Cruel Summer Book Club
Jillian Anthony
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Cruel Summer Book Club is a podcast about change—one of life’s only certainties. Host Jillian Anthony (author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter and former Editor of Time Out New York) has honest conversations with authors, artists, life coaches, and others who share wisdom about experiencing Big Change, how they got through it, and what they learned on the other side.
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Dec 30, 2022
How to Welcome 2023 With Intention (And Say Goodbye to 2022)
On this solo episode, host _Jillian Anthony_ (writer, editor, and author of the _Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter_) shares her favorite ways to intentionally usher in the new year. She shares her experience with Year Compass, the free workbook she fills out every January, and how it’s helped her make real change — and identify which things she fails to change year after year. She also shares some other New Year resources and talks about her favorite books of 2022. Happy new year!
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Instagram: _@jillathrilla__
_Twitter: _@jillathrilla__
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Time stamps
1:52 – Jillian’s favorite books of 2022
2:02 – A Heart That Works by Rob Delaney
2:49 – 4000 Weeks by Oliver Burkeman
4:48 – Sober Curious by Ruby Warrington
5:30 – Hear more of Jillian’s sobriety journey on Catherine Andrew’s podcast _The Sunday Soother__
_5:47 – How to use _Year Compass_ to welcome a new year
7:58 – Jillian’s big dreams for the year ahead at the start of 2021
10:32 – How many of those dreams came true
11:02 – Things Jillian hasn’t changed year after year
11:25 – And the things Jillian has changed
13:14 – Picking your word of the year (_susannahconway.com_)
14:00 – Align your priorities with the Four-Square Model (_franhauser.com_)
15:28 – Keep track of the best thing that happened during your week for a year
16:09 – Jillian’s bucket list dreams
16:42 – A special New Year’s message for you
17:35 – Where you can find Jillian --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jillian-anthony/message
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Dec 6, 2022
Get Swole with Casey Johnston
Casey Johnston is the author of the long-running column _Ask a Swole Woman_, which now lives on her newsletter, _She’s a Beast_. She also wrote a book for beginner strength trainers called _Liftoff: Couch to Barbell_, which outlines a 12-week program on the basics of lifting, and fosters an online community for women strength trainers (and everyone else who might not fit into the gym bro stereotype). Host Jillian Anthony (writer, editor, and author of the _Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter_) used Casey’s book as a guide to ease back into lifting after a long break. Casey talks about how strength training changed her relationship to food, exercise, and her own body; why “losing weight” isn’t a great motivator; and how it’s an important life skill to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
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Follow guest Casey Johnston:
Newsletter: _shesabeast.co__
_Book: _Liftoff: Couch to Barbell__
_Twitter: _@caseyjohnston__
_Instagram: _@swolewoman_
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Instagram: _@jillathrilla__
_Twitter: _@jillathrilla__
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Nov 29, 2022
Tarot for Change with Jessica Dore
Author Jessica Dore combines the wisdom of ancient storytelling, the mysticism of Tarot, and the teachings of psychology in her book, Tarot for Change: Using the Cards for Self-care, Acceptance, and Growth. A licensed social worker, she writes regular offerings to readers online, using the images of the 78 cards of the Tarot deck and the characters she studies in folklore to weave affecting stories of how we can embrace the archetypes that are ever-present in our own lives — and use Tarot as a tool for change. Host Jillian Anthony (writer, editor, and author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter) talks with Jessica about how she practices Tarot in her own life, how you can start building a relationship with the Tarot cards, and Jillian’s tarot pull about 2022 — a year of big changes.
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Book: _Tarot for Change__
_Offerings newsletter: _jessicadore.substack.com__
__Twitter_ and _Instagram_: @thejessicadore
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Instagram: _@jillathrilla__
_Twitter: _@jillathrilla__
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Time stamps
1:14 – Jillian is reading: Desert Oracle by Ken Layne
2:51 – Jillian’s obsession: her new cat Dusty!
