is gonna matter. Our lesson & challenge here is: Forgiveness.
PS: Everyone makes horrible or great decisions when in love.
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Mar 19, 2021
FRI-K: Nothing But Thieves - Lover, Please Stay Cover ;
Come hug.
Was feeling a little bit sappy, so.. one of my favorite love songs from one of my fave underrated English rock bands, Nothing But Thieves.
Enjoy!
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Mar 10, 2021
THIS.CONNECT: Courage
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When was the last time you live your life courageously? Or, did something courageous?
In the 2nd episode of this collaboration, MK & me unpack the meaning to live your life with courage. We discuss admitting to needing help, fear vs. courage, and steps to start living your life without regrets.
Don't forget to check out THIS.CONNECT latest art installation at Tzu Chi Humanistic Youth Centre from 7th March 2021 - 6th June 2021.
Check out THIS.CONNECT:
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IG: @thisconnect.today
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Mar 6, 2021
OFFSIDE: Dreams
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I dreamt of a toilet bowl and peed on my ex's mattress. I also had knee jerk movements when I was falling from a tree in my sleep.
So, what's yours?
Also, New Amsterdam & Marvelous Mrs Maisel.
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Feb 17, 2021
THIS.CONNECT, Part 2: Self-Love
ADOSSIER X THIS.CONNECT: SELF-LOVE
If we can forgive other people, why can’t we forgive ourselves?
Is the validation from society, hindering you from being the better you?
What do you do to love or recharge yourself?
Self-Love Vs. Narcissism
In Part Two, we round up the importance of self-love, ways to practice self-love and the thin line between self-love vs. narcissism.
Check out THIS.CONNECT:
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IG: @thisconnect.today
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Feb 17, 2021
THIS.CONNECT, Part 1 : Love
ADOSSIER X THIS.CONNECT
Where did we learn to love?
Why do we have an “ideal partner” list?
The different types of love.
How do we know we are in a toxic relationship?
In Part One, in conjunction to Valentine’s Day, MK (This.Connect) and me uncover all the answers to the questions above and the number one hack of making a healthy relationship, possible: Self-Awareness. We zoom into sensory influences that sways our decisions in choosing our life partners or their lack thereof from elements such as, movies, social circle etc.
Check out THIS.CONNECT:
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IG: @thisconnect.today
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Feb 14, 2021
OFFSIDE: My Battle With Eczema (also, the start of my love for combat boots!)
I remember crying myself to sleep because of the itch that Eczema brought me when I was younger. But, thank god, with YEARS of researching and split tests, I have it under control now.
I share with you what are the products that you can use if you do have Eczema and the food that you should stay the hell away from.
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Feb 12, 2021
FRI-K: James Arthur - Breathe
Here's one to prepare you for Valentine's Day. Also because I have a crazy crush on James Arthur.
Sorry if I murdered this song, of course he sings it better.
HAPPY VALENTINE'S!
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Feb 7, 2021
OFFSIDE: My Circle Rehab; Why, Who You Surround Yourself With Is Important ;
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This one's for the beings suffering in friendships, relationships, marriage, jobs or any kind of "ships". I gotchu. Here's my proposition on why people should walk away more, IF there is no love. The universe really has better plans for you.
You plan, but you also have to deal with it as it comes. That way you won't have a heart attack.
There is a reason why former addicts go to rehab. To get BETTER. Surround yourself with better people.
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Jan 30, 2021
OFFSIDE: Honest Mistakes; Armie Hammer Leaked DMs & Owning My Honest Mistakes ;
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Guess what? Oliver Twist (he was Oliver in the popular movie, 'Call Me By Your Name').
I always believe, things that happen behind closed doors, should remain behind closed doors. Just like food, everybody has preferences. Some are adventurous with their food, some can eat the same dish every single day. Some share the same favorite food, while others don't.
Hence, like every other sex associated topic, I question the psychology and probabilities behind Armie's DMs.
Also, I share some of my honest mistakes that was painfully embarrassing.
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Jan 27, 2021
Good Times: Our Childhood Games, Chapteh/Jianzi/Jegichagi & Many More Names ;
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While the world is falling apart, let's think of happier times: CHILDHOOD.
Did you know that our Singaporean childhood game, "Chapteh" has many different names and is known around the South East Asia region? Jianzi, Da Cau, Jegichagi, Sipa and more?
The beauty of South East Asia, we're all interconnected. We can stop fighting about Nasi Lemak now. Well, except the claim for Nasi Ambeng or Kerabu. That one? Must fight.
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Jan 23, 2021
OFFSIDE: Domestic Violence, Johnny Depp Vs. Amber Heard ;
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In Singapore, men account for more than 66% of all suicides in 2019. Not only women experience domestic violence.
In this episode, we debunk the irregularities of Amber Heard’s deposition that might possibly show gaslighting signs towards Johnny Depp. Are men really suppose to just take it in and not seek help just because they’re “men”?
These are the numbers to call if you are experiencing domestic violence, spread the word:
ComCare Call : 1800-222-0000 , SOS (24 hours daily) 1800-221-4444
MSF Child Protective Service :1800-777-0000
Care Corner Project Start: 6476 1482
PAVE Integrated Services for Individual and Family Protection Specialist Centre (ISIFPSC) :6555 0390
TRANS SAFE Centre : 6449 9088
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Jan 20, 2021
Part 1: THIS.CONNECT: Threading Worlds Exhibition, Mental Health & Suicide Prevention Awareness In Singapore Through The Exhibition ;
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Singaporean social artist duo Hunny & Lummy, presents its multidisciplinary exhibition, ThisConnect: Threading Worlds, which aims to encourage masses to experience and converse their truths. The exhibition was first launched, in conjunction with Suicide Prevention Awareness Month in September 2020.
