SWM 066 – Dec 2020 Questions – Shaking legs, wife changed after separation, birth control and more

Well, it’s a new month, a new year, but we still have a few things to tidy up from last year.  One of them is the anonymous questions we received in December from our Have A Question page.  Before we get to them though, I want to let you know about a new product we have in our shop.  I had a reader ask if our Truth or Dare game was available as a printable.  Many years ago, I built a free web-based version of it, which you can find here.  Frankly, it was just a fun project to brush up on my jQuery programming skills.  Not the best interface, sometimes it breaks and I don’t realize it, and if you refresh the page, then your session is lost.  That’s why it’s free. 

This reader wanted to know if he could buy a printable version - one that doesn’t lose your spot when you hit the wrong button while both of you are already all worked up and ready to go.  Plus, lube and laptops - not a great mix.  So, I took some time and built it this December.  It’s been in the shop for a couple of weeks, but I haven’t told anyone about it other than the reader who asked for it.  Of course, a few more people have already found it and have been enjoying it.

If you liked our online version, or just want to try the printable one, you can grab it here.  To our 59 supporters who give $5 or more a month - check your email, you get it free.  If you have been thinking about joining our forum as a supporter, now is a great time as all new $5/month and more supporters get the printable Truth or Dare game free this month.

Alright, with that out of the way, let’s get on to the questions.

Question 1 - Legs shaking

What do you do next when you are sitting on his face and your legs start shaking.(While sitting on his face, he is eating you out)

It depends on why your legs are shaking.  Some people’s legs shake when they get really aroused.  If that’s the case - enjoy it!  If it’s because of strain on the legs, then either shift somehow that won’t cause as much strain, change positions, or change activities.

Question 2 - Wife changed after separation

Hi Jay. My wife and I were separated for a year. We did date other people during this time and lived apart. The separation came about as a result of my infidelity.  We are now living together again.  At the time, we had been married for 24 years.  What I have observed are changes in my wife such waxing pubic hair, when previously she looked at the suggestion with disdain.  She also now listens to music which a year ago she wouldn't have.  The separation came as a result of years of a very poor sexlife.   I have been using viagra or cialis for a few years, thus total spontaneity is usually not possible. Yet, my wife will act as if it should be, yes, she is aware.  I choose to love my wife, however, I feel that she seems to destroy me on all levels, even though she says she loves me. What am I to do?

Myself, and those in our supporters forum felt there was a lot of missing information here.  For example, we’re not sure at all what causes you to feel destroyed on all levels by her.  Is it because she got interested in sex during your separation?  Is it because she wants sex to be spontaneous and you can’t be?  Is she making condescending or humiliating remarks due to the erectile dysfunction?

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