Ep. 367 How to Ask for What you WANT
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You don’t get what you want without asking for it. It's time to STOP sabotaging yourself and Brad DeMint, host of the How to Win podcast and a killer salesman is here to tell us how. Brad gives us the goods on how to ask for what you want but also how to figure out what it is that you even want in the first place.  




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Sex and Psychology Podcast
Sex and Psychology Podcast
Dr. Justin Lehmiller
Episode 17: Polyamory Fact Versus Fiction
Interest in polyamory is on the rise. Google trends reveal that searches related to polyamory have increased significantly over the last decade. Although interest is climbing, myths and misconceptions about polyamory abound, including the idea that it’s all about sex and that people who are polyamorous “just can’t commit.” It’s time to set the record straight. For this episode of the podcast, I interviewed Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, a sociologist and certified sexuality educator who teaches at the University of Tennessee in Chattanooga. Dr. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children and she has authored multiple books on the subject, including The Polyamorists Next Door and Children in Polyamorous Families. We cover a lot of ground in this episode, including: What does it mean to be “polyamorous?” How many people are in polyamorous relationships or are practicing other forms of consensual non-monogamy? What are the most common things that people get wrong about polyamory? How do children fare in families where the parents are polyamorous? Is it really true that jealousy doesn’t exist in polyamorous relationships? What is “compersion,” and is it possible to experience both compersion and jealousy at the same time? What is it like to be an expert witness on cases dealing with sexual and relationship diversity? How do you know if polyamory or consensual non-monogamy is right for you?
52 min
Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D, Psychology of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education
EP212 - Becoming an Extraordinary Lover with Dr. Peggy Kleinplatz
Welcome to episode 212 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Peggy Kleinplatz to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Kleinplatz talks to me about learning to be present to have more fulfilling sex, how you can learn to be more present and how this is possible for anyone to achieve. Peggy J. Kleinplatz, Ph.D., is Professor in the Faculty of Medicine and Director of the Optimal Sexual Experiences Research Team at the University of Ottawa, Canada. Please see She is a Certified Sex Therapist and Educator. Kleinplatz has edited four books including Sadomasochism: Powerful Pleasures with Charles Moser, Ph.D., M.D., Sexuality and Ageing (2015) with Walter Bouman, M.D. and notably New Directions in Sex Therapy: Innovations and Alternatives, winner of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counsellors and Therapists (AASECT) 2013 Book Award. In 2015, Kleinplatz received the AASECT Professional Standard of Excellence Award. She is the author with A. Dana Menard, Ph.D. of Magnificent Sex: Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers (2020), winner of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research Consumer Book Award for 2021. In this episode, you will hear: * Looking at the findings of the studies Dr Kleinplatz conducted * How many people feel a poorer sex life is just a trade-off of getting older * Ways in which you can learn to fully be present during sex * The importance being present has for fulfilling sex * How did Dr Kleinplatz define what good sex is in their study? * The ways in which group therapy can help to overcome these issues * Why group therapy may work better for you rather than a one to one * Understanding that learning to be present isn’t about sexual technique * Why better sex through being present is possible for anyone to achieve Find Dr. Peggy Kleinplatz https://optimalsexualexperiences.com Quiz: What Kind of Lover are You? http://www.sexologypodcast.com/lover/ Find Dr. Moali online http://www.sexologypodcast.com Find me on social media https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care Farsi Podcast https://sexologypodcast.libsyn.com/rss If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio
31 min
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
She Can’t Decide Between Me & Another Guy
What you should do when a woman you are dating still can’t decide between choosing you or another guy she is dating. In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a guy who lives in a small town of only twenty five thousand people. So his potential dating pool is much smaller than a guy who lives in a city of millions. He’s been casually dating a woman for about two months who is also dating another guy and she still can’t seem to decide whether to choose him or the other guy she is dating. He asks my opinion on how to get her to choose him. If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version: http://bit.ly/CCW3Man Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version: http://amzn.to/1XKRtxd Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3 You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version: http://bit.ly/CCWMY Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version: https://amzn.to/2TQV2Xo Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to purchase Official Coach Corey Wayne branded merchandise (T-Shirts, Mugs, etc.): https://teespring.com/stores/coach-corey-wayne Click the link below to book phone/Skype (audio only) coaching with me personally: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/products Click the link below to make a donation via PayPal to support my work: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=LKGTSSLYJ93J6 Click the link below to read my FREE self-help articles: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/ From my heart to yours, Corey Wayne
