In Episode #13 Kayvon and Dai talk about empathy. Listen in to hear about putting yourself in someone else’s shoes, how empathy is a skill like any other, and what you can do to develop it.
Time Stamped Show Notes:
● 00:40 – Introduction
● 01:43 – “Empathy is the most under-utilized human emotion”
● 02:15 – Empathy is both an emotion and a skill
● 03:22 – Dealing with your own challenges lets you get closer to how other people are feeling
● 04:20 – Kayvon had English as a second language - so he knows the definition of ‘empathy’ and ‘sympathy’
● 05:25 – Sympathy is acknowledging others’ emotions - empathy is understanding them
● 06:30 – People are very quick to judge
● 07:50 – How do you go about teaching yourself empathy?
● 09:00 – Life experience helps to produce empathy
● 11:30 – Sometimes there is too much of an experience gap to empathize
● 15:00 – Bedside manner - how do doctors manage empathy?
● 17:20 – Patients are helped by a doctor’s empathy
● 19:15 – Parents want nothing more than to make their kids’ sadness go away
● 20:15 – Empathy is a skill that we need to practice
● 21:02 – Try to put yourself in someone else’s shoes before the next episode
● 21:30 – Tell us how it goes! We’d love to hear back from you.
3 Key Points:
1. Empathy isn’t practiced enough - people are often quick to judge
2. To practice empathy, turn to your own experiences. When have you felt something similar?
3. Honest connections rely on empathy
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