In Part 1, we unpack the different elements that lead to mental distress in Singapore, especially with Covid, internally and externally.
I personally have been to the full exhibition at 1 Neil Road. The raw and honest documentations and audio-video artworks have touched, moved, and created greater awareness for people to re-examine fundamentally what it means to be a human being; from various dimensions of human connections and relationships, from oneself to other(s) to our natural world encapsulated via their participatory-instructional art coupled with conscious conversations, that shines through.
One of the works, I Feel You portrays 2 complete strangers…
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Jan 20, 2021
Part 2: THIS.CONNECT: Threading Worlds Exhibition, Mental Health & Suicide Prevention Awareness In Singapore Through The Exhibition ;
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Singaporean social artist duo Hunny & Lummy, presents its multidisciplinary exhibition, ThisConnect: Threading Worlds, which aims to encourage masses to experience and converse their truths. The exhibition was first launched, in conjunction with Suicide Prevention Awareness Month in September 2020.
In Part 2, MK shares the tools needed, to take care of our mental health and some of the works in the exhibition.
Below are the dates and venues for the exhibition, all are open to public.
Full Exhibition:
(17 Dec 20’ - 30 Jan 21’) 1 Neil Road, #03-02 (Main Entrance), S088804
Satellite Venues:
(17 Dec 20’ - 17 Jan 21’) Temasek Shophouse
(2 Jan 21’ - 8 Feb 21’) Library @ orchard
(2 Jan 21’ - 8 Feb 21’) Tzu Chi Humanistic Youth Centre
For more information, head to https://www.thisconnect.today
https://www.facebook.com/thisconnect.today
https://www.instagram.com/thisconnect.today
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Dec 10, 2020
FRI-K: Arctic Monkeys - Do I Wanna Know? ;
I had to put up a picture of Jung Woo Sung to get the feel for this. HAHA!
Also, ARCTIC MONKEYS LIVE IN ROYAL ALBERT HALL IS OUT YALL!
I miss live music. I miss concerts. Come, let's sing our hearts out.
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Nov 29, 2020
OFFSIDE #26: Living With Aging Parents ;
In Singapore, it is common that you live with your immediate family until you get married and can buy a house. But not many people can bear or want to do the heavy lifting of living with aging parents when their senses are deteriorating as we speak. It is not easy, trust me. You argue over the slightest things. You barely sleep because you are worried that they might fall or die in their sleep.
But, I also realize it is not the time to pick our wounds over what they did and what they didn't. It is a privilege if we did that.
One advice: They only have so much time and despite the silly times that they might have put us through, look at their great sacrifices as well. Fear of regretting is forever. Also, parents listening, be easy on your kids. They're still trying to figure it out as much as you are (yes, Mama & Papa). But, I'm sure they love you with all their hearts.
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Nov 14, 2020
OFFSIDE #25: Celebrities That Age Well, Baybeats 2020 & ScottyLum ;
Sometimes, you just want to look at pretty things just as it is. James Marsden & Monica Bellucci is at the top of my list.
Did you get to go to Baybeats 2020 this year? I'm not a Baybeat go-er but, I'd have to say, it looks interesting this year. Still prefer crowded live music festival.
And the only reason why I brought up ScottyLum is because, it's just interesting to watch how people actually get heated discussing different faiths. When are people gonna realize that, none is wrong, it is just to learn, right? No validation needed. We should learn from each other. But also, I think there is no moderator.
Join me and share your opinions. You know where to find me.
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Nov 12, 2020
FRI-K: Sara Bareilles - Gravity Cover ;
Has always been one of my favorite songs, will always stay one of my favorite songs. Sara always writes her songs full of body, edge and then a twist. I miss her music.
Enjoy and sing along, if you want to. =)
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Nov 7, 2020
OFFSIDE #24: Runaway Girl & Preserving Your Worth ;
Over Scallops, I caught up with a previous co-worker & we were connecting the dots over what unfolded in our previous employment in 2018 which left us with red flags & a few scabs. Sure, call us weak, call us not cut for it. But, how is it that everybody knows so much on how to perform in interviews but so little about exiting? Countless of us, leave a company or are dismissed, second-guessing ourselves & to begin with, we don't even have low self-esteem.
Especially during Covid, this needs addressing because, you should know, if you get dismissed or retrenched(for reasons that are unknown), there are other means to earn a sincere salary. This is just a bump. You are no lesser a person. You are worth it! So, sharpen those skills! =)
Thanksgiving is coming too, so if you need affordable Stainless Steel jewelry for gifts, head to @adosejewellery on IG.
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Oct 24, 2020
OFFSIDE #23: Hardship 3, I Had A Panic Attack Whilst Being The 3rd Owner of My House ;
One of the reasons why, sometimes I get exhausted of taking care and understanding people. Hence, now, just at the smell of suspicion, I walk away.
It took me 3 years to get back up on my feet, to be mentally healthy again, after this incident, after the first breakup and after a second different toxic breakup.
I hope to share this hardship of mine of becoming a 3rd owner of my house, partially reluctant because it is someone's else baggage, might be of takeaway for you. You can try to hate a person for their mistakes, but you can't, so the pain stays.