22 min
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Leah Carey
Improve your sex life with the STARS talk
STARS is an easy-to-remember acronym for conversations that lead to awesome consensual sex. Dr. Evelin Dacker developed the STARS method to create a way for potential and current partners to have a thorough and safe conversation about physical and relationship expectations. Public Service Announcement: Sometimes discovery is the mother of tension. Intimate play can be easier and much more fun if you go in knowing what each other likes, or doesn’t. Bookmark moments: 2:39 - What is the STARS conversation? Plus, if you’ve had it before, you should have it again. 6:36 - Dr. Evelin Dacker explains sex positivity. 9:03 - As she engaged in health research earlier in her career, she realized there’s a total lack of sex talk in the field. 12:11 - Leah shares an experience she had at her first small group portion of a STARS class. When asked to share what her turn-ons and avoids were, she burst into tears and couldn’t speak. 14:12 – Dr. Dacker breaks down each letter in STARS, and what those categories encompass. For example, dealing with shame and stigma are a part of the STI portion of the talk. 16:21 - Avoids are often boundaries related to trauma and fear; they may not be forever fixed. Also, don’t wait to talk about them until you’re heavy in the bedroom and unable to clearly hear your partner! 24:15 - Leah demonstrates a full STARS talk with her friend Ray. Mentioned in this episode: * havetimeforthetalk.com – The online home for the STARS talk Join me on Patreon: As of July 2020, all Good Girls Talk About Sex audio extras are now FREE! They can be accessed at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex. I've done this because not everyone has the means to pay for access, and I know this additional material can be deeply important for some listeners. But creating this show isn't free, so if you’d like to support the work I do, I am grateful for your contributions at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex. BE PART OF THE SHOW: Rate this pod: Leave a rating and review at www.ratethispodcast.com/goodgirls Have a question or comment - Leave a voicemail for Leah at 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739) - this is a voicemail-only line, so I promise you won't have to talk to someone in person! Be a guest on the show - I'd love to talk with you! Fill out the form at www.leahcarey.com/guest FOLLOW LEAH: Instagram - www.instagram.com/goodgirlstalk Private Facebook Group - www.facebook.com/groups/goodgirlstalk YouTube - www.youtube.com/goodgirlstalk Leah's website - www.leahcarey.com Podcast website - www.goodgirlstalk.com WORK WITH LEAH: Learn about coaching with Leah - www.leahcarey.com/coaching Join a PJ Party for Grown Ups - www.leahcarey.com/pjparty EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak
44 min
Future of Sex
Future of Sex
Future of Sex
Orgasms and the Stigma of Male Sex Toys Feat. Zachary Zane, Cam Fraser, Tobias Zegenhagen
Since we started Future of Sex podcast we’ve seen so many developments in the world of sextech. We’ve seen advances in robotics and sex dolls, apps for mindfulness, education tools providing the sex education we’ve always deserved, not to mention more and more vulva owning celebrities getting behind companies and products in the space. But what about sextech for men and penis owners? Whilst sextech for women and vulva owners has advanced we’re still seeing a stigma around men and penis owners with sextech. Today, we’re excited to cover We-Vibe’s release of the Arcwave ION, a new class of toy for men which claims to mimic a clitoral orgasm. We interview CTO of We-Vibe Tobias Zegenhagen who takes us through the development of how they came up with it, Tom who has what some would think the best job in the world - a sex toy tester for We-Vibe. Tom chats about the new sensations and what his job entails. We also talk with two leading sexperts, writer Zachary Zane and sex coach Cam Fraser. Both share perspectives on the stigma around male sex toys, what an orgasm feels like and what they feel the future will hold for male sextech. Guests * _Zachary Zane _ * _Cam Fraser _ * Tobias Zeganhagen Sponsors - We-Vibe http://www.we-vibe.com - Lover http://www.lover.io Find Us Online - Website: http://www.futureofsex.org - Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/futureofsex - Twitter: http://twitter.com/futureofsexshow - Merch: http://www.futureofsex.org/store Credits - Host: Bryony Cole. Twitter: @bryonycole, Website: http://www.bryonycole.co - Producers: Bryony Cole/David Lamb Instagram: @davylamb - Editor: Chad Michael Snavely Twitter: @chadmichael Website: http://www.chadmichael.com
30 min
Better Sex
Better Sex
Jessa Zimmerman
159: Erotic Blueprints – DD Haeg
