How do you view yourself? You may find yourself believing you are what others have said about you. You may be allowing your past to define you. It could be that you find your identity in your successes. None of those options are healthy. If we get this wrong, we sabotage our relationships. If we get it right, it gives us a firm foundation from which to live. God wants you to have a healthy self-image, to understand your self-worth, to live free from self, & to be free to live for things greater than yourself.