In this episode, Dai shares the story of his journey from obesity and depression to becoming a health and fitness leader. Listen in to hear Kayvon and Dai talk health, personal transformation, and why it's important to “Embrace the Suck”.
Time Stamped Show Notes:
● 01:00– Introduction
● 02:30– “Am I living my life to my maximum capacity?”
● 03:20– The grandeur of nature pushes us to look for a place in the world
● 04:45– “Just before going to sleep is when I wonder about my place”
● 06:00– AquaNotes:“No more great ideas down the drain”
● 07:10– Exchanges with the people around us bring happiness
● 07:47– Dai shares his story
● 08:00– “My lifestyle changed when I was nine...my parents divorced”
● 09:00– “I consoled myself with things I had control over - food, video games”
● 10:50– Became morbidly obese as a teenager and was severely depressed
● 12:10– Brokedown aged 14 in front of the mirror - had a turning point
● 14:26– “I was not going to continue down that path”
● 15:02– joined a gym with a friend and started cycling every day
● 15:50– “I started enjoying my body...I started feeling really good.”
● 16:50– “I started believing that I could do the things I set my mind to.”
● 18:00– “I dedicated myself to helping people transform”
● 18:50– Lifestyle transformation - health is the most important thing in your life
● 20:15– “Health is not tied to age...it’s timeless”
● 22:00– “Life gives you hints about your health...first a nudge, then a push, then a mac truck”
● 24:25– “It all starts with you...if you do the work you’ll get the results”
● 25:00– Dai started selling fitness equipment and eventually built his own business
● 27:40– “We get used to living in a state of ill health”
● 28:50– “Equipment is not the solution”
● 30:10– You have to go back to basics...focusing on equipment is abandoning the solution
● 31:20– Visit Dai’sblog to learn more about his journey
● 32:50– What are the changes you would make in the next 3 years to increase your happiness?
● 33:30– Travel more; focus on his family; create content that helps people
● 36:00– What would your answer to that question be? Continue the conversation.
● 38:30– “Embrace the Suck” - Life will be joyful and easy afterward
● 39:03– “Get comfortable with feeling uncomfortable’
● 40:15– Get in touch - tell us what you want to hear!
3 Key Points:
1. Get comfortable with feeling uncomfortable
2. Either make time for health or make time for illness: one of them is inevitable
3. Everything starts with you. Take responsibility, put the work in, and you’ll start to see change.
Resources Mentioned:
● AquaNotes– Waterproof notes for those great ideas that come you in the shower
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