On this episode we hear from DD Haeg who tells about the 5 Erotic Blueprints. She explains that this is a map/ language for how to turn each other on. They consist of the following: Energetics : Like to be teased, enjoy anticipation and prefer lighter touch. A sense of spaciousness appeals to them. Sensual: These blueprints indulge in all their senses be engaged. Ambience and candles work for them, and they love to be completely engaged. Sexuals: Respond to very direct sexual gestures, love nudity and quickies! Kinky: These types respond to things that are taboo and will find a power dynamic often at play. Shape Shifters: love everything! DD mentions that sexuals and energetics are the most difficult pairing one could find. Stacking Erotic Blueprints People have one main blueprint and can have elements of the others- this is called a stack. If this is new to you, DD suggests that you take her quiz to help you figure our which blueprint is your main blueprint and then understand your stack. Learning about your stack helps understand the sequence that works for you and this can really help unlock different things you may enjoy. DD discusses the shadow side of these blueprints and what the purpose of knowing your blueprint is. Ultimately this creates a deeper connection between couples. What works for each blueprint: Energetics love eye gazing and anticipation. A text message is an example of this. Sexuals love nudity so a selfie might help. Sensuals would love an essential oil bath. Kinky is very dependent on the partner you have! Shapeshifter would love all these things. Links and Resources Find out more about her Pleasure code program on her website: https://ddhaeg.com/ For my free webinar, How to Help Your Partner Want More Sex WITHOUT making them feel pressure or obligation, go here: https://www.intimacywithease.com/training Background DD Haeg is an international retreat leader, embodiment educator and certified erotic blueprint coach. She’s the founder of The Pleasure Code,™ empowering retreats and online programs that tap into the principles of permission, pleasure and play to help women shift out of overwhelm and into more juiciness and joy. Over the last two decades, DD has travelled to 35 countries, taught hundreds of yoga and meditation classes, and taken more than 1000 hours of pleasure-focused training including Orgasmic Meditation, tantra, massage therapy, and more. She holds a master’s degree in intercultural studies and currently lives in Denver with her two kiddos. More info: Book and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com/ Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/ Better Sex with Jessa Zimmerman https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/ Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/159-erotic-blueprints-dd-haeg
33 min
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice
Sean Jameson
#47 How To Have Sex Every Day with Caitlin & Michael Doemner
Today on the podcast we welcome Caitlin and Michael Doemner, authors of Sex Every Day, who are sharing with us some hands-on tips for enjoying sexual intimacy on a daily basis, regardless of busy schedules, kids and periods.   They talk about their three-step strategy for practicing frequent intimacy, including how you can communicate your sexual desires in a fun way and what you can do to ensure that both you and your partner are always satisfied. Before you think all of this is unattainable for you as a parent of young kids, hang on a minute! They have four kids of their own and advise you on overcoming the logistics of having regular sex with a house full of small children.   Key Points From This Episode   * The interesting story of how Caitlin and Michael got together. * Why sleeping naked is such a natural and effective way to restore intimacy in a relationship. * How the menu metaphor can be used to communicate and express sexual needs. * The importance of being open to both give and receive. * What you can do to maintain intimacy with your partner throughout the day. * A quick review of the five love languages and what they each entail. * Why it is important for couples to prioritize a woman’s pleasure. * What couples with kids can practically do to preserve their intimacy and privacy. * Why a period should not be stopping you from giving and receiving uninterrupted pleasure. * And much more!   Tweetables   “It's really hard to be angry with somebody when you're laying full body contact naked with them and in bed.” [0:04:49]   “The intimacy and the passion, it doesn’t have to be intercourse …there's a lot of different ways that we can please our partners.” [0:19:45]   Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode   Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter Sex Every Day: How to Prioritize Pleasure in your Marriage — http://www.lulu.com/shop/michael-and-caitlin-doemner/sex-every-day-how-to-prioritize-pleasure-in-your-marriage/hardcover/product-23974387.html The Five Love Languages on Amazon — https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts/dp/080241270X Pussy: A Reclamation on Amazon — https://www.amazon.com/Pussy-Reclamation-Regena-Thomashauer/dp/1401950264/ref=sr_1_fkmrnull_1?keywords=pussy%3A+a+reclamation&qid=1555401985&s=books&sr=1-1-fkmrnull Sex Every Day Website — https://www.sexeverydaybook.com/homepage25989259 Sex Every Day on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/QuotidianCoitus/
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