This was also the cause of my first panic attack. Really thought I was going to die.
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Oct 18, 2020
OFFSIDE #22: Embracing My Fear In Business & Podcast Woes ;
Dipping yourself in Chocolate & whipped cream, is much easier than dipping your toes into business. I admit to my fears in this episode & answer your question why I am not, in anytime soon moving to YouTube.
With things that I lost along the way, I work harder, every single time.
May documenting my journey in podcasting & mid-range jewelry industry, be of value to you.
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Oct 15, 2020
FRI-K: (Malay Song) Dato' Siti Nurhaliza - Diari Hatimu Cover ;
My podcast, my karaoke session. So deprived. HAHAHA!
But guys, don't mind me. Come. Sing along with me while I strain my chords to sing with Tok Ti. I hope to be able to karaoke with you guys, soon.
I grew up admiring Dato' Siti Nurhaliza vocal chords like mad, so here goes nothing..
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Oct 14, 2020
Ep. 23: Shafique Bhaktiar, The Last King Podcast ; PART 2, Hypersensitivity, Movie Breakdowns & Meditation ;
Shafique is honestly one of the best conversationalist, a knowledgeable and need I mention, a very quick-witted human being that I am fortunate to have on my podcast. Just listen to this podcast and observe how upbeat the conversation is.
In Part 2, we discuss about the alarming trend of hypersensitivity within youths, his favorite movies & how we both agree that meditation helps A LOT.
IG: @shafiquebhaktiar
FB: https://www.facebook.com/lastkingpodcast
Listen to them on Spotify, Itunes, Google & all the major podcast platforms.
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Oct 14, 2020
Ep. 23: Shafique Bhaktiar, The Last King Podcast ; PART 1, Podcasting Then & Now, Movies , Joana Rogan & A Lot More
So, there's a surge in podcast, ya, we know. Well, I like to introduce quality ones. If you're a movie buff in SG, you've heard of them.
In this episode, I am humbled to have Shafique Bhaktiar from The Last King Podcast and literally, we talked about EVERYTHING in just the first part.
So, we started from The Academy Awards, where The Last King Podcast is now, Joe Rogan and honestly, how cerebral, podcasting is in comparison to YouTube.
IG: @shafiquebhaktiar
FB: https://www.facebook.com/lastkingpodcast
Listen to them on Spotify, Itunes, Google & all the major podcast platforms.
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Oct 4, 2020
OFFSIDE #21: Some of Our Emotional Baggage, Are Because of Our Parents
Even as adults, how is it possible that our emotional baggage are derived from things our parents has said to us, from years ago? Does that justify that forgiveness is easier said than done? That we're all actually kids just achieving because all we ever wanted was our parents validation?
For the young ones listening, if you have a dream and you have your own means, go for your dreams. Never penalize your parents, still love them, but, don't fret if they don't acknowledge what you want to do.
Ultimately, the sweet taste of success is yours and with that, comes great responsibility for you to push make it happen.
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Sep 26, 2020
OFFSIDE #20: Is It True That Men Are Intimidated By Successful Women? Let's discuss ;
DISCLAIMER: I didn't get to say this but, this podcast is not suitable for children. Reason for the EXPLICIT icon. May contain strong language.
Have you been told to be more "womanly"? (Still don't know what the hell that means)
Or, have you always felt that men don't meet up to when they say they love strong women, but actually, fall short in loving them? Then, tune in.
And I need to say, that this podcast is in no way, men-hating. I love men. I just want to discuss why secretaries are always the choice for affairs in comparison to women bosses.
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Sep 25, 2020
FRI-K: (Malay Song) Siti Sarah - Kesetiaan Cover (Just My Vocals) ;
Treat this as a lullaby and then you can on the Timer on Spotify. Treat this like a more fun version of the Calm app, HAHA!
Its all about Audio for me, isn't it? I'm currently experimenting with what works best to help you go through life, with Audio. If done right, I might even be able to Karaoke with you online, if you can still manoeuvre the internet and your instrument, silmultaneously. Cause' I can only give my voice. HAHAHAHA!
Tell me what you think! Enjoy!
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Sep 18, 2020
EP. 22 : Hypnotherapy; PART 1, McKing's Journey Into Conversational Hypnosis
I am very fortunate to have Lee McKing, Hypnotist, winner of the 2020 South East Asia Business Awards and co-author of 3 books titled, “Because, I’m Introvert”, “The Better Business Book” and “Activate Your Life”. Join my conversation with him as he unpacks why he decided on Hypnotherapy, the different types of Hypnosis and his clients success stories in Part 1. Lee McKing’s Website: https://leemcking.sg/ IG/FB: @leemckingthehypnotist Books are available on: Amazon.com Lazada NOWFOODS link: https://c.lazada.sg/t/c.be1vwj?url=https%3A%2F%2Fc.lazada.sg%2Ft%2Fc.be1vwj%3Furl%3D
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Sep 18, 2020
EP. 22 : Hypnotheraphy; PART 2, McKing's Journey Into Conversational Hypnosis
I am very fortunate to have Lee McKing, Hypnotist, winner of the 2020 South East Asia Business Awards and co-author of 3 books titled, “Because, I’m Introvert”, “The Better Business Book” and “Activate Your Life”.
In Part 2, I ask him about the reception of Hypnosis in Asia, what would he do if he is not a Hypnotist & funny rapid fire session.