4:02 – Introducing guest Jessica Dore
5:00 – Jessica’s obsession: her garden
7:27 – The basics of Tarot
10:04 – How and why Jessica wrote Tarot for Change
12:46 – Jessica’s approach to Tarot as a social worker
21:46 – How Jessica uses Tarot in her own life
28:36 – How to start building a relationship with Tarot cards
30:49 – Jillian’s Tarot practice
33:00 – Jillian discusses her Tarot pull about her year with Jessica
49:35 – Art that helped Jessica through a difficult time: the Visconti Sforza Tarot deck
53:02 – Jessica’s joy bomb: her puppy, and their routine
56:08 – Where you can follow Jessica --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jillian-anthony/message
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Nov 22, 2022
Financial Freedom with Stella Gold
What if you approached money from a place of abundance, rather than restriction? Stella Gold will show you the way. Stella is a certified, trauma-informed financial wellness educator — and host Jillian Anthony’s former financial advisor. Their business, My Gold Standard, helps people understand the emotions, experiences, and desires behind how they spend money, and build wealth along the way. Stella’s entire life changed when their father died suddenly, leaving Stella and their mother to sort through the impenetrable financial processes of the government. In this episode, Stella tells Jillian about their own financial education and wealth journey; how grief shaped their future; and what it was like to fully step into their nonbinary identity.
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Instagram: @mygoldstandard_
_Website: mygoldstandard.co
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Instagram: _@jillathrilla__
_Twitter: _@jillathrilla__
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Time stamps
1:11 – Jillian is reading 4000 Weeks by Oliver Burkeman
3:09 – Jillian’s obsession: Taylor Swift’s “Midnights”
4:52 – Introducing guest Stella Gold
5:54 – Stella’s obsession: eels
8:00 – Stella explains their work as a certified trauma-informed financial wellness educator
11:16 – Financial literacy, and focusing on abundance instead of restriction
15:02 – The impact the sudden death of Stella’s father had on their life
22:22 – Stella’s travel and finances in the midst of grief
28:57 – Stella’s journey to starting their own company
34:34 – What My Gold Standard is all about and Stella’s love for entrepreneurship
37:18 – What it’s like to work with Stella
39:42 – How Stella embraced their nonbinary identity
47:04 – Discovering nonbinary people in Stella’s Filipino ancestry
48:30 – Stella’s they/them pronouns
50:08 – Stella’s finance book recommendations: The Law of Divine Compensation by Marianne Williamson
51:26 – The Sum of Us by Heather McGhee
52:31 – My Grandmother’s Hands by Resmaa Menakem
53:13 – Decolonize Wealth by Edgar Villanueva: “Money is medicine”
53:43 – A piece of art that helped Stella through a hard time: The On Being podcast
56:36 – Stella’s joy bomb: Body movement
59:24 – Where to follow Stella --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jillian-anthony/message
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Nov 15, 2022
Nicole Cardoza Makes Magic
Nicole Cardoza practices radical imagination, and wants you to as well. She may be best known as the creator of the _Anti-Racism Daily newsletter_, which began shortly after the murder of George Floyd and now reaches hundreds of thousands of subscribers. But Nicole also manages Reclamation Ventures, which invests in projects committed to health and racial equity; runs the _Banned Books Book Club_; and is currently on tour as a magician. Host Jillian Anthony (writer, editor, and author of the _Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter_) asks Nicole what it was like to watch Anti-Racism Daily gain such sudden popularity, and the self-care practices she adopted to see her through an intense professional learning curve. Plus, they discuss closing the “wellness gap;” what it’s like to be a Black, queer, female magician; and Nicole’s pandemic months spent in the wilds of Alaska.
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Follow guest Nicole Cardoza:
Website and newsletter: _nicoleacordoza.com__
_Instagram and Twitter: _@nicoleacardoza__
_Anti-Racism Daily newsletter: _antiracismdaily.com_
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Instagram: _@jillathrilla__
_Twitter: _@jillathrilla__
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Time stamps
2:33 – Jillian is reading A Brief History of Time by Stephen Hawking
4:41 – Jillian’s obsession: The Real Housewives of Potomac
6:34 – Introducing guest Nicole Cardoza
7:11 – Nicole’s obsession with radical imagination
9:45 – Nicole’s fall tour as a magician
11:13 – Being a good community member in Austin, a blue dot in a red state
13:30 – Nicole’s upbringing and early interest in magic
15:53 – Nicole’s growth in yoga and the wellness space
17:45 – What is the “wellness gap?”
