There are plenty if books and TV, movies and YouTube clips out there talking about whether men and women can be friends but few about can men be friends with other men. Studies show men are poorly prepared by our culture to be masculine men who know the power of emotional expression. The number one killer of men is loneliness which is associated with obesity, elevated blood pressure and a compromised immune system. And yes, our women are many things to our world yet they can not truely understand and related to the lived experience of a man. The biggest part missing from men’s life is the fight for and connection of menships.