Lee McKing’s Website: https://leemcking.sg/
IG/FB: @leemckingthehypnotist
Books are available on: Amazon.com
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Sep 12, 2020
OFFSIDE #19: Why You Should Watch The Social Dilemma on Netflix
Because honestly there are bigger things in the world to care about, instead of viewing influencers beefing or a rigged election. AI is already happening under your fingertips. And the only way out, is to use your mind to think.
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Sep 5, 2020
OFFSIDE #18: Bloody Backhanded Compliments ;
"I like that dress on you, it makes you look thinner".
Ever had one of these? I did, a few weeks ago. And that's why I'm ranting about it.
I'll sit with you and help you out on how to counter these assholes.
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Sep 3, 2020
FRI-K: Demi Lovato - Tell Me You Love Me Cover ;
If only the veins from my neck singing this song can convert to cash.
Pardon the imperfect pitches. Love Demi Lovato's voice though. One of the best singers of her age.
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Aug 27, 2020
EP. 21: Artificial Intelligence, Deepfakes ;
What if a really skilled AI artist mimics Trump's expression, records a press conference, calling war on the world and airing it?
I'm not kidding, any visual alteration is possible. And, unfortunate to say, you have it on your phone.
Does Doublicat or Reface app rings a bell?
Deepfakes video references:
Travis Bott, Jack Park Canny Dope Man Music Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3UwLhqcZqxc
Jordan Peele, Obama: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cQ54GDm1eL0
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Aug 20, 2020
EP. 20: Sex Trafficking; The Rothschild of Internet Porn: Mindgeek ;
Who is the face behind Pornhub and all the internet porn tube sites? Well, you would or wouldn't be too surprised. And their website sure looked nothing like anyone who owns a gabijillion adult entertainment sites.
Tune in, as I unpack the company behind Pornhub, the present Pornhub saga and possible ways that you can fulfill your sexual cravings without Porn. Be responsible.
Sign the petition to bring down Pornhub at: https://traffickinghubpetition.com/
If you are ever faced with a possible Trafficking situation, locally, these are the contacts:
Police hotline 6435 0000 or email SPF-Report-Trafficking@spf.gov.sg
Ministry of Manpower 6438 5122 or email mom_fmmd@mom.gov.sg
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Aug 12, 2020
OFFSIDE #17: My Bad Week, Good Girls & The Weirdest Item I Purchased During Covid ;
All I can think of is Rio saying, "Hey Mama..". Tune in to find out what weird item I bought during Covid (HAHA!)
As promised, here are the numbers that you will need in your trying times or for anyone you know that might have suicidal thoughts or mental health concerns.
1) Samaritans Of Singapore: 1800 221 4444 (24 Hours Hotline)
2) Silver Ribbon: 6385-3714
3) TOUCHline, Youth Counselling - 1800 377 2252 (Monday, 9am - 6pm)
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Aug 6, 2020
FRI-K: Alicia Keys - If I Ain't Got You ;
Alicia Keys, the amazing Miss Keys.
Come, unwind on this Friday night with me. Singing really helps the mind.
Pardon the imperfections in my vocals.
Enjoy!
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Aug 6, 2020
Ep.19: Content Creation; MUKBANG , Extreme Eating or An Emotional Support Group? And, Reconstructing It ;
I bet you never thought about Mukbang this way, did you? My Mum stroked my curiosity and it all began with Kate Yup . Little did I know, that Mukbang does serve as a support group for the people who have eating disorders.
Jennifer Katanyoutanant website: https://jenkatanyo.com/
Singapore General Hospital: https://www.sgh.com.sg/patient-care/specialties-services/Eating-Disorders-Programme
Support for Eating Disorders (SEDS) toll free: 1800 283 7019 (9am – 1pm, 2pm – 6pm, Mondays to Fridays, except holidays).
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Aug 1, 2020
OFFSIDE #16: Bizarre YouTube Content That My Mum Found ;
Being on lockdown during the Covid-19 pandemic, has made me realize that I am the parent & my Mum - the kid. She's into YouTube to learn things. But, there was this one content that made.. even me, worried.
Listen in to find out which personality's content that caused concern. Who would have known, because it involves food.
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Jul 30, 2020
FRI-K: (Malay Song) Alyah - Sesal Separuh Nyawa Cover ;
For my international listeners, this is me singing in my Mother Tongue language: Malay.
Its a song from an impeccable Malaysian artist, Alyah. And to direct translate: SESAL = Regret, SEPARUH = Half, NYAWA = Life. You just learned Malay, you're welcome.
Its a song about missing a lover that you have let go of.
Pardon the imperfections in my vocals.
ENJOY!
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Jul 30, 2020
EP. 18: PART 2, Relationships: The Joys, The Downfall, The In-Betweens & Persevering Through Our Long-Distance Relationship ;
Well, we cried on this one, alright.
Join Cam & me as we cry, share tips on the benefits of LDR relationships and hear him drop jewels, about how to start and survive in the creative industry.
Follow Cameron on IG & all major social media platforms: @thetrailergamer
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Jul 30, 2020
EP. 18: PART 1, Relationships: The Joys, The Downfall, The In-Betweens & Persevering Through Our Long-Distance Relationship ;
I invite my fiancee, Cameron (to be the first male guest on my show! HEH!), as we bare our souls in hopes to inspire any of you who is listening to find love and maybe, life.
Join us in Part 1, as we rekindle Murica', Singapore, Ouray, celebrity sightings and how we met. Long-distance isn't as easy as it seems.
Lots of mush, sex and tears as we rekindle our best moments and open up about worst moments in life and relationships.
If like me, you are inspired by him too, follow him on his streaming and digital creative journey @thetrailergamer on FB, IG and all social media platforms.
DON'T GIVE UP.
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Jul 18, 2020
OFFSIDE #15: Stupid "Cancel Culture", Jim Twins & Womanising Men ;
Cancel culture is passion, abused. Ugh, I hate it. Like, what rights are you actually fighting for, when you are willing to put the person beside you in jeopardy?
Also, since, comedy is slowly endangered and there's nothing left to joke about, I made an endearing joke about men. YAY!
For my ladies, Jim Good Filth. Thank me later.
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Jun 21, 2020
OFFSIDE #14: Compartmentalising The OLG Saga As A Human Being, A Woman, A Fellow Podcaster & A Part Of Society ;
I hate labels. I really hate them. We, humans give power to it without realizing the weight.
Communication is a 2-way model. What you say, can be used with or against you at any point of time.
I was so affected because I didn't want to see the day, that masses would misconstrue the magic in podcasting in a negative light. Also, I know how much good intentions & hard work go into podcasting, hence, I feel for the trio. As a woman, I also know how trigger words can trip me back to memory lane of a haunted past. This is more than evident why compartmentalizing is critical.
I said this once and I'll say it again in a positive light, content creators are never content. Myself, included. That's why we started on this journey because we want to project that belief in our heads that we can bring something bigger & better to the table.
However, curating your content to the degree of compromising your creativity is a very, very slippery slope. I've been there so many times.
I almost g…
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May 30, 2020
OFFSIDE #13: George Floyd, Let's Not Be Complacent Singaporeans & Personal Good Muslim/Bad Muslim Experience
What didn't happen around us, doesn't mean it won't happen to us. A good friend always advised me in Malay," Jangan Cakap Sudah" to anything in life.
We're a multicultural country that continues to strive against race discrimination, individually, but in no way are our lives jeopardized throughout the journey.
Also, I'm sharing my personal experience of overcoming religious ivory towers goers just because, I don't come from a pious family and because, I had a history.
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May 29, 2020
FRI-K: Dua Lipa, Pretty Please Cover
Lockdown. Got bored, love singing but can't go out to karaoke with my best friends, so my platform became my victim, shamelessly.
Its Friday, let down your hair. Sing along.
Can't get enough of Dua Lipa's new album.
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May 27, 2020
Ep. 17: Non-Verbal Communication; The Badasses Who Discovered Sign Language Literally Owns The Middle Finger
While we get caught in the lockdown, what about people with disabilities? Are we gonna count them out?
The Deaf or Hard of Hearing has always been strong in my head when I first wanted to start ADOSSIER.
The least I can do as of now is learn their language & let the world know, that ignorance is a choice. It is not bliss.
Why ask them to conform to "norms", when we can learn their language?
I hate Aristotle & I can't curse him because, I was recording this during the fasting month. Ooh, its gonna get awkward without profanities.
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May 23, 2020
OFFSIDE #12: Benefits Of A Melancholy Eid, Spark AR Studio & Help Migrant Workers ;
EID MUBARAK, SWEETHEARTS! AYEE TO ALL TH HOT KAKAK KEBAYA & ABANG HANDSOME BUT ALIM IN KURTAS(I LIKE!).
Amidst the lockdown, amidst the pang of loneliness, we get to dodge annoying trivial questions that the elderly might think are icebreakers. Okay, boomers.
Tune in to find out what are the best memories of Eid, in Singapore, how I did an Instagram AR questionnaire & how to assist the current condition of migrant workers in Singapore.
I swear to god my Malay Singaporean is jutting out more often on the seams now.
Links to assist migrant workers:
TWC2: https://twc2.org.sg/
CMSC: https://rayofhope.sg/campaign/covid-19-migrant-support-coalition/
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Apr 20, 2020
OFFSIDE #11: Emotional Implants by Shah Rukh Khan, My Scumbag Brains & Disco Levitating ;
Recorded this at 3 am in the morning and I am asking you to fully enjoy, how demented I can be while sleep deprived.
It's all about being vulnerable.
Get off your ivory towers and hear me sing, dance and yap about Dearest Mr. Shah Rukh Khan, my really crude thoughts about the Coronavirus & how Disco shaped ADOSSIER's aesthetic uplift.
I should really start charging you guys.
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Apr 18, 2020
Ep. 16: Self-Isolation; Hikikomori: A Capitalist Intervention or A Social Condition?
What's that? Life in the Covid-19 lockdown is terrible for you just because you can't go outside to play, work and see your friends or loved ones?
Oh, BIG boohoo.
Just so you know, there are disowned war kids, sitting by the streets, domestic violence happening during this lockdown as we speak and there are people who have been living in isolation FOR YEARS: they're called Hikikomori in Japan. Come and listen to this episode, to kill time and actually learn something, this lockdown.
Let's all be safe, responsible & grow some vagina during these trying times.
Amen.
Atsushi Watanabe website: https://www.atsushi-watanabe.jp/english-1/
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Apr 2, 2020
Ep. 15: LA History; Is It Hollywood Or Holy-wood?
Try Googling Hollywood, Illinois OR Holywood, Dumfriesshire, Scotland and tell me what you'll find.
Believe it or not, Hollywood actually started really holy. I got curious because I stared at the sign for too long.
But, between the Mother & Father of Hollywood, which one do you deem true?
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Jan 25, 2020
OFFSIDE #10: Shida In LA; I Have Social Anxiety
I'M BACKKK!
Get cosy as I open up about how I realized I may have social anxiety after being in LA, California, 3 times and what I am going to do about it.
Funny thing is.. I have performed on stage before. I just suck at small talk.
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Nov 11, 2019
OFFSIDE #9: I Am A Malay Woman; How Do I Explain To People About My Race?
My ethnicity is Malay, so how do I explain that to my foreign friends? Do you have that difficulty too? Our history is so rich & vast that I'll end up starting a history class. Like yeah, you're Bawean, Java or Bugis, but how far do you know, get what I mean?
And there is a resaon why Malay people features, look so close to Thais, Vietnamese, Filipinos, Papua New Guinea, Australian aborigines and even Hawaiian people.
My maternal side is Malaysian, Negeri Sembilan. My great grandma, whom I am fortunate to meet, speaks Bahasa Nogoghi & Tail. I'm sure coming from Negeri Sembilan, we have Minangkabau blood but I found out from one of my aunt that my long, long ancestors were of Russian descent. Influence or origin, I don't know. My paternal side is of Malaccan descent and it was said that my great grandmother has Chinese blood? Once again, influence or origin, god knows.
Bloodlines, man. I feel like I opened a whole Pandora Box of tabs when I try to research my bloodline. Please,…
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Nov 6, 2019
Ep. 14: About Infertility; Persevering Against Social Stigmas & Wan, Her One True Love. This is Zee’s Success Story ;
“So, when are you gonna have kids?”, is not an icebreaker question. The practice of careless formalities in our society, have caused a lot more damage than necessary. Has our lives really turned into a shopping list, that we have to self-impose, our list to our surroundings for the comfort validation of being “normal”?
In Episode 14, I get to sit down with a dear friend, Zee, a co-founder & one half of PlayPause as she opens up about her journey through infertility.
We reminisced about how we met - Beats Society, a once Hip Hop organisation in SG, talked about PLayPause's success, when she discovered she was infertile, what Prolactinoma is, how Wan, her husband has been her strongest support system & how she persevered through the difficult times, among other topics.
To anyone who is suffering from the repercussions of infertility or anyone who can relate to this, I hope in some ways, your heart is cured with laughter & hope after listening to this.
This story wouldn…
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Nov 4, 2019
OFFSIDE #8: I Would Rather Be A Ghost Than A Superhero. Definitely, Pontianak & The People I Would Haunt ;
In OFFSIDE #8, LOVED ONES..I would haunt you. Listen to find out if I am going to haunt you. How am I going to haunt you? Go to www.adossier.wordpress.com because, too much details to speak, so write. Also, I was not kidding when I say I curse like a.. let's not say, sailor...let's say, I curse like a man who hasn't had sex for a month. CRANNNKY.
In conjunction to Halloween, being a superhero is too much responsibility. Have fun, be a ghost.
Tune in to find out why, I was a little bit disheartened about my podcast, how I pulled through & what the next main content of ADOSSIER is gonna be. Ladies, you might want to tune in. I've talked about sex & period, too often. But, this time, HINT: It is also about our private parts opening up to a new life.
FOR SINGAPOREANS & NEW FOREIGN FRIENDS: FOODPANDA GOODIES AT THE END. SO...LISTEN.
I love you, bye.
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Oct 30, 2019
Ep. 13, Part 2: True Crime; A Recent Malacca-Singapore Murder That Hits Too Close To Home. This is Ada’s Story ;
Listen to Part 1 first, before you listen to Part 2.
If you have read about a recent murder case of a Singaporean husband killing his wife & stepson in Malacca, this is it. Ada, is Finn's younger sister and coincidentally enough, the world has aligned us; she is a co-worker & a friend of mine. In light of this case, both families were in chaos and since the case went viral on social media, the comments did not do any good to any one of them, while they were grieving.
In Part 2, I narrate the progress of the case, up to the recent week.
How sure are you, that this will not happen to any one of us? What secures it? I pray that it doesn't even comes close. But once again, I believe, everything is written. Let this be a lesson to ALL of us. May the families involved get their peace and clarity in their hearts soon enough. May all of us, strive to be better human beings that will be will accountable for our ways around this world and in this case, around social media. Freedom of spee…
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Oct 30, 2019
Ep. 13, Part 1: True Crime; A Recent Malacca-Singapore Murder That Hits Too Close To Home. This is Ada’s Story ;
I never thought murder would hit close to home. Circle, in fact. Especially, in Singapore. But, the surrealism of this case has opened my eyes to a reminder that: we are NOTHING but just small, puny human beings on this Earth and ANYTHING can happen to us. Even if in the eyes of everyone, the thing that happens to us is "evil" or "tragic", all of us will eventually die.
In movies, we are often watching murder from the angle of the victim. But in this case, I am viewing it from the angle of the family of the accused.
If you have read about a recent murder case of a Singaporean husband killing his wife & stepson in Malacca, this is it. Ada, is Finn's younger sister and coincidentally enough, the world has aligned us; she is a co-worker & a friend of mine. In light of this case, both families were in chaos and since the case went viral on social media, the comments did not do any good to any one of them, while they were grieving.
In Part 1, I narrate how I got to find out about…
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Oct 19, 2019
OFFSIDE #7: Daniel Sloss, How Women Masturbate (Men, Let’s Learn) & Sex Ed NEEDS to Buck Up ;
Casual sundays.
Saw Daniel Sloss. Love Daniel Sloss. Swear to god, Daniel Sloss is the male version of me because I’ve talk about the unfairness of women, having to be expected to perform well when in bed when some men can’t even eat pussy or jackhammering our clit ( when that’s not suppose to happen).
Join the exhausted & mindless me, Shida Osman, as I share with you, the multiple ways that women masturbates, how I think Sex Education should change & why I think Men, might be the culprit behind their wives, not wanting to have sex.
Men, after this episode, please don’t jackhammer a goddamn clit to begin, its never arousing and please talk to your wives and ask her how can you help so that she’ll sleep with you, again. Women, don’t be an asshole & expect them to be mind readers.
I love you. Have a good week!
IG: @adossierpodcast
Twitter: @adossierpodcast
Facebook: @aedossier
Wordpress: www.adossier.wordpress.com
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Oct 16, 2019
Ep. 12: Podcasting; The Surge in Singapore & What That Means For Traditional Media ;
This is the "hustle" era, where conversations have become quantity over quality, unfortunately. Digital revolution over the industrial revolution.
In Singapore, there is a huge surge in the podcasting industry. Not that it wasn't known before, but because this time, it has the potential to unlock a passive income and eventually, break the vanilla cycle of the Media industry in Singapore. So, stop asking me whether I'm going to migrate to YouTube. I like vocals. If anything is visually disturbing, you can always use a paper bag over. As long as it has a great voice.
The podcasting scene in Singapore has the potential to reach badassery. Successful Asian counterparts for podcasting: South Korea & China.
And, I can't stop listening to STEPS. *disco disco disco*. SEND HELP.
Wordpress: www.adossier.wordpress.com
IG: @adossierpodcast
Twitter: @adossierpodcast
Facebook: @adossier
Email: aedossier@gmail.com
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Sep 28, 2019
OFFSIDE #6: I Figured Why Women Love True Crime & Theories of Why Men Die Earlier Than Women ;
I still have not listened to a True Crime podcast, up till now. Visually, I am sold to Sherlock & Luther. I gathered my girlfriends & asked them why they love True Crime podcast & the answer was different as day & night. Plus, pertaining to True Crime podcasts, with such a word as death that comes to mind, a coffee conversation between me & my besties firrstarted a death chart comparison of who passes away first. Tune in to find out more.
Angry Shida = Morbid Shida.
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Sep 25, 2019
Ep. 11: Sanity; Comedy. Suppression or Cathartic?
Ever found yourself laughing during a death? Then, guess what? You need psychiatric help.
KIDDING.
Do you remember the amount of times, that you sat down and laughed when your life was in complete ruins?
In episode 11, I uncover the term term Comedy for you & the different elements that goes into.
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Aug 11, 2019
OFFSIDE #5: Finally sorta HAPPY ( And, Scared Shitless) ; “When They See Us”, That Question on Instagram, Why I Don’t Hate Rich People Anymore & Prettipls Video ;
“When They See Us”, broke me as a person. I was overwhelmed with own feelings, after I watched it. YOU MUST WATCH.
Follow this episode, to find out why I took the plunge to open up about being molested, why we need to stop hating certain things in life (unless, they have destroyed your life) & of course, the Prettipls (“Brownfacing”) video.
Sometimes, freedom of speech isn’t everything. Questioning intentions, are. We live in a world where its just bland words vs. filtering. Meh.
PS: That was a legit neighbor laughing. It was not a Pontianak (a female ghost in Singapore, which still scares the heck out of me).
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Apr 19, 2019
Ep. 10, Part 3: Medical, What Is Trigeminal Neuralgia & The Fight Against (with Amanda Young)
I got curious because I had migraines, DAILY.
Join me and guest, Amanda Young from Face The Change as we unravel the different degrees of Trigeminal Neuralgia. Amanda shares her achievements, travel stories, her blessings, her trial & tribulations during this journey & shares her expertise on the alternatives of dealing with the pain.
In Episode 3, we shared about how it is growing up in Asian households, our dear mothers, our preference over traditional medicine & her future dreams for TN.
Face The Change - www.facethechange.org
Amanda’s Insta: @ayoungwayoflife
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Apr 19, 2019
Ep. 10, Part 2: Medical, What Is Trigeminal Neuralgia & The Fight Against (with Amanda Young)
I got curious because I had migraines, DAILY.
Join me and guest, Amanda Young from Face The Change as we unravel the different degrees of Trigeminal Neuralgia. Amanda shares her achievements, travel stories, her blessings, her trial & tribulations during this journey & shares her expertise on the alternatives of dealing with the pain.
In Episode 2, Amanda shares her story of the worst attack that she had and the scar it left, emotionally.
Face The Change - www.facethechange.org
Amanda’s Insta: @ayoungwayoflife
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Apr 19, 2019
Ep. 10, Part 1: Medical, What Is Trigeminal Neuralgia & The Fight Against (with Amanda Young)
I got curious because I had migraines, DAILY.
Join me and guest, Amanda Young from Face The Change as we unravel the different degrees of Trigeminal Neuralgia. Amanda shares her achievements, travel stories, her blessings, her trial & tribulations during this journey & shares her expertise on the alternatives of dealing with the pain.
In Episode 2, Amanda shares her story of the worst attack that she had and the scar it left, emotionally.
I got curious because I had migraines, DAILY.
Join me and guest, Amanda Young from Face The Change as we unravel the different degrees of Trigeminal Neuralgia. Amanda shares her achievements, travel stories, her blessings, her trial & tribulations during this journey & shares her expertise on the alternatives of dealing with the pain.
I am very honoured to be given this opportunity to speak to a very beautiful soul that persists through the written challenges in life. Trust me, you’ll be enchanted by her spirit like how I was.
Will be broken d…
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Apr 14, 2019
OFFSIDE #4: Part 2. Why I Fell In Love With Other People’s Live podcast
If you haven’t noticed, I have a strong palette for the unorthodox.
Other than listening to cuckold, Tourette syndrome & multiple personality disorder stories, you’ll quickly understand how humbling it is to live around these interesting beings.
Push your ego aside, as Danny & Me, uncovers an episode from OPL, about a Micropenis.
It has a happy ending.
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Apr 14, 2019
OFFSIDE #4: Part 1. Grimes? /Interview with Danny from The Economical Rice podcast
OFFSIDE #4: Part 1.
I do not know how to appreciate Grimes because I think my spirit animal is, Billie Eilish.
Listen to how Danny, from The Economical Podcast & me, talk about surviving as independent podcasters, my inspiration for my podcast & my podcast go to.
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Mar 3, 2019
OFFSIDE #3: Allegiance of Assholes; Consumers, Trump, Jussie Smollett & “Ali” Went Clubbing, Again.
All human beings want to do good ( well, except for some Presidents), but everybody has that streak of asshole that can really start a war.
YOU’RE AN ASSHOLE! YOU’RE AN ASSHOLE! EVERYBODY’S AN ASSHOLE! *in Oprah’s voice*.
Join me, as I take you through awful guests in my part time job, how hard it is being a woman sometimes, that one horrible ex partner of mine (asshole, really don’t cut it), Trump(who else?!) & exactly like that horrible ex partner of mine, we’ll talk about “Ali”, who went away from his wife, yet again.
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Feb 10, 2019
OFFSIDE #2: I was Emily Rose; My Close Brush of Death W/ OGC & Dystonia, Abused Nuns & Emma Maembong
My Mum cried because she thought someone did black magic on me, pervert priests, possibly where religious porn are derived & PEOPLE WHO ARE NOSY, ANNOY THE HECK OUT OF ME.
OK. BYE.
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Feb 3, 2019
OFFSIDE #1: DivaCup, Lenny Rahman (GASPS!), Elderly Suicides in Singapore & Jussie Smollett ;
I think I should be sponsored by DivaCup.
Tune in to OFFSIDE, as I invite you into my happy but scumbag brains to reveal everything raw about local & international happenings, online & offline.
OFFSIDE: #1, covers my enthusiasm for DivaCup, my perspectives on irresponsible consumers of social media, the worrying increase of elderly suicide in Singapore & Jussie Smollett.
UNCENSORED.
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Jan 17, 2019
Ep. 9: Aesthetics, How Flipping A Nude Can Motivate Your New Year (Calendars, Not Porn SFW)
A finger is not the only thing that you can flip, which will change your life. Coin tosses mean shit in comparison to flipping this.
Join me in Episode 9 to uncover this overlooked, very important item that might change your whole life this New Year. There’s still hope.
Once again, not porn.
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Dec 20, 2018
Ep. 8: Sex-Ed, Objectifying Men & Hidden Sex Services in Singapore
Gender number 2, is the one with the alpha sex drive. And yes, we suffer from blue balls too.
Find out why I wanted to be an Editor in Chief for a Porn magazine.
The world is not unfair. We just have to live in moderation. Like Asian mothers always say, “Don’t have too much fun or you’ll cry later “.
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Nov 22, 2018
Ep. 7: Philosophy, The Unity of Opposites
Good news! I might be able to offer possible explanations to why your heart and mind are constantly battling each other every time you're making a decision. Like how Joker needs Batman.
Plus, find out why I think the Ying Yang twins aren't spelling bees.
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Nov 8, 2018
Ep. 6: Mental Health, Insecurities
That hypothetical mental picture of that beautiful woman and your partner in bed together. AND, THAT NON-EXISTENT HURT. Why do we feel this way? How do we deal with it? Ep. 6 discusses different sets of insecurities we face on a daily basis and the real reason behind it. Especially for women.
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Oct 15, 2018
Ep. 5: Language, Flavours of English
Has the English language done more damage than good?
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May 1, 2018
Ep. 4: Equality, Champion Genders: Men, Where The Hell Are You?
I strongly believe that the rise in Feminism was caused by Men. Don't lose faith yet, ladies, there are great men/husbands that made the list.
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Apr 16, 2018
Ep. 3: Mental Health, The Rise of ASMR
Do you like hearing people eat? If you do, then this episode is definitely for you. Learn all about ASMR & how it would benefit your mental health. (includes sexual benefits too! 😂🙈)
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Apr 13, 2018
Ep. 2: Politics,Celebrity Politicians & Then, Singapore
About Mark Zuckerberg's Hearing & How Singapore Succeeds In Being A Multicultural Country. Not for the easily offended! =)
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Apr 11, 2018
Ep. 1 (Debut): About, Ae' Dossier
Who is Ae' Dossier?
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