20:44 – The beginning of Anti-Racism Daily and its growth
26:52 – How Nicole leveled up professionally
32:10 – How Nicole continually educates herself about social issues
35:18 – Nicole’s mental and physical wellness practices
37:28 – Nicole spent months in Alaska during the pandemic
41:01 – Breaking down Nicole’s other businesses
42:10 – Nicole’s goals for Reclamation Ventures and as a performer
44:14 – Nicole’s experience as a Black, queer, female magician
46:46 – Banned Books Book Club, and the rise of book banning in the USA
52:22 – Nicole’s art: “I Found My Smile Again” by Jaylen Pigford
53:48 – Nicole’s joy bomb: Morning walks with her dog to get coffee
55:42 – Where to follow Nicole’s work --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jillian-anthony/message
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Nov 1, 2022
Dylan Marron Talks with People Who Hate Him
Writer, actor, and podcast host Dylan Marron has made a career out of doing something few of us will ever do: talking to internet strangers who said unkind things to him online. When Dylan began publishing video series to a large online audience, he started taking screenshots of the hateful comments people left and saved them in a “hate folder” on his computer. One Facebook chat with an 18-year-old commenter led to the remarkable first episode of his podcast, Conversations with People Who Hate Me, and his first book of the same name. Host Jillian Anthony (author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter and former Editor of Time Out New York) talks with Dylan about how these difficult conversations changed how he exists online and in real life, and how kindness and empathy can radically change how we interact with those who disagree with us. Plus they discuss what it was like for Dylan to take 13 months off social media, how he finally got his book over the finish line after a two-year delay, and how author Anne Lamott’s advice to write a “sh*tty first draft” makes him a better writer.
Follow guest Dylan Marron:
Website: _dylanmarron.com__
_Instagram: _@dylanmarron__
_Twitter: _@dylanmarron__
_Book: _Conversations with People Who Hate Me__
_Podcast: _Conversations with People Who Hate Me_
Follow host Jillian Anthony:
Instagram: @jillathrilla
Twitter: @jillathrilla
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Time stamps
1:08 – Reading Into Thin Air by Jon Krakaeur
5:23 – Jillian’s obsession with _Nimsdai__
_7:41 – Introducing guest Dylan Marron
8:27 – Dylan’s obsession with car detailing videos from _@thedetailgeek__
_10:47 – How Jillian knows Dylan and his husband Todd
16:20 – Dylan’s early theater experience with the New York Neo Futurists
19:02 – More on Dylan’s work and video series at Seriously.tv
22:42 – When Dylan began collecting hateful comments from online strangers
25:31 – What it was like to talk to Dylan’s first guest for Conversations with People Who Hate Me
31:15 – Why Dylan doesn’t describe internet detractors as trolls
36:42 – What “empathy is not endorsement” means
40:34 – How Dylan has reshaped how he exists online
44:04 – Kindness and empathy won’t heal what ails us, but they will help
46:55 – Dylan took 13 months off social media to write his book
49:31 – How being offline for over a year reshaped Dylan’s relationship to social media
53:48 – Dylan talks about missing his book deadline by two years, and the writing process
55:33 – Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott and the freedom of the “sh*tty first draft”
1:03:46 – Two books that helped Dylan write: Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott and Writing Down the Bones by Natalie Goldberg
1:05:35 – Dylan’s joy bomb: taking a nap
1:07:07 – Where you can follow Dylan --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jillian-anthony/message
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Oct 25, 2022
Why Your Vote (and Donation) Matters with Brian Derrick
Figuring out who to vote for, where and when to donate, and why it all matters can be so confusing. Democratic political strategist Brian Derrick wants to help change that. You may know him from Instagram, where he demystifies upcoming political races and shares how you can actually make a difference, either with donations or through actions. Last year he founded Oath, a site that helps Democrats know which candidate to donate to, and when, so that their dollars will make the most impact. Host Jillian Anthony (freelance writer and editor, and the former Editor of Time Out New York) asks Brian all of her burning political questions, including: When is the best time to make a political donation? What is rage-donating? Why is it important to call members of Congress? What do Democrats need to know and do to influence real change in our nation? And does my vote actually matter? Listen and learn!
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Follow guest Brian Derrick:
Instagram: _@brianderrick___
__Oath_
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Instagram: _@jillathrilla__
_Twitter: _@jillathrilla__
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Time stamps:
1:12 – Reading Fun Home by Alison Bechdel
3:05 – Obsessed with cool fall morning air
5:01 – Introducing guest Brian Derrick
5:51 – Brian’s obsessed with Survivor
10:22 – How Brian got into politics on social media
13:39 – Brian’s goal to help people effectively donate to causes and politicians
14:20 – Brian’s career development
19:37 – Founding Oath to help people make greater impacts
22:40 – Rage funding, and why it often doesn’t make sense
28:12 – Why do donations matter?
28:33 – Why you should invest early in the cycle
34:08 – Why is voter turnout so low for local elections? And why are they important?
38:58 – Can you name your local politicians?
41:17 – Why is it important to call members of Congress? Does it actually make a difference?
47:18 – What Brian has to say to people who don’t think their votes matter
50:32 – Why Republicans are winning the long game, and why Democrats need to play the same game
52:14 – Brian’s love of Broadway and Falsettos
55:08 – Brian’s joy bomb of getting out of the city, and watching bloopers from Veep and Parks and Recreation
57:23– Where to follow Brian --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jillian-anthony/message
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Oct 18, 2022
Tiffany Philippou on Suicide, Shame, and a Decade of Healing
Tiffany Philippou (author of the newsletter The Tiff Weekly) joins the podcast all the way from the United Kingdom. Tiffany’s first book, the memoir Totally Fine (and Other Lies I’ve Told Myself), chronicles the tumultuous decade she experienced after her university boyfriend died by suicide when Tiffany was 20 years old. She and host Jillian Anthony (author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter and former Editor of Time Out New York) discuss stuffing grief down, the long process of healing through writing (and therapy), and how much cultural discussions around mental health care have changed since we were in school. Tiffany also shares how she didn’t start writing for work or pleasure until she was almost 30—one writing class gave her the idea for her book, and she was a published author just a few years later.
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Follow guest Tiffany Philippou:
Instagram: _@tiffphilippou__
_Twitter: _@tiffphilippou__
_Buy _Totally Fine (and Other Lies I’ve Told myself)__
_Subscribe to _The Tiff Weekly_
Follow host Jillian Anthony:
Instagram: _@jillathrilla__
_Twitter: _@jillathrilla__
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Time stamps
:37 – Reading The Lost Daughter by Elena Ferrante
3:17 – Obsessing over my local Buy Nothing group
5:24 – Introducing guest Tiffany Philippou
8:02 – Tiffany’s obsession: reading books on writing by writers
12:04 – How Tiffany became a writer at 30
18:18 – How a writing workshop sparked her first book
21:11 – Tiffany’s boyfriend’s death by suicide, and coping with grief
25:09 – How trauma affected Tiffany’s memories
27:53 – Writing through shame and forgiving her younger self
31:35 – How cultural attitudes about mental health have changed in the past 10+ years
35:00 – Tiffany’s shifting relationship with alcohol, and the cultural place of booze in the UK
39:13 – Jillian’s shifting relationship to alcohol and being sober curious
40:47 – Tiffany’s romantic relationships
43:36 – Loving people through fear
48:40 – Tiffany’s love of the TV show Friends
50:44 – Tiffany’s joy bomb of hot yoga
54:06 – Where to follow Tiffany --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jillian-anthony/message
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Oct 11, 2022
Samantha Stallard Asks, Can Men and Women Be Friends?
Writer Samantha Stallard (and Jillian’s bestie) returns to the pod! She and host Jillian Anthony (author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter and the former Editor of Time Out New York) discuss the complications of friendships between heterosexual men and women, and what it’s like to date as a woman in your 30s who doesn’t want to get married or have kids. Plus, Samantha talks about the power of self-parenting, the joy of moving back to New York City after two difficult years away, and the comfort of the rare friendships that feel like family. (And don’t forget to check out Samantha’s episode from season one, where she discusses when she broke off an engagement and left New York, and the healing process that followed.)
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Follow guest Samantha Stallard:
Twitter: _@SJStallard_
Website: _https://www.samanthajstallard.com_
Follow host Jillian Anthony:
Twitter: _@jillathrilla__
_Instagram: _@jillathrilla__
_Subscribe to the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter: _https://cruelsummerbookclub.substack.com/subscribe_
Time stamps:
2:00 – Discussing Emily Ratajkowski's My Body
7:10 – Discussing The People We Meet on Vacation by Emily Henry
9:43 – Can men and women be friends?
12:45 – Dating with friendship in mind
17:00 – Friendship breakup with a male friend
20:48 – Sam’s big breakup, and returning to New York City
25:37 – Traveling to Italy together and taking five weeks off work
29:05 – Looking out for your future self and self-parenting
29:57 – Practicing thought control and living in the present
36:26 – Samantha meets her future self
39:32 – Dating as a women in her 30s who doesn’t want marriage or kids
46:11 – Dating when you don’t want to be in a relationship
49:06 – Why we need to give women more space to have choices in their lives
53:00 – The challenges of making friends as an adult
57:12 – The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron
1:02:30 – Where to follow Samantha
Transcript link: _https://cruelsummerbookclub.substack.com/p/transcript-samantha-stallard-asks_ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jillian-anthony/message
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Oct 4, 2022
A Year of Big Changes in Work, Sobriety, and Friendship
Host Jillian Anthony (author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter and former Editor of Time Out New York) ushers in the second season of the podcast with a solo episode. She discusses the three biggest changes in her life over the past year: 1. She deprioritized work, while building a freelance writing and editing career. 2. She spent the first 167 days of the year sober. 3. She felt the heavy impact of changes in her friendships and social circles.
Follow host Jillian Anthony:
Twitter: _@jillathrilla__
_Instagram: _@jillathrilla__
_Subscribe to the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter: _https://cruelsummerbookclub.substack.com/subscribe_
Time stamps
1:10 – Guest lineup and what you can expect this season
3:32 – Three big changes for Jillian this year
4:01 – Deprioritizing work
5:38 – Imagining what a new work life could look like
6:17 – Resources that helped Jillian reprioritize
8:16 – Forming a freelance life
11:21 – Planning a month off in Europe
13:57 – Gifts of freelance life
16:10 – Exploring long term sobriety
16:53 – Jillian’s discomfort with her relationship to alcohol
20:00 – Choosing 100 days of sobriety
20:29 – What is sober curious?
21:50 – What Jillian learned through sobriety
25:27 – Changing friendships
25:49 – How many friends can you have?
29:20 – Write a Friendship Circle
31:15 – Intentional plans for fall
32:53 – Outro
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Resources:
Life coach Catherine Andrews: _https://www.catherinedandrews.com__
_The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron: _https://juliacameronlive.com__
_Fran Hauser’s Four-Square Model: _https://www.franhauser.com/blog/my-secret-tool-to-setting-boundaries__
_YearCompass: _https://yearcompass.com__
_Sober Curious by Ruby Warrington: _http://www.rubywarrington.com/books/sober-curious__
_The Sober Curious Reset by Ruby Warrington: _http://www.rubywarrington.com/books/sober-curious-reset__
_Friends: Understanding the Power of Our Most Important Relationships by Robin Dunbar: _https://bookshop.org/books/friends-understanding-the-power-of-our-most-important-relationships-9780349143576/9781408711736_
Robin Dunbar’s Friendship Circle
Transcript link: _https://cruelsummerbookclub.substack.com/p/transcript-a-year-of-big-changes_ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jillian-anthony/message
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Sep 30, 2021
Episode 9: Adam J. Kurtz Makes Art on His Own Terms
Artist and author Adam J. Kurtz was supposed to turn in the manuscript for his fourth book in April 2020. Instead, he and his husband weathered the worst of the pandemic in Brooklyn, and as most of Adam’s creative work disappeared, he was forced to transform. Host Jillian Anthony (author of the _Cruel Summer Book Club_ newsletter and former Editor of Time Out New York) talks with Adam about his upcoming book of essays and art, You Are Here (For Now), about facing mortality with as much joy and creativity as you can. And Adam discusses leaving New York behind to move in with his in-laws in Honolulu; the importance of having a “F*ck Off Fund”; and the simple fact that we are all artists.
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Sep 23, 2021
Episode 8: Ashley C. Ford Wrote Her Way to the Truth
Author Ashley C. Ford worked on her memoir, Somebody’s Daughter, for ten years before it was released this summer and instantly shot to the New York Times bestseller list. Ashley talks with host Jillian Anthony (author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter and former Editor of Time Out New York) about releasing herself from secrets and shame through writing her family’s story, how therapy helped her finish her book, and the importance of teaching children consent from an early age.
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Order Somebody’s Daughter
Twitter: @ismashfizzle
Instagram: @smashfizzle
Newsletter: Somebody’s Notes
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Sep 16, 2021
Episode 7: Survivor’s Francesca Hogi Knows How to Manifest Love
Francesca Hogi lovingly calls herself the biggest loser in Survivor history—she was the first one voted off the island, twice—but her big losses motivated her to change her entire life. Host Jillian Anthony (author of the _Cruel Summer Book Club_ newsletter and former Editor of Time Out New York) talks to the host of the Dear Franny podcast about dealing with the fallout of Survivor, quitting her job as a lawyer to become a love coach, the importance of vulnerability and self-worth in dating, and how to manifest true love.
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Instagram: _@dearfranny__
_Twitter: _@dearfranny__
_Clubhouse: _@dearfranny__
__Dear Franny podcast…
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Sep 2, 2021
Episode 6: Susie Bannon Went to Prison and Got Sober
At age 29, Dr. Susie Bannon got her fourth DWI and went to prison for 11 months. The injustices she witnessed there changed the course of her life, inspiring her to earn her Ph.D. in communication and become an activist for prison abolition. Now 12 years sober, Dr. Bannon tells host Jillian Anthony (author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter and former editor of Time Out New York) about growing up with an alcoholic mother, why probation and all the expenses that come along with it sets people up to fail, and the healing that longtime sobriety can bring.
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Aug 25, 2021
Episode 5 - Soren and Mirabai Opened Up Their Marriage
Soren and Mirabai were monogamous for 15 years before they opened up their marriage—and polyamory helped their relationship flourish. Host Jillian Anthony (author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter and former Editor of Time Out New York) talks with the ethically nonmonogamous couple about how they navigated opening up their long-term relationship, the lessons of The Ethical Slut, and why we should all challenge the cultural assumption that monogamy is the only path to a meaningful relationship.
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Twitter: @jillathrilla
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Aug 18, 2021
Episode 4 - Catherine Andrews Made Shame Her Superpower
Life coach Catherine Andrews specializes in helping sensitive women overcome fear and achieve their life, love and career goals. Host Jillian Anthony (author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter and former Editor of Time Out New York) talks about a big lesson she learned from Catherine’s newsletter and podcast, The Sunday Soother: “Lead with your shame.” Plus, the women discuss quitting your job to become an entrepreneur, overcoming codependency, and struggling to find a peaceful balance with alcohol.
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Aug 11, 2021
Episode 3 - David Odyssey Reads the Stars
Host Jillian Anthony (author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter and former Editor of Time Out New York) talks to Nylon’s astrology columnist David Odyssey. Years ago, Jillian met David when she hired him at Time Out New York—since then, he left 9-to-5 life behind to be a go-go dancer, host the podcast The Luminaries, and give private astrology readings. And he recently entered a sexual abuse recovery program that renewed his hope for positive change in his life.
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Aug 4, 2021
Episode 2 - Samantha Stallard Called Off Her Engagement
Host Jillian Anthony (author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter and former Editor of Time Out New York) talks to writer Samantha Stallard (PopSugar, Thought Catalog). The best friends discuss supporting each other along parallel paths of grief and healing, centering friendship in their lives, and how antidepressants changed Samantha’s life for the better.
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Aug 3, 2021
Episode 1 - Jillian Anthony Embraces Change
Host Jillian Anthony (author of the Cruel Summer Book Club newsletter and former Editor of Time Out New York) discusses the massive changes in her life over the last few years, including a breakup, being laid off, and embracing the life of a freelance writer, and recently moving from New York City to Austin, Texas. She shares three of the main lessons she’s learned about mental health and personal growth while writing her newsletter, Cruel Summer Book